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What’s wrong with a little (or lots of) ass play?sad_smile
LenaDuvall See my TER Reviews 2216 reads
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More importantly what ever happened to not yucking other people’s yum?! I read some commentary a while ago where someone made some disparaging remarks about people who were not thin, and who wouldn’t be considered “elite.” What snobbery! In addition, a very nonsensical correlation was drawn between full service sex workers who thoroughly enjoy receiving Greek and other forms of ass play and “desperation” and “low standards.” The logic seemed to be that escorts who are perceived to be “desperate,” based off of various foolish and bigoted assumptions, engage in Greek not due to their desire and pleasure, but because they have to lower their standards..

Now, my opinions on the matter aren’t objective. A) I’m an avid lover of receiving and giving ass play! And B) I’m proudly curvy and fall into the category of being not-thin, and seemingly by extension non-elite. Silly me! I was convinced that people of various shapes, sizes, class backgrounds, etc. can and do partake in the pleasures of giving and receiving ass play. And maybe I watch too much feminist and queer porn, but I’ve seen some expertly stylized and artistic ass play that I'd have to qualify as high culture.

I'm in such a state of anguish... Am I the only one who thinks Greek isn't or shouldn't be constrained to class-based assumptions? Or notions of desperation and low standards?

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MILFCARESSA918 reads

A little greek never hurt anyone.  It is a legitimate fetish of women and men...age, size, and preferences are juat the spice that makes us who we are as sensual beings.  Hail to ya, sista!

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LenaDuvall618 reads

Ooh! "...the spice that makes us who we are as sensual beings." I love that. Thanks for your input.

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DCGent1968568 reads

Lena:

I'm with you 100% on the ass play. I love to receive and I'm getting more experienced in giving. However, there still is a stigma among many hobbyists and providers about receiving this type of play. It's my opinion, it's hypocritical and ridiculous. We're all deviants on this board, at least in the eyes of the broader vanilla world. No one is forcing anyone to take a toy up his or her ass, so the ass-phobes should let the rest of us enjoy our anal pleasures. I know a few dommes who enjoy receiving ass play as much as giving, and I firmly believe that experience in receiving can make one better at giving

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LenaDuvall618 reads

I agree that many of us are deviants to varying extents. Though, I understand everything isn't for everyone. If someone doesn't see fit to engage in giving or receiving ass play that's one thing; people knowing their own boundaries is super important. But I find it irksome when folks impose their preferences onto others. I just think it's completely unnecessary to make sweeping generalizations about folks who enjoy anal penetration.

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Ruby2001729 reads

I had never tried, or even thought about, ass play before I discovered the hobby. Then I was hooked after a single prostate massage. I think most of the objections are due to ignorance and inexperience. As the woman who broke my prostate cherry told me, "forget everything you think you know about cumming." Now I know. I'm not as crazy about giving ass play as most other guys, but receiving makes me euphoric. It's especially fun at the end of a switch session...

Don't let them get to you, Lena. You are beautiful and seem incredibly interesting. If you're ever in Chicago feel free to PM me... I wanted to see you the last time you were here but my schedule didn't allow it.

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LenaDuvall551 reads

Thank you for the affirmations dear! And I agree that those who look down their noses at people who enjoy ass play are usually misinformed. I find myself on the receiving end the majority of the time, but I'm opening up to giving even more so, especially after recently starting to give prostate massages well after I started providing. I'll definitely get in touch with you the next time I'm in Chicago. Maybe we can exchange notes... ;)

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ToniLove808 reads

I couldn't agree more. I LOVE ass play. In fact,  I'm a total butt slut :) I've been enjoying greek for years and also enjoy DP.  damn I guess I'm really super desperate to like it everywhere at once! Lol!!  
Xoxo,  
TL

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showboy123453 reads

. . .  all kinds - fingers, toys, tongues - giving and receiving.

As a child of the 60's I believe in that "if it feels good, do it" thing. That includes, probing, inserting, licking or spreading your cheeks to get it.

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LenaDuvall365 reads

Yaaass! I concur. ;)

Posted By: showboy123
. . .  all kinds - fingers, toys, tongues - giving and receiving.  
   
 As a child of the 60's I believe in that "if it feels good, do it" thing. That includes, probing, inserting, licking or spreading your cheeks to get it.

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