I think it all depends on the person. When I first started in the hobby it was all about variety. Now that I am little older and hopefully little wiser, I prefer to spend time with someone that I connected with and have a comfort level with.
Regarding your second question, I think you hit it dead on. Sometimes you are so damn horny and have prepared yourself (a fantasy) that your brain doesn't work properly. Also we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by saying I am out of here
Posted By: MistressKiley Once a month or so, I go through and read various reveiws, just to see what is going on here This morning, I was reading through and I found a couple of things that made me go "Hmmmm..."
I read several different reviews where the gent said something along the lines of "I have already been back to see her, which is unusual since I never see the same provider twice!" Is this just a matter of always wanting different? If you have an incredible experience with someone, I would think you would want to have more incredible experiences with that person again! Also, at least in my Dominatrix role, the more often I see you, the more things become available to you. Once I know you, your reactions, your fantasies, etc. I can begin to create even more experiences for you. Maybe it is just because the BDSM realm is different, but I don't see the advantage of girl hopping like that.
Also, I see a lot of "When I got to her place, something told me I should leave" or "I was not impressed with her place or the neighborhood" or "All the other people in her apartment kinda put me off" but they all stayed, did their thing, then were unhappy. If you aren't feeling good about the encounter from the start, why stay? Is it simply a case of the little head controlling you, even to the point of not caring about the environment you are in because you are gonna get laid?
Just some of the things that make me go "Hmmmm..."