First off, I tried to keep domestic slaves/house boys when I first opened my own incall, and it was a massive flop.
Domestic servants are supposed to make your life easier, right? Not more difficult. The thing of it is, is most domestic servants aren't actually interested in cleaning and keeping a space tidy for you- they're interested in the attention you dote on them to "make sure they're doing a good job". I have no interest in babysitting servants, personally. Especially ones who ended up wasting more of my time by doing a bad job in the first place. Not to mention, most of those interested in so-called domestic service wanted to be repaid with free sessions. Nope. Not ever. So it didn't work for me, for the above reasons. But I know it's worked for others.Hi there
I have been planning a dream playspace for myself for a while!
I have had many bumps in the road in the last few months but now I believe I am finally on the right path to make this dream happen!
A Mistress I trained under had servitude subs- many to do designated chores.
She is single so her life allowed for men to be coming and going.
I am only recently single and only recently decided exactly WTF I was going to do with myself lol
I have been blessed to have a few regulars already sign up for a future spot for "chores"!
Have you ever had such a relationship?
If yes, please describe the pros/cons etc.
Maybe some insight to what you would wish you could have in a Servitude format?
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know screening is still an absolute MUST!!!
If we have not already met please fill out my websites screening form and put in the notes you are requesting to be considered for servitude.
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First off, I tried to keep domestic slaves/house boys when I first opened my own incall, and it was a massive flop.
Domestic servants are supposed to make your life easier, right? Not more difficult. The thing of it is, is most domestic servants aren't actually interested in cleaning and keeping a space tidy for you- they're interested in the attention you dote on them to "make sure they're doing a good job".
I have no interest in babysitting servants, personally. Especially ones who ended up wasting more of my time by doing a bad job in the first place.
Not to mention, most of those interested in so-called domestic service wanted to be repaid with free sessions.
Nope. Not ever.
So it didn't work for me, for the above reasons. But I know it's worked for others.
If I had a dime for every sissy maid / houseboy that offered his services, I would have enough to hire a real house cleaner - one that wouldn't expect me to sit there and watch them while they did it, and one who actually knows how to make the place sparkle. Like I can. In half the time.
It's pretty frustrating to me because in theory I *love* the concept of barter! I'm all about cutting out that middle man money whenever I can. However, I've yet to find a domestic arrangement that's worked out well for me (men require *so* much attention), and at this point I don't feel it's worth the time wasted to try again.
Apologies for the pessimism... but it's only Tuesday.
If you aren't going to reward them sexually in some manner they might just as well volunteer at the local food shelf and actually help someone who might deserve it.
... The sexual reward is in the act. They get off on being watched, berated, allowed to "take care of Mistress", and oftentimes be told what an insufficient job they're doing.
While this isn't a kink I'm into when it comes to barter, plenty are, and lots of dommes choose to keep houseboys/sissies.
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