Well I am far less likely to suffer a horrible session thanks to the board.

Actually interacting with the ladies may make me decide weather or not to see her, however reviews are everything as to if I do or not.

Neeting hobbyists ????????????????? not so sure about that. But anything is possible.

I feel that my participation on this board, and other boards, has greatly improved my "hobbying".
My verbal intercourse with the great people of these boards has boosted my confidence in pursuing the hobby by allowing me to express opinions that some others agree with, I realize that I'm not alone in my thoughts.

I have flirted with and have been flirted with, by several ladies on these boards. Very harmless, but it's opened the door to the possibility of meeting some of them face to face. I am currently in the planning stages of working out a meeting with one very special lady I'm interested in. She knows who she is. I hope we can work something out.

I don't know how anyone can participate in these boards and NOT want to meet each other. As I have posted before, there are a lot of caring, full of compassion, wonderful people here.

You are all worth knowing, and I'm glad your here. I hope, in my own way, I have added something of interest to these discussions, and that I have, in some small way, touched your lives a little and maybe help lighten your day.

Just my opinion...
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It's been the best thing that's happened to my hobbying, and I've been at it for a while!

Most important:  it's improved the quality of the experience with the provider immensely.  Before TER, with rare exceptions, it was mostly hit-or-miss.  You'd see a provider for an hour, it could be total bliss, and you might never see her again in your life -- nor would you have any way of reaching her.  And, there was no communication outside of that hour.  

I now have ongoing communications and even -- gulp! -- "relationships" with providers that are rich, varied, intimate, meaningful and fun.  Some I've met, some I haven't.  There's one I've emailed with for months now, and because of the friendship that's developed, I'll probably never have sex with her.  It's just that way.  But she's my buddy and a confidante, and I'm hers.  That never would have happened even 10 years ago.  With providers I've seen, and have clicked with and care about, I'm able to keep in touch.  They're people -- not just rent-a-bods.  And that makes all the difference.  

Plus, for the first time in my life, I've communicated with other hobbyists, which has been a huge relief.  Before the Internet, at least in brothels, it was absolutely forbidden that one hobbyist see another -- even going in or out of the place -- and the madam made sure that never happened.

So there's your answer ... at least for my .02


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Hope to meet a few other ladies whos posts have intrigued me. Kind of hard though , most of the women on the national board are on the left coast and I'm here in Atlanta. Love the interaction anyway. Keeps the mind sharp and the testerone flowing. I also post on my local board and have gotten similar results. I love making a connection and choosing who I see that way( not exclusively}. I have been to a local social and met a few and would consider trying that again. So far the national board has been the most interesting and has less drama.   Ya'll are going to have to chase me off with a stick!!   A little RedNeck talk just to prove I'm from the south.

I used to just think what they are thinking.  Now I actually know their points of view on a variety of subjects, hobby related and beyond.

Thanks.  Thanks to the providers, thanks for the hobbyists, thanks for the TER people.  After I temporarily swore off women due to a sour relationship, I did a lot of surfing for 'inspiration' when I came across an escort site.  It might have been eros or something like that.  I bounced around a bit just looking at the pretty ladies when I came in here.  Then I lurked in here and watched a lot of nice people, men and women, chitchat.  I was really surprised to find real, normal (ok...so so normal ) people in here.  So I took the plunge. Sure I've been treated like a walking dollar sign once but the rest of my few experiences have been with really nice and pleasant ladies.  So Thanks again.  If it wasn't for this board I probably wouldn't of started to hobby.
I'm still looking for that magical S.O. and hope to give up the hobby someday.  Till then I find hobbying a great way to improve the few skills I had.  I always ask if there was anything I could of done better, and sometimes I get great advice.  I think this is a great sex-ed class.  P.S. Any ladies looking for a nice 28 y/o pilot let me know You ladies are far more real then most the people I see in the civilian world.