Carolinas
Re: I saw you enough when you were active...
Thanks, Julia! You have always been one of my ATF. One other provider that we both know very well, and we both saw one time together, turned down a request a while back since I had not seen anyone for over six months. It is frustrating but after my great experiences on TER ladies I will never go back to BP!
to have absolutely no issue with seeing you again, any time. Some ladies, especially ones who are not familiar with the local ladies due to either being new, or from out of town, may be more stringent with their requirements for a reference within the past 6 months. I know that I am when I'm in unfamiliar territory...but that's what keeps us safe.
You may need to see one of your previous providers to obtain that reference within the last 6 months, if she will even accept just one. I understand it can be frustrating, but on our side of the table, guys can change a lot over time...just as ladies can "go bad," so can men. Ladies are just looking out for their safety...it's never personal...they just don't know you're too sweet to ever go bad.
xo
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
You may need to see one of your previous providers to obtain that reference within the last 6 months, if she will even accept just one. I understand it can be frustrating, but on our side of the table, guys can change a lot over time...just as ladies can "go bad," so can men. Ladies are just looking out for their safety...it's never personal...they just don't know you're too sweet to ever go bad.
xo
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
I'm not sure we have met and I don't know where you are but, I might be able to help you out...send me a message or an email 
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
If you are restarting, maybe you should get a p411- and keep track of your okay's-
A lot of ladies dig p411- I do- and date-check.
WHatever floats your boat & fits your comfort levels!
Plenty of fish out in this ocean
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
Bad experience, never happened. It was really kind of a screwed up connection.
I remember a similar post you made last year. Anyhoo, hope you are well.
Steph xoxo
Steph xoxo