By the way, what I really don't want is an unexpected text saying "I'm back in town. Do you want to see me?"
I actually got one of those from a girl I had seen two weeks earlier, when my wife was sitting right there. I had to come up with an excuse about who was texting me. I can only imagine what would have happened if I had put my phone down and she picked it up to see who was texting.On a few occasions, but just a few, a girl that I've seen in the past has contacted me to let me know that she's coming back to town. Sometimes this message will come in time for me to act on it and set up another date. Sometimes it doesn't work out. But either way, it's something I very much appreciate. Not only does it give me an opportunity to possibly renew the relationship, but it also gives me a good feeling that lasts all day.
I think it's nice when I get an email from a lady I've seen or interested in seeing, letting me know she will be in my area
Even if my schedule doesn't allow it, it's still a nice gesture
I keep on my phone of the sweet lil voices letting me know that she(they) will be available
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Going through my voice mails, I smile each time I here those lil voices)
Although I am sure their purpose is primarily financial, it is nice. I even feel a little guilty if my schedule does not permit. Interesting how they operate.
I have never had a provider leave VM saying they were coming to town. I have a couple that TEXT and a couple that bulk email.... Probably corresponds to how provider desires to be contacted. But I am sure a VM would have more pull, but then some guys may hate being called by a provider... My burner phone will never ring, just vibrate (brings a smile)
Hopefully early enough where I can work something out. It does not always work out but it is a very nice gesture.
I have read in different forums, that making contact or making the first move before the next appointment was not proper etiquette. I always like to play by rules and respect my gentlemen friends privacy. I see now, that some of you guys like a little "Hello" I am here and available for you note. I will keep this in mind.
Mon
By the way, what I really don't want is an unexpected text saying "I'm back in town. Do you want to see me?"
I actually got one of those from a girl I had seen two weeks earlier, when my wife was sitting right there. I had to come up with an excuse about who was texting me. I can only imagine what would have happened if I had put my phone down and she picked it up to see who was texting.