If enjoying something justified it, then if I enjoyed judging the kink community, that should be great, right? Why aren't they supportive of my enjoyment?
By damaged, I am talking about people who like to self-mutilate -- or mutilate others -- physical harm. You (general you, not you you) enjoy harming others. Well as long as you enjoy it, it must be okay. Carry on Saddam.Everything from Male Dom to Fem Dom to lesbian to Gay to interracial to those that feature TS ladies. There are some that are heavily sexual and those that seem to stress pain of all sorts.
I wonder how many offs enjoy these sites and which sites people enjoy the most.
Please share your thoughts --positive or negative-- on any particular sites you either really like or find offensive.
kink.com sites. Since I am a switch, I get to see topping, bottoming, sex, torture....everything a girl could want 
Whipped Ass was my first kink.com experience, and I still love it to this day.
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I thought the people on FetLife were over-represented by damaged people. Also they say it isn't, and it really seems it isn't, a hookup or dating site. It's a showcase site where they can all get up on stage and proclaim their dedication to whatever it is that turns them on. The daily, make that hourly, affirmations of the sainthood of their "daddies" got on my nerves after a while. They also don't like vanilla.
It's a good site if you have a severely damaged psyche and want to share it within the world of similar damaged people.
I had an interest in light bondage, but it kind of lost the appeal after spending time reading (and trying to interact) at fetlife.
One thing I did learn, though. I think submissive guys outnumber dominant women by a large factor. So there is money to be made in being a dominatrix. Lots of unpaired submissive guys.
I like fetlife. But that is probably because I AM damaged. Hahaha