The one caveat being that sometimes I like them better by myself. They are hard (I know, I know, you're welcome for that enlightenment), so sometimes they can inadvertently cause some pain. I've found the best way to use these is to let the weight do the work. Just a gentle jiggle of the wrist should do the trick

For vibrators, I like ceramic toys. I haven't played with a ton of them, but for whatever reason they seem to rattle just right for me. I did recently get a softer bodied one that you can control the speed, tempo, and even set a loop of vibrations based on a little touch pad that I cannot say I hate though, lol!

The hitachi wand is a classic for a reason...

I also love my liberator pillow. It's one of my dreams to have an I call full of all the furniture they come up with, lol!