I'm a new one to the hobby.  So new that I haven't even been with a provider before.  So, like a good boy scout I'm doing my research before I jump in the pool.  For experienced Hobbyist, have you ever mentored or been mentored?  You know, someone to show you the do's and don't's of the game?  

I've researched a few providers that I'm still working up the courage to make contact with.  Just like everyone else I want to be safe, comfortable, discrete, and simply have some fun.  I'm wondering if looking for a mentor would be a good move?