Ever hear of marketing. Its more than a website, otherwise you are just one among thousands. I don't see anyone unless I have communicated with them both in e-mail and phone to see if we both have an acceptable comfort level. So, there have been times I have e-mailed without having a specific day and time yet. And there have been women nice enough to do a little get to know you and me. They also know its good for business. Those are the ones I remember when its time to make a choice. Of course, I pursue multiple hour or overnight meetings with the more expensive, well reviewed ladies.

Incidently, if you have the time to spend on this board, which I consider a marketing activity, you could also spend it cultivating good clients through personal correspondence. Frankly, your attitude makes you appear more like a parking meter than a woman I would want to spend my time with and my money on.

I guess I am somewhat bewildered with the fact that some people have such an availability of time that they can afford to get better acquainted and develop a rapport for weeks or months prior to their -- big rendezvous. Wouldn’t it be better to spend this valuable resource of time on something of greater importance? Not meaning to trivialize, but it does seem somewhat silly to get worked up over all this pre-date chatter, when in reality it is nothing more than a damn commercialized get together between an escort and client. Wish I had all that spare time. It seems some posters have a naive view of sex being sacramental, beautiful and other worldly. Some posters seem that after fucking an escort it is more a culmination of the ‘human mating dance ritual’, instead of the goods delivered for payment received.

I believe those escorts who communicate frequently with potential and existing clients before and between appointments have a more aggressive marketing approach than their peers who rather not communicate with such frequency. Those escorts, who regularly communicate through email or voice, perhaps have a greater desire to make that final sale in today’s marketplace. She has a better understanding that many men out there confuse fantasy with reality, having this need for a ‘mating dance ritual’. The escorts who chat up with clients for a long period before an appointment probably realize that to these particular men the ‘dance’, even more than intercourse, is the key to keeping those customers satisfied. I wonder if any escort has ever done an analysis of the # of key strokes taken when communicating to a potential client vs. revenue derived from that client.

To me the purchase of time from a commercial companion merely is a quick escape from the turmoil and stresses of life. Arranging such a date, as far as my purposes, need not be done until the day of or the day before it is convenient to meet. Extraneous conversation is not all that necessary. I’m a fairly private individual, and in turn, I fully respect others’ privacy. Dealing with escorts can be fun. I never make the scene any more than what it is. There are some that are so attractive and personable; it makes their ruthless business approach more amusing than annoying. The only ‘dance ritual’ that I am really into is some butterfly dance that is done with tongue and cock. I really have never been one to live in a fantasy. Even when I get high, I still always try to face reality.

That's because you are practical.

I prefer corresponding and chatting, and I use it to intensify the meeting, it talks me up and talks her up to.  Otherwise, I get most of it done here, and the provider can pretty much get to know me by reading my posts.  When I do meet a provider who is really into corresponding, as I have recently... it's marvelous, but I have to take care now not to overindulge.  

Other than that, I'll conform to whatever I think the provider wants about it.  No correspondence, then no correspondence.  It's easy to find out that out, you won't answer, even though a time is set.  I might prefer the correspondence, but there's a limit to how much and with how many I can do anyway.  Besides, as the adage says, I'm not going to tell a woman how to run her business.  She will find her own comfortable and profitable management of her time.

/Zin

My first e-mail to Lily June satisfied almost all of her screening requirements but was mostly an introductory letter, telling her a little about what I was looking for and what limitations we might encounter because of my status as a single dad.  I didn't request a specific time and date, but made it clear that her time was valuable and that I was willing to wait until I could fit into her schedule.

Her response melted my heart and set the tone for all of our encounters: "I'm charmed," she began.  

There's no better way to set the stage for a truly wonderful encounter than to take the time to get to know each other beforehand.

Yoda

I have been using the telephone as a means of scheduling meetings until recently.
  Presently I find that with E-Mail it's a much more enticing experience, but I always chat on the phone a bit with the person before scheduling.