I haven't found anything that stimulates me like a man's penis or a finger. It has something to do with the sharing of energy, which I can't get from toys.
If I want a clitoral orgasm though, I grab my Hitachi.
You may want to check out Good Vibrations in SF. If you can't decide on a product by looking at their website, if you call the store, they are more than helpful. They cater to woman's sexuality specifically and should be able to point you in the right direction.
Good luck!
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