Well, it is what it is.
Look, you seem like a nice guy. You could research all you wanted, and I encourage you to do that if you feel it necessary. But no one is going to be able to advise you about a woman they don't know having a relationship with a man they don't know who live day to day in situations they know nothing about. And if they do? Do you really want that advice?
You do? Seriously? Sigh. Okay . . .
Here it is . . .
You are clearly very new to this. Clearly. I don't mean that as an insult. I mean it for what it is.
As a true newbie, you have no business entering a relationship with a provider. You have no idea what you're getting yourself into.
I hope that helps, and I wish you well.
Michelle
What is everyone's thought on providers that want more than just the usual session?
If you truly buy into that, you are in for an interesting ride... good luck, and hide yo money!
...which have proved beneficial to each of us. Some exclusive; some not. Then again, I rarely, if ever, book a session/one hour date.
Most of my gentlemen callers are over 55, and prefer to keep a very small circle of friends.
With that being said, I have NEVER asked a gentleman for "more". Arrangements, etc evolve over time.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
Same here exactly.....it's a lifestyle! A sub culture! I live it!
You're absolutely correct. I've been taken. Never again.
Oh I could say the same thing....never date a guy you met in this arena. I have had a couple of fakes. I have also had a million fakes and coo coos out in the real world too.....So, try not to be so bitter baby
Maybe they weren't of your calibre.
BOTH!
IMHO I have yet to find a thread of anyone (Provider / Client) that didn't speak of how horribly one sided it was (Either way) and or how one or both went coo coo on each other.... personally im sure some have worked it out and maybe still together after months.... maybe years... but you don't really see any side coming back to say "OMG I FOUND MY SOUL MATE!"... in the end to be defensive about it either way seems silly as it would really but up to the two trying to have a relationship if they can not feel cheated or that the scale tips away from it being fair and honest... sorry but my point is that if you believe it, im sure it will be a wild ride and it might even cost you more than if you just remained client/provider...
Because some providers have some special spirits about them make your memorized. It will blow your mind like she is a real wife/girlfriend. Feelings do get involved especially when bbbj, daty, and kissing is involved if you see a provider on a regular basis.
There is a good rule of thumb that is hard to obey. Never see a provider on a regular basis more than once every 30 days. That keeps her on her toes and she will not take you for granted.
it's out in the open. plus there are no sexual activity secrets....she knows you like to play and you know she likes money and maybe even sex with different guys.
some of yall don't know what ya gf or wife is doing 24/7....hell some of yall older folks could actually have a daughter working in this game! A Provider is a professional lover...not a random slut.
but do yaself a favor...ask yaself if you were in a relationship and lost your job Would you be comfortable "pimping" her out to make ends meet and value the mental connection over two people cumming? other dudes share to body...but you have her mind so to speak