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A day at the spa followed by multiple orgasms works for me!regular_smile
KissesfromCarlee See my TER Reviews 3114 reads
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I went to get my polishing from my favorite NYC dom last night. The centers of pleasure and pains are so linked in the brain. It is important to overide and control the body, to know oneself. I am glad to know what makes me capable to do what I do best.

...by a man who knows what he wants and how to get is sometimes just the thing I need.  Not role-playing (I don’t do that because it feels fake to me and I end up giggling which ruins the mood), but just a man with a dominant, but not overbearing, personality who likes to take charge.  I need someone to make me behave and keep me in line sometimes, because I can be such a bad girl when left to my own devices.  ;-)  All in good fun, of course.

Something that helps revitalize me is long, relaxing, professional massage.  It really can do wonders both physically and mentally.

Whatever she did ...I can attest to the fact that your engine was running perfectly on all of its cylinders.
As for the polish... Showgirl finish.

Rev me up baby!

Cheers!

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Ci Ci4416 reads

sexually speaking:  a great orgasm or two is sufficient for me. However, I love to be carried to the bed and told what to do.

On the personal side:  I don't do it often enough, but a day at a relaxing spa is wonderful. I also enjoy going to a movie by myself with no one to answer to. That is comforting to me. Hey, what can I say, I'm simple.

Hugs,
Ciara

Need to be treated like shit?  Isn't that what the SO is for?

Turkana3216 reads

she was telling you how much she'd love to see you again.

DDEbony3000 reads

Definitely love those!  Highly recommended if you've never done one.  Total rejuvenator.

discovering it. (see nipple torture in a couple of my reviews) but so much of S&M seems based in humiliation which I truly don't need.  Anyone have book or link suggestions?  I want to expediate the process with willing providers but it's not every hobbiest's cup of tea so the reviews lean toward "safe" experiences accordingly.  Pure S&M, at least in the websites I've visited, don't offer much in the pleasure catagory...as if the pain/torture is a substitue for the "relief".  Obviously, getting to know a provider with more than one visit will facilitate my needs and hers...(I wouldn't know if, for example, our Lusious Laurel wanted hair pulling and a spank unless she blurted it out during a session and doing that to an unsuspecting provider could lead to disaster, I imagine.)
 Love to hear provider thoughts on it all,  and hobby-folk too.
 Signed,
Utterly curious with a boner.
 (Jockeypants)

Turkana3670 reads

What you really want is a professional dom or sub, preferably with an equipped facility.  These professionals are trained to have safety and hygiene as their first priorities, and know how to do what they do without endangering you, which is extremely important given what they do.  They are also trained to deliver what you want -- if you don't like humiliation, you don't get it.  If you just want C&B or nipple torture, then that's all you get.  What you do NOT get from a professional dom or sub is sex per se.  But you will get off.  If you check the link,  www.punishmentsquare.com there are a number of links and resources that should lead you to a dom or sub near you.  Alternatively, you may want to visit a retailer who specializes in dom equipment and look for some of the bdsm magazines; they typically contain loads of ads.  

In any event, IMHO, knowing a bit about and experiencing this side of yourself (even if it's to decide you don't like it) is an important part of understanding your sensuality.  If you're a serious hobbyist or seriously interested in sex, you should check it out.

Good luck! Be safe!

Pity you don't live in Australia, the majority of sessions I do have some element of mild S&M/erotic tease to them.  I agree that the full on torture bit is spooky (needles in the balls etc WTF is that about!) but mild bondage, spanking and nipple clamps are bliss and really add a whole new edge of intense eroticisim to the experience.  We have a world renowned (and legal) BDSM bordello in Sydney called Salon Kitty's.  Providers who have completed their apprenticeships or worked as mistresses there are in high demand.

I was an exchange student there when you were in short pants and loved it.  I'm lucky in that I, so far, am only into it "lightly".  (I can find providers willing to bite me and still do the traditional menu items.)  Senusal Dom, as NetMichelle says.  
And thanks, Turk, for the website.  I'm gonna check it out now.
 Jockeypants

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