Personality. It helps feel comfortable and connect more with the lady.
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
When visiting a provider, is a perfect body or a great personality more important?
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
Both. I'm greedy.
Edit: OK body. Because her "personality" can be great,but if she has a body that's not attractive to me then it's not going to be a good experience.
Conversely, If she has a "hot" body, but a shitty personality it is going to be OK unless she has terrible skills.
Yeah, I'm shallow-whatever.
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Personality. It helps feel comfortable and connect more with the lady.
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
Personality, par none!!! Looking at reviews, looks take me in at a 7, but if skills, AND personality are mentioned in the review, @ an 8 plus, I have no qualms about having coffee, etc. with the lady.
I never expect a perfect body, but my own personal preference is to have an athletic type body. Personality is very important, but like the saying goes there has to be a physical attraction especially considering its a paid date. Just my opinion, which dpesnt mean a lot. Lol.
a great personality is more important to me, you have to be able to have fun
...personality. A great body does not guarantee a good time. Of course it's nice, but if she's not into it and doesn't seem to care whether I'm having a good time, I'm not going to have one. I also find the time spent afterwards talking and cuddling to be an important part of the experience.
Appreciate Great Bodies, I always compliment how well they appear to stay in shape.......but a great personality always compensates a body which may not be my preference. Intelligence doesn't hurt either. The more mature I have become, the more I enjoy being around a well versed intelligent lady.
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
as I am very immature.
Without looks, her personality and performance are irrelevant as I am never going to find out just how nice, willing and personable she is if she doesn't meet certain minimums in the looks department.
Yes, I am most definitely a shallow pig. oink oink
I wonder what you could possibly talk about?
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
How do you think she'd fare as a provider?
Attraction gets me to the door. Personality brings me back again.
Beauty and presentation count....goes a long way to establishing a connection. Personality can be the cherry on top of the whipped cream!
If forced to answer the question the way you pose it I'll have to say " body".
The best personality in the world can not compensate for a body that I find unattractive or even repulsive. Just a hard truth.
However , I might book with a lady that has a super hot bod , maybe even pretty good performance skills but if she has an absolute shitty tude & personality I'll never repeat.
I think I would have to go with personality. Some of the hottest and most erotic women are wearing an imperfect body and to me as long as it's not completely horrible, like a third eye or an arm growing from the middle of her back or even something serious like bad teeth. But so long as she presents herself as clean and is proud of what she has. That makes a big difference. And then if she at least makes me think she is enjoying herself, and my company, that trumps a perfect body every time.
a beautiful but cold fish is never any fun.
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
Since I consider myself an over 50 newbie, personality will go a long way for me.
You are too kind. Your personality is BETTER though.
... In favor of personality. But I also believe the perfect body comes in several different shapes!
Absolutely the most important - personality.
I'm sure many will answer both. However, for the sake of argument, which is most important??
Body is relatively important but personality seals the deal
for me a great personality is more important. i know some will say you can't do it with a personality, but for me the personality is what excites and makes me want to return. my adventures with "Perfect Body" were not good, clock and ceiling watchers who had more rules than Nascar. just my 2cents.
the old sailor
10/10 body with a shitty personality isn't that enjoyable. It's one step up from porn, at that point.
Attraction gets you to the door but chemistry makes the experience great and have you craving for more.
The world is filled with beautiful women, I'm looking for the ones with a matching personality. These diamonds are a hobbyist's best friend.
The ultra hot beautiful bodies too often are dead fish. The personality can make a smoking body very very unattractive. While a smoking personality can move an ok body to super status.
A great personality, a provider who enjoys their work and a decent body that's the goal in my hobby.
Samantha you miss the goal by having more, much more than decent body.
Your fun, you enjoy your work and it shows. Always enjoy our visits.
Personality rules with me. A 10 on appearance means nothing if the personality is a 2. Whereas I've met some ladies who were 10's on personalities whose bodies I really didn't notice. Having said that the BEST provider I have ever seen was a 10 on both, though I could be biased.
I think you're biased :-P
Just sayin lol
Possibly but if I am it's your fault
No judgement here!!! The answers have been very enlightening. My curiosity thirst has been quenched. Gentlemen as a provider let me reveal what is most important to me. #1- A respectful client #2-good personal hygiene #3-Great personality & conversation.......actually looks don't really matter
Just my personal opinion. Thanks everyone for playing along.
It depends entirely on how much she talks. If she wants to be coy and silent and simple let her body language do the talking then looks are everything. If she insists on talking the entire time then personality and make or break an encounter.