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Yes, I am much like you, I make about half of my reservations on my way to the airport
GaGambler 566 reads
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Traveling on the spur of the moment usually necessitates traveling alone unless you have someone who can also leave on a moments notice, but just because you take the flight there alone doesn't mean for a second you have to spend your trip alone.

Personally I like to experience new experiences and rather than bring a woman with me from the states, I much rather prefer to meet local women, (paid for is just fine) to show me around as well as keeping my bed warm.

Full disclaimer here, I have a VERY short attention span and need quite a bit of space. No matter how hot or how much fun a girl is, after a couple of days I need some "alone time" or even better, a different girl. lol

What I would probably do if I were actually "planning" a trip (planning is kind of a foreign concept to me) would be to reach out to several Sugar Babies in what ever countries I was heading to, making a few different dates, but also doing a bit of research on the P4P scene there as a back up plan if the SB's didn't work out.

It's funny I travel a lot and I will do overnight dates with hookers all the time, in the evening  we make all sorts of plans to spend the next several days together, but in the morning (after morning sex of course) I find myself losing all interest in staying with the same woman. Sometimes it takes a couple of days for this to happen if I REALLY like the woman, but by the second or third day at the most I am ready for a change. I guess it must just be a character flaw of mine. lol

I have always wanted to visit France or Italy and enjoy the food and wine and the culture. It wouldn't be fun alone, and I no longer have an S.O.  

Suppose I were to invite a provider whom I would have gotten to know here and who was interested in the same things. Aside from the sticker shock she would present me with, what might other risks be? (Assume that each of us would have an up-to-date passport.)

Posted By: countryguy8
Suppose I were to invite a provider whom I would have gotten to know here and who was interested in the same things. Aside from the sticker shock she would present me with, what might other risks be?
 

That you'll be sick of each after the 2nd day and now you're stuck with her.

ATLDAWG531 reads

You both would need to be certain you will be compatible for a long period of time.  

 Before you book your trip-at the very minimum - do a long weekend, or a week if you can,  at something like a "Bed and Breakfast" .  That experience should put you into some fairly similar situations that you should expect to encounter traveling abroad.  

Evaluate the France/Italy trip after the extended weekend or week if you can pull it off without getting side ways with one another  !!

  Be sure too that you and the gal's passports, etc....are up to date, etc....to avoid any extra hassles because there will be plenty of hassles with any trip involving commercial travel, etc....

Good Luck-if you decide to do it-let us know what you all did and how it went !!!

Make sure you can survive a long weekend together in the same room before committing to a longer time together. An overnighter is not necessarily a good test for a week or more together!

Don't treat her like a sex toy 24/7. Let her choose some of the things you do on the trip - indulge her interests as well.

it really should be the same as an IRL trip. It's not all about any one person. It should be about a great time  
for both people.  

Almost wish I had a pussy Big Boy ...lol  

ALMOST!

Great advice...and yes, all humans need some alone time to be their best.  I am fun, but not a toy.  Companionship is more than that afterall- touring, dining, fine conversations are all part of the trip too.  

You might want to take a look at the link below.

If I can make it happen (still up in the air), I'm very lucky. She would do this two-week trip for the price of about seven four-hour sessions.

Shiksa440 reads

Don't overthink it.  Just do it.  I guess the "risks" are the same as if you took a vacation with your girlfriend.  You or her could get sick, she could be tired from the jet-lag, maybe you'll disagree on some sites you'd like to see....

I have been, and most providers have traveled overseas many times with clients and it's not a huge deal.  It's a fun experience that you both should enjoy a lot!

The only weird thing that ever comes to mind in my experience, is that once me and my client were coming back into JFK from a certain country and I got GRILLED at customs about what he does for a living.  Luckily, I knew with 100% certainty and could answer without flinching.  But they asked me over and over in different ways what he does.  For whatever reason, the country we were coming back from was a little ... suspicious I guess and the fact that he was traveling with a much younger woman added to the suspicion?  But that was the only little weird snafu I can ever recall from traveling with a client.

I'm always amazed when people makes this statements that they couldn't or wouldn't enjoy traveling alone.  I'm certainly not going to allow myself to sit idle on the sideline because "it's not fun going alone".  I've traveled all over on my own and have totally enjoyed it.

Flew to Europe once with zero planning.  Bought a ticket last minute, flew a red eye and proceeded to just explore. Found a cheap hostel when I got tired. Two days later flew home. I did more in those two days than most do in a week. Would I do it again? Fuck yes I would.

I've almost always traveled alone. For thirteen years, every July I did 5,000 to 7,000 mile motorcycle trips out west for two or three weeks by myself. Loved it.

I had booked a trip to Sicily by myself for next month, but then met a provider late last year who's just so much fun that I'm certain I'd have far more fun with her than by myself.

I never liked traveling with my ex, nor she with me.

GaGambler567 reads

Traveling on the spur of the moment usually necessitates traveling alone unless you have someone who can also leave on a moments notice, but just because you take the flight there alone doesn't mean for a second you have to spend your trip alone.

Personally I like to experience new experiences and rather than bring a woman with me from the states, I much rather prefer to meet local women, (paid for is just fine) to show me around as well as keeping my bed warm.

Full disclaimer here, I have a VERY short attention span and need quite a bit of space. No matter how hot or how much fun a girl is, after a couple of days I need some "alone time" or even better, a different girl. lol

What I would probably do if I were actually "planning" a trip (planning is kind of a foreign concept to me) would be to reach out to several Sugar Babies in what ever countries I was heading to, making a few different dates, but also doing a bit of research on the P4P scene there as a back up plan if the SB's didn't work out.

It's funny I travel a lot and I will do overnight dates with hookers all the time, in the evening  we make all sorts of plans to spend the next several days together, but in the morning (after morning sex of course) I find myself losing all interest in staying with the same woman. Sometimes it takes a couple of days for this to happen if I REALLY like the woman, but by the second or third day at the most I am ready for a change. I guess it must just be a character flaw of mine. lol

Sometimes they are just a spur of the moment thing, sometimes they are well planned out.   My next big adventure, which I've been planning for on and off, won't have me even remotely close to hotel.  

I'm planning on sleeping out under the stars and I'm fairly certain I'm not going to encounter any people while I'm out and about.

GaGambler427 reads

right in front of my beach front hotel room.  

With a cold drink and a hot chica of course. lol

Hey, each to their own. You won't be competing with me for beach front rooms during the high season and I won't be spoiling your unspoiled wilderness.

Sometimes I'm very much in the mood to chill beach front somewhere and not move a muscle, other times I'm looking to get my adrenaline rush.  

But the need to have another person around will never hold me back from going anywhere or doing anything.  I'm not sitting on the sidelines waiting...keep up or step off.

Posted By: countryguy8
I have always wanted to visit France or Italy and enjoy the food and wine and the culture. It wouldn't be fun alone, and I no longer have an S.O.  
   
 Suppose I were to invite a provider whom I would have gotten to know here and who was interested in the same things. Aside from the sticker shock she would present me with, what might other risks be? (Assume that each of us would have an up-to-date passport.)

getting blown up by a crazy middle eastern guy.  Anything else is fixable.  

“I have found out that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain

ATLDAWG459 reads

As I said in an earlier post-take a weekend or a few days together in the United States-to test it further-do a Bed and Breakfast visit....

I like to have an overnight before committing to a long trip just to be sure we are travel compatible. So much to consider, like sleeping habits, eating habits (I traveled once with someone who didn't like to eat) and the ease with which my travel companion navigates hotels and airports. I am not an anxious traveler. Being really compatible could effect your final bill in a positive way.

Actually, when I said that traveling alone is no fun, I really meant that doing the wine-and-cuisine thing in Europe is no fun if you have to dine alone. Table for one? Forget it.

Lots of you have suggested not traveling overseas with a well auditioned U.S. provider but instead picking up a local after arriving. You're right. It does make more sense. I'm convinced!

But I have trouble picking up respectable local providers when I travel in Europe. I've done it only once successfully in a large European city. I sat on a bar stool looking out and smiling at ladies who were sitting at the cocktail tables. Duh. I finally got the attention of one of them. Wow. The dining that evening – and the sex that followed in the "oui" hours – are never to be forgotten.

But isn't it dumb to spin oneself around on a barstool and smile out at the patrons? Isn't there a better way?

GaGambler359 reads

Just like we no longer check out the ads in the yellow pages, or cruise the bad neighborhoods looking for SWs, finding a companion anywhere in the world in the 21st century is a breeze.

Every country does things a little bit differently, but although I can't post the link here, drop me a PM and I will send you a link for international mongering, I've found it very helpful when traveling to countries I have never been to before.

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