Carolinas

Re: Working within time limits
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Ah, if my equipment weren't so old and undersized. You sure look like you're fun. May have to request a dictation only meeting..

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I know that many girls wouldn't dream of making half-hour dates, but some very high class girls do. Sometimes that appeals to me if I'm short on time or funds.  

I'm not asking why some girls do and some girls don't. I think I get that. What I am asking is what extra limitations I could expect if I make a half-hour date other than the mere time difference. What comes off the menu, in other words? It would help to know this so as to keep expectations in line with reality, and thus to avoid disappointment.

For starters, it's probably safe to assume that nuru massage and more than pop or two (unless you're really quick on the reload) and any other time consuming things like "playing doctor" are probably hard to work in.  This could be a very entertaining discussion.  I've never booked a half hour.  My expectation, though, would be that it's not so much what's off the table as it is what can be accommodated reasonably and get you in and out in no more than the 30 minutes she has budgeted for you. Surely no one would book a half hour and then try to stretch the time a bit longer. That would really be bad form

I personally am not so broke that I want to see someone in 30 minutes. And yes, the 30 minutes does seem to stretch out to and hour or even longer, and then I am done for the day.

It takes me time to get ready, update ads, pay for websites, and answer emails. So an hour is not just an hour after you consider screening, mailing back and forth, getting reading for the date, and 30 minutes to me is just not my still unless I want cigs and wine. Plus travel time to and back adds another 2 hours with gas money and maybe to have to buy an overnight from having too much fun.

I wish I could you guys on a trip to my world. Let you answer phones, create websites, update pics, pay for advertisements and then..................come out refreshed with a great attitude.

But, I think it may be too much traffic at an incall with shorter dates. Then of course like Olderguy said...stretching the time limits. JMHO

They offer it cause some guys need less for less
Easily break the 30 min date down
Hug and kiss 1 min
Sit and chat 5 mins
Get naked 2 mins
Finish the rest.....

....getting naked doesn't take that long tho because I don't recall in hh dates us actually taking the time to slowly undress and admire each other while doing it. The chat part is about 5mins (tops) but often was split in the beginning and end. Of course others who do them (or used to) might handle them a pinch differently.

In a quest (fruitless) for a decent provider within 50 miles of me I had several short visits with likely prospects....what I now expect of a 30 minute visit is a LOT of disappointment.

I'm open to FS with everyone, whether it's 30 minutes or more.  
With me, DATY is fine but you'll have to cut it short if you want to pop too.  Multipops are probably pushing things.  The more prepared you come (showered, etc) the more time you have to play.

I'm a fan of shorter dates with friends I've met previously.  I love the rush of a working man starting his day in my mouth, fitting in some excitement during lunch, bailing on the afternoon conference call for a bj, or "burning the midnight oil" with an after work release.  I limit my meetings per day. I think my activities and persona don't raise much suspicion where I go but I can see where some ladies might have that issue

Ah, if my equipment weren't so old and undersized. You sure look like you're fun. May have to request a dictation only meeting..

probably only one pop, lucky if you "go all the way",  and not a lot of afterglow time. But that's just how I imagine it would be as I half zero experience in half hour encounters in the P4P arena. My ex hubby got a few quickies as I recall, lol.

Steph xoxo

I don't adverise it, and I firmly, with no apologies, find it extremely tacky- but that's based on my own personal views, way of presenting myself/advertising/marketing/etc.... I'm not the type of companion for someone who just wants a body to "unload" on real quick. I do have one client... Who was already a well established client.... Who I do half hour dates with. But again, he was already an established client. Some random person you've never met- he walks in- you only have 15-30 mins?? What the hell do you really accomplish?? No thanks. But to each their own. Do what works for you, but always keep in mind you attract what you put out there. If you adverise quick dates you're going to attract equal clientele.

I start my clients at an hour and offer 30 as a repeat.  Outside of major cities and touring, a girl could go hungry waiting for long dates in rural areas.  

-- Modified on 9/10/2015 7:11:08 AM

....very little time to chat at the start or end.  The rest is often a blur....fitting a lot of of activities (touch on a few things only a minute or 2 each) and then it's over.

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...is that for the girls who are willing to do a half hour, they really don't take anything off the menu, but they just keep it simple because there isn't a lot of time to waste. Short start up, probably no afterglow, but time for full service and once and done.  

I'm also interested in the marketing strategy involved.  

If you arrange a half hour appointment in advance, are you worried that you will be unable to take a more lucrative appointment if one comes along?  

Do you feel that a half hour is better than nothing if you have some down time, especially if you are traveling and sitting in a hotel with too much time between appointments?  

Are you less likely to say yes to a request if it's for just a half hour?  

Would you tell a guy that you won't make a commitment in advance to a half hour, but if he calls back on the day if you are still free you would reconsider?

asking her about ALL of your questions! ;-)

Steph xoxo

-- Modified on 9/8/2015 4:04:55 PM

That's crazy to me  

I have never done anything less or more than one hour. I think less than that would be too rushed and more is too long.  
In most cases, I have enough time to chat, get a second shot and still leave with 5-10 min left in the hour.  

I might consider half an hour if one day I decide to see a non-gfe or a massage only provider.  
Some of the non-gfe ladies that visit my area are super hot but the limited menu is what kept me from seeing them, so perhaps 1/2 hour would be worth it there.

-- Modified on 9/9/2015 10:12:47 AM

For obvious reasons, everything that is ON the menu, would remain so.

Let me edit this... lol

 
Most guys take a few minutes before & after "the act".... but if he COULD fit MSOG in 30 minutes, I would let him try.
But.... most guys can not.
(yes, yes, you all claim virile prowess and of course you all can go 10 times in an hour, right boys? ;) )
But in reality, 90% can not.  
Most seem to have to work for that first one...  
lol

Foxy



-- Modified on 9/9/2015 12:38:56 PM

90%? I think 99% would be more accurate. I had a provider ask me once, "do you want to go for two quick ones, or would you rather have one big one?" I went for the big one and it was, a toe curling, pull the sheets out of your ass, moment of bliss.  

I do this to enjoy myself, not to use another person as a human masturbation tool.

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But I guess it's better than hearing a woman say it!  

Behr

I'd have to miss a bunch of stuff I like doing.

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