This is exactly what I meant/ Sometimes I want to vent, like with any job. God knows how much I vent after being locked in with an asshole surgeon for up to five hours. I'm a pretty private person, no doubt. But sometimes it would be nice to exchange stories and laugh those stressful days off with someone who knows what you're going through.
Sometimes it is just nice to be able to have a conversation without having to think about who you are talking to and what you can and can't share...
When I'm in class, trying to socialize with the other ladies, I realize that we're not in the same stages in life. It gets pretty lonely. They're all either married, engaged, or waaaay too conservative for my lifestyle. LOL
I wish I could socialize with other providers in my area! Have a brunch here and there, grab a few drinks on occasions, etc...
I'm tired of pretending to be someone I'm not just to feel included.
Ya feel me?
I am not on your side of the equation but I feel your pain. I have no one I can trust with this except here and that is behind an alias. Learn to compartmentalize and don't rush into things and you may find someone to share with. I just can't imagine any school in the area you advise being so conservative that leaving this life out you could not find friends. Best to you.
Just be yourself around your friends and Forget about SultrySugar. No need to be anyone else. When you are preparing for a provider date, combine you and SultrySugar together. I have only met a couple of providers that I socialize with personally and have gone out with. The key to having a good time with ladies that share our world is to no talk about our world when your together.
My best friend introduced me to this hobby. I haven't made the dive yet but I am looking to. He is the only one i can talk about even looking at with. We often show eachother the ladies in our areas. He always tells me about ladies he meets with.
Im sure most of us are open for chatting in person or online about anything.
I know her as a great MOM---I'm sure she would make you a good BFF
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