Although, I personally would welcome the comments of a lady attached to a review. I understand the desire to get out your side of the story but the reality is:
a. We're guys, so we're looking for the guys' side of the experience
b. Whether your rebuttal is true or not (and whether it's read by a potentially new client), it will probably be viewed with healthy skepticism. Since it's purpose will be viewed to salvage a business reputation.
Right or wrong, there's a guy's perspective.
Lastly, if a lady didn't comment or didn't comment on every review, what would be the perception left to that reviewer or the person reading the review?