I remember seeing a lil lady a few years back who had a terrifying experience as noted above---she stood up to him, turned him into LE. She was such a lil sweet heart, and my heart broke when I found out why she had disappeared for a while just before our visit was to take place.
When I finally got the chance to see her things were in the works with the justice system. I then was sent couple states away by job and lost contact and did not find out what had transpired with that charge. Just because she was an escort IN NO WAY gave him the right to do that to her!!!! By all means, enlist LEs help before it goes too far! I hope he is paying for that CRIME! The issue was he wanted Anal, and she said NO!Ladies, there are times when you catch up with a client that is so infatuated with your charisma and ability to play the role that they fall in love and start getting too attached. When they become too involved with your life and begin to demand you be there girlfriend or else they will invoke harm on your personal life, what do you do? Taking it a step further, what if they know where you live and have been suspected of riding by your home. We all know there are serious creepers out there and that they just will not take "No" or "Go away" for an answer. How do you cope with these types? What do you do to rid yourself of them without causing too much drama?
that invoking harm on one's personal life is a two way street and that if he does anything at all you will retaliate.
To go fuck themselves. Don't back down nor be afraid. Stalkers thrive on fear.
Let your friends know who the stalker is too so IF something crazy were to happen, they know where to look. I'm not one for giving out info but if a person is that crazy, someone you can trust needs to know.
Hope this helps
Hugs and kisses
TL
I remember seeing a lil lady a few years back who had a terrifying experience as noted above---she stood up to him, turned him into LE. She was such a lil sweet heart, and my heart broke when I found out why she had disappeared for a while just before our visit was to take place.
When I finally got the chance to see her things were in the works with the justice system. I then was sent couple states away by job and lost contact and did not find out what had transpired with that charge.
Just because she was an escort IN NO WAY gave him the right to do that to her!!!! By all means, enlist LEs help before it goes too far! I hope he is paying for that CRIME! The issue was he wanted Anal, and she said NO!
Omg!! That's terrible! Proud of that lil lady for standing up to that fucker. Hope she's ok!
Some people are just crazy.
Hugs and kisses
TL
That is a tough one. I was in a similar situation when I lived in Greensboro. I did take out a restraining order which only made things worse. He would show up where I worked, even though he was ordered off the property. I was told by the company I worked for that if it continued I would lose my job. Which I did.
I moved, he found me. I took out stalking papers on him. This went on forever, and yes, they thrive on fear.It was a terrible emotional rape situation. After 2 years and a lot of lost sleep, being afraid, I did win in court and he did 3 days. I was terrified of him.
I finally moved again. It was a terrible experience and I have no answers for you. I do, yet, I can't express them. Kelley
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