Felicia,

    There are all kinds of Anime out there, from the G-rated to God knows how many X's.  I've seen them on Video store shelves, but you can bet you won't find any on Blockbuster, nor Hollywood Video's shelves.  For those special Hentai videos, you need to visit your local video store. typing Hentai into google brought up lots of hits, perhaps a gift list wish?  

1.  LA Blue Girl (a box set with a bunch of DVDs in this series is available).  REAL good with lots of overheated damsels in distress....
2.  Angel of Darkness (much darker.... but if a part of you gets turned on by mind controlled nymphs being molested by evil mad scientists who themselves have been possessed by alien tentaced thingies.... uh, nevermind.... if this is up your alley you'll love it.  If not, you'll just be REALLY disturbed by the Japanese mindset)
3.   Dragon Pink..... A little softer... Think Midnight Cinemax type stuff.
4.   Imma Youjo.... Bad guys take advantage of young nyphettes, but wind up getting the tables turned on them by the end of the episodes.  Same kind of tone as the newer Outer Limits series with a kinky tone.
5.  Star Ballz.... OK, this is just REALLY funny. Star Wars meets cartoon porn. Um, once again that last phrase will decide whether you REALLY need to see this, or will just think it is stupid.

There are also a zillion varieties of things out there.  The Japanese tend to have a fondness for BDSM, and big eyed girls with cat ears and furry tails.  Also as a reaction to puritanical censorship laws which prohibited films that showed penetration by anything from the male gender, the alien tentacles "skirted" the rules and invaded every female opening in exaggerated fashion.  I enjoy some of the D/s play in many of these, but there is some REAL dark stuff that exceeds my comfort threshold as well.