1) They're spending their kids' inheritance and college education or,
2) They don't have any kid
Just an observation, and more power to them. I was reading through some reviews a couple of days ago and I happened to click on some clients name. It amazed how often some clients see providers, then I got to thinking about the cost and multiplying it for the cost per month then by 12 to determine how much some are spending a year. Like I said, more power to them, they sure are having fun, it's BIG $$, wish I could afford it !! I'd be having as much fun as some of these guys and maybe some of the gals too. Just an observation.
consider quality over quantity, but from a practical standpoint, if you let too much semen build up, it can make you crazy in all kinds of ways.
Age is the great leveler. Most of us approaching 60 years have slowed down some from what our appetite demanded a few years ago. I expect to slow down even more when I'm approaching 70. I could have retired by now, but I'm worried I might run out of money while my dick still works. Can't think of anything more depressing than that.
I have to set aside $20 each week, which translates to a one-hour playdate once every two or three months. However, I did get away from the ex wife and am building savings...now if I can just get promoted to sous chef, things might start working out better.
It's all relative. Back in the day I could only hobby once a year. Who cares? I looked forward to that day every year, and felt like the luckiest guy in the world. Then I got a raise, and partied twice a year. A few more raises, and the house paid off, and I was playing in the five figure range for each year. But now, for a variety of reasons, I'm going back to the beginning. I may eventually end up back to my once a year. When that happens, I'll be the happiest hobbyist simply by looking forward to that one day.
1) They're spending their kids' inheritance and college education or,
2) They don't have any kid
...but then I think back to how much the divorce cost me (in early 90s dollars) and the low satisfaction level I was having sexually during our marriage.
P4P is a much better ROI and that stands up regardless of how much you're spending IMO.
For what it's worth, I adore my gentleman friends I see every 6 months, and my frequent regulars! I have one weekly regular who sees a lot of ladies (often more than one a day). We have become good friends and I love hearing his crazy stories!! I've also had to distance myself from men who became too possessive and got too attached and wanted to spend too much time with me. Everyone is different 