I am with the senator. I have never had a NCNS in way more years of doing this than I care to list and last minute cancellations I can count on one hand and still have a few fingers left over. The same goes for me with never a NCNS and the same number of late cancellations when work got in the way. In most cases I made that up at a future date. Maybe it is the ladies you are contacting ? I tend to be very selective (for the normal reasons) and spend a lot if time researching who I am going to spend time with. No fun if they are hot ladies, but their style and yours do not mesh. Maybe you need to do a little more research or change the place you are finding these ladies. Most of the ladies who are active on the major sites are great and very professional when it comes to this part of the business. If you act the same the rewards will be great.
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Ok guys. Why do u tell the lady that you going to meet for a date and say you are coming. Say that you are on your way? And, then never show, call or text back. Even after you have been texting and talking for a few days. Why would guys do that and it is OK for them to do that, but yet when a lady cancels a date, or is late, or has to move a date then she gets blasts for it on the review boards..
It isn't right for either to NSNC. I can't answer your question because I don't think it is right.
"This is the business we've chosen."
I have been doing this a long time and I would say that the provider follows through on the date only 50% of the time after confirming. I'm guessing it's the same for hobbyist no shows as well. It ain't right and it's frustrating, but this business is full of those who are very unorganized and selfish. Not all, but many. What can you do? Call the Better Business Bureau?
I feel sorry for you if that has been your experience... Based on my experience, I'd put it closer to 95% of the ladies follow through. I've only had one NCNS and only a handful of last minute cancellations.
I have no data on guys not following through, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was lower than the ladies.
I am with the senator. I have never had a NCNS in way more years of doing this than I care to list and last minute cancellations I can count on one hand and still have a few fingers left over. The same goes for me with never a NCNS and the same number of late cancellations when work got in the way. In most cases I made that up at a future date. Maybe it is the ladies you are contacting ? I tend to be very selective (for the normal reasons) and spend a lot if time researching who I am going to spend time with. No fun if they are hot ladies, but their style and yours do not mesh. Maybe you need to do a little more research or change the place you are finding these ladies. Most of the ladies who are active on the major sites are great and very professional when it comes to this part of the business. If you act the same the rewards will be great.
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That may have something to do with it.
I'm 100% outcall and I'm certain it does
I can understand your frustration. I'm sorry you had someone playing games with you like that. We're not all bad guys. Unfortunately anyone that sticks around in this hobby long enough is likely to have something not go their way at some point. I've had my turn! I'm sorry you had yours. That's why sites like this were created...to help the good guys and gals stick together and avoid the undesirables.
The only times a girl was a complete no show was when I was very new in the hobby and made a couple of sketchy dates. Those were learning experiences.
I have never had to cancel at the last minute, although I have had to reschedule dates maybe twice in two years, always with at least several days notice before the scheduled time.
I have had probably a 10% rate of girls canceling, sometimes the day of, sometimes the day before. They almost always contact me to let me know, but it's still disappointing, and often leaves me scrambling to find a replacement, given the arrangements I've had to make to be available in the first place. Sometimes it's a girl I've seen before, and she'll be apologetic and she'll want to reschedule immediately. I always wonder about the excuse, whether it's true. I guess I'll never know.
I've run into maybe two or three girls who come into town once in a while who have scheduled with me and canceled twice, and as a consequence I've never actually met them. I'm a bit reluctant to try a third time.
Well, right now, I am about 70% no show from the guys and most of my dates come from here and are scheduled in advance. For example, yesterday I had a date scheduled for morning/afternoon. We emailed back and forth for several days and texted all morning. He said he was coming from Winston and I was in Greensboro which is only like 20 min away. He said he was on this way and be there in 15 min. Then nothing at all. It seems like this has been happening a lot lately. I know I am/can be bad for timing on showing up, but I do keep in contact with my date always. I haven't had to and don't cancel many dates unless something serious comes up. But I never nsnc a date. esp when I only schedule maybe one date a day. =~(
In my area of North Carolina Raleigh Durham RTP I can't remember having a NCNS
The gentlemen are very professional and respect our time
Maybe you could consider a cancellation policy or plan a tour to this area
Could be because your name is slathered all over a few other slum boards. These sites seem to cater more to a lower class/spending ability demographic. Modify your screening policy to more stricter standards, enhance your level of service and focus your attention in better areas. This should lower that "70%" exponentially. Get rid of the individual that constantly advocates for you, that seems to be one problem area.
so where would be a good place to stay there? send me an email. your.nc.con.ceirge at gmail I just might do that soon.
thank you
just like I would blacklist a provider that did the same. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
"blacklisting" is pretty serious and does NOT mean the same thing as your own "Do not See" list. Please stop using the term "blacklist" for "do not see". They are not the same thing.
I wish hrre on teir you can write the names of people are no shows and the only people that can add to that list are both clients and providers verified I think this would help both providers and clients not waste there time on no shows