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Re:Provider question regarding overnight sessions
Ci Ci 4211 reads
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There are many who do overnight sessions. You just need to find someone you're comfortable with and be honest with her about what you would like.

Hugs,
Ciara

I was wondering how many providers actually do overnight sessions? Are there any substantial benefits that we should know when booking a overnight session?

Provider14501 reads

If you have to ask (about the benefits), then they are not for you!!!!  I LOVE them..... going to sleep with someone, awesome middle of the night sensuality, early am wake-up calls from one or the other of us.  But if you have to ask, then stick with your 1-2-3 hr sessions!!!  These are for the more romantic type who enjoy more of the foreplay/ afterplay, in my opinion!!

With a lady who has not had a chance to put on her makeup and do her hair again from the night before.  Plus, lots of cuddling and spooning.  Personally, if I really enjoy someone's company, I greatly prefer this type of sex to the often scripted night-time encounter.

This is NOT for the "I rang six bells in 8 hours" crowd.

I have to say that noone has ever had to worry about me putting on makeup or "fixing" my hair in the morning. I prefer the natural look personally. And who needs to sleep anyway? I say lets get some viagra(yes, I have taken it and it works) and lets have some fun.

Amber

DDEbony3381 reads

and both are great.  Multi-hour sessions were at least 3 hours, and overnights at least 8 hours.  I also give discounted rates for those two types of sessions.  The overnight sessions are of course best with a client that has been seen at least once before, but not always the case.  Both types of sessions I believe definitely take the "time limit" aspect out of it and make for a much more pleasurable session.  I must admit that I have had more than my share of clients whom I would have really enjoyed spending more than just an hour with, and have suggested the longer sessions, and some have taken me up on it.  There is a lot more fun to be had in a longer session, of course, which have included dinner, cocktails, role play, fetish, showering together, toys, massage, etc. along with the delicious main event, so don't worry about what to do in all that time.  It still seems to fly by very quickly when you're having so much fun!!  Very much recommended that you get to enjoy a longer session with a favorite or a new provider that you have had your eye on.  And if you're ever in San Diego, let me know. :-)

Ebony
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From the few I have stolen away for a night (or have they stolen me?  I’m not really sure) it depends upon how she feels about you.  Is she comfortable with you?  None I has seen will consider it until they know you some and feel safe.

The biggest benefit?  I find it to be a true “no rush” situation.  Time to relax and enjoy her as a person.  Do some things out and about town.  And still have ample time left for in-room activities as well.

vannessa4363 reads

Depends on how well you know the provider.
Do you guys click?
Question is, what do you want?
Are you shopping for rates?
A night of passion?
To party?
To take the blue pill for a spin and pray to god your tea bags don't fall off?
Is it just the way you want to spend your time with the prefered lady of your choice? Your all time favorite?
Seriously speaking, this is a service that creates a fantasy for the gentleman. Seek someone who is not only appreciative of your company but who is a giver and not a taker. There is nothing wrong with 1 hour or 1 night.
Have your cake and eat it too.
That's what separates this hobby from the rest.

I have done several overnight and weekend sessions with the same provider.  We had a couple of sessions before we agreed to a weekend or overnight together.   We have done each one in a different city because we both like to travel.

My humble suggestions are:  

1. Yes, do plan to do some things on the town – both should agree to it.  We went shopping for Harley’s.

2. Make sure about smoking.  The provider did not smoke during the 2 hour session, but she is a heavy smoker by my standards.  She would just smoke at the end of the 2 hour session, but she smokes a pack a day. .  I do not smoke, so it bothered me to be with a smoker for the entire weekend.

3. Make sure about drinking.  I enjoy a couple of drinks or a bottle of wine, but I do not enjoy getting wasted.

4. Are you morning people or do you like to sleep late.  Should make sure both people agree or understand each other.   I am an early morning person and I like action.  The provider is a sleep in person.

5. Make sure to plan around aunt flow visits.  It can be a long weekend or overnight.  It sometimes also affects attitudes, etc.  It can be a long weekend.  I do understand PMS.

6. Remember for what it is – a hobby and not a serious relationship.  

Boomhower4681 reads

... and stop pretending the provider loves you.  Just my humble opinion.

Hey look, if I do an overnight or weekend(which I haven't done for some time, but HAVE done) it's not because I'm pretending ANYone is in love with me....

I don't get why it's okay for someone to go see escorts for an hour and no one gives them any trouble, but if you do the overnights then you're a "sucker"

I know a ton of my buddies who are suckers because they've married women who only care about their money and have taken the for a ride financially.. it ends in  bad divorce and custody battles... no pren nup and a LOT of money being paid out.

If I want to romance a beautiful woman for the weekend with no strings attached and at the end we go our separate ways then that is my prerogative now isn't it?

Am I pretending she loves me? No... I actually think some of the higher end ladies like weekend getaways and we both enjoy our time together.. It might be a bit fantasy, but trust me so are the one hour quickies.. lol...

GD

Well said. It would be intolerable to spend a weekend with someone with whom you didn't feel an emotional/intellectual and perhaps physical attraction. A weekend away in a 'no strings attached' environment is great - none of those 'couples' conversations about "where are we going from here" ad nauseum, ad infinitum, just fun, relaxation and carnality.  Sounds like very good value for your $$$'s to me.

Ci Ci4212 reads

There are many who do overnight sessions. You just need to find someone you're comfortable with and be honest with her about what you would like.

Hugs,
Ciara

Be sure you go out on a date with the person before (preferably multi-hour).  This way you will know better if you would enjoy each other's company for an overnight.

MikeAndIke2650 reads

Assuming your not a freaky, smelly weirdo you will find that most providers are open to overnights. It's good business sense for them.... the money is good, they can pull in a couple G's in one night and only deal with one client. They also get to dine at a fancy schmancy restaurant on your dime, etc.. I don't think you'll have too many ladies turning away a decent chunk of change (again, assuming you check out ok as a normal human being).

As others have noted, you need to ask yourself what your motives are for doing overnights.  This is really the question at hand. If you are looking to set a new personal best for bell rings in one night it's probably not for you since overnighters involve in large part non bedroom activity.

I've done a few in the past but frankly I can never seem to get past the fact that it just doesn't seem logical to be paying someone to eat and sleep. Thus, I've concluded that overnighters don't work for me personally.  

But if companionship and conversation is your main motive you might find overnighters worth your while.  Most ladies do them, so you just need to determine what you are looking for, then find the most suitable lady to meet your needs.

_L_2423 reads

that if you snore, or she-that you both relate that to one another, before meeting lol I had a client who snored all night, and I ended up sleeping in the bathtub (no lie!).

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