Still amazes me that this question comes up now and then. And the answer is always a resounding not really.
Be kind, appreciative and respectful to the ladies, as you should be anyway, I've found they enjoy my company just as much as I enjoy theirs. We have a lot of fun. Sometimes even moreso because I'm not a jerk who just comes in and pounds away at their pussy. I'm sweet, funny, kind and have a blast together.
Sure, being obese has its physical limitations, so some positions are outta the question ... but a lot can be said for oral pleasures and cuddling, massages and just being close for a while.
My gastric bypass surgery is scheduled for June 9, and I for one look forward to not only a life at a healthier weight, but hobbying in a 'normal' sized body. Plus, for every 35 pounds overweight a man is, his penis appears one inch smaller. I'm about 250 pounds overweight.
You do the math,
Jimbo
first off, i should say that i don't really have that problem. just curious as to what the consensus is on this. let's say you're overweight, fat, chubby, whatever you are, do providers care? will they not got fs on you due to that? will they be less into it?
No, what means the most to them is that you are kind, clean and treat them with respect.
Keep it clean and shaven. A little cologne doesn't hurt either, but be sweet and you'll get the treat.
Hugs,
Ciara
It usually isn't a make or break issue for them, but of course most would prefer to be with someone in good shape, attractive, good personality and a great sexual partner.
Doesn't mean that most won't still do their job with an overweight guy, but realistically, of course they prefer clients they find attractive.
They are people. Why wouldn't they?
as clients who care that PROVIDERS are overweight.
Besides, there are plenty of positions to have fun in, no matter what size you are. 
Still amazes me that this question comes up now and then. And the answer is always a resounding not really.
Be kind, appreciative and respectful to the ladies, as you should be anyway, I've found they enjoy my company just as much as I enjoy theirs. We have a lot of fun. Sometimes even moreso because I'm not a jerk who just comes in and pounds away at their pussy. I'm sweet, funny, kind and have a blast together.
Sure, being obese has its physical limitations, so some positions are outta the question ... but a lot can be said for oral pleasures and cuddling, massages and just being close for a while.
My gastric bypass surgery is scheduled for June 9, and I for one look forward to not only a life at a healthier weight, but hobbying in a 'normal' sized body. Plus, for every 35 pounds overweight a man is, his penis appears one inch smaller. I'm about 250 pounds overweight.
You do the math,
Jimbo
Specify your meaning of "fat"
Because fat for some is obese to others while fat to many could mean skinny to you.
Well, just how fat is fat when you lift a crease and you see a bruise? or the crease stinks like a wrinkled sharpei?
Not to bust anybody's bubble, but these days, Americans are really putting on the pounds.
Then again, fat to some is not fat to all.
Do you mean fat to the point that there is loss of size?
I guess the same question would go to a hobbyist who has a rather unattractive or overweight S.O.
How do they deal with it?
Do they do the deed 100%?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
It's not just coping skills.
You have to be able to connect.
Same goes for a very attractive hobbyist with an unattractive wife. You just can't have 2 centerpieces on one table.
Besides, if a hobbyist had everything at home, including variety, there would be no sport. Right?
Unlike folks who don't deal with a wide variety of people in such an intimate way. I can do every position you'd care to try except something that entails me doing actual pull-ups on a bar. (That hasn't come up yet, thankfully)
I don't feel unattractive unless you're judging me.
Personally and honestly I have to say I care more about what someone is like on the inside more than the outside. That and how well they are in the sack is more important than how they look. LOL
Amber