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Personality and sexual compatibility.
micktoz 41 Reviews 301 reads
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Along with an obvious desire for her to want to see me again .  
I also tend to desire fairly stable situations. No BSC ladies, and I really don't want to be in her rest of her life dramas.  

Most of the ladies that I visit regularly are great at communicating. And if there are miscommunications, they get resolved. If not, the arrangement ends.

Many people ask me if I have "regulars." I respond..."I have many irregular regulars!" I think the answer might be different region to region but my curious mind wants to know. Most recently, I received a text from another provider telling me a gentleman whom I have seen sporadically over the past 3 years was wanting to get in touch with me. Wouldn't it be easier to schedule a monthly or bi-monthly session than to worry about contact info, losing contact info, or starting all over again with someone else that you haven't established a connection with and enjoyed?  

 I am guessing the rural area where I reside and can reasonably travel within does not yield itself well to true "regulars" but in the spirit of always wanting to evolve... I thought I would put that question out and see what my like-minded,erotic, fellow sexual beings think. :-)

If the physical chemistry is there, I'll be seeing them again. How often depends on their availability and mine.

when I repeat it has everything to do with physical chemistry and our compatibility in terms of personality. In short, I repeat with those ladies I "click" with.

Looks, personality, price, skilz

Exactly, spot on Devil

There are well reviewed providers over the years who have left me cold, even though they attract great attention and probably have a healthy retinue of regulars.

But it's that little touch of magic when you meet someone, that indescribable feeling that you leave her company immediately wanting more.

It's outside of the purely physical, it's all to do with the charm, the wit and the intelligence of the lady you meet, that's what wants you to repeat your meetings, and to become a regular. Even if it's only a few times a year, especially if she tours, but that buzz of excitement when you know you're close to meeting her again, and when you meet again, and you see that smile on her face and you know there's nowhere else you'd rather be.

As I said, it's that little touch of magic, but whoever can unlock and bottle 'it', whatever it is, would be very wealthy, very wealthy indeed

Before I book, I have to like the provider's body and what I can tell of her face through the blurring. When I arrive, I have to like both.

The second is personality, which shows itself within a minute of the first meeting. We must get along well, converse easily, seem to enjoy each other's company.

Third is obviously performance. I need a very good blowjob, although if it's someone I'm going to see regularly, I can be hopeful I can teach her to do what I like. I don't like fake noises. I want someone who will let me know when I'm doing something right, and suggest what I should do.

For me to become a regular, there has to be some spark, something different about her that just draws me in. That's only happened twice. The first time I kept seeing a provider again and again until she retired. It happened just three months ago with another, and I've been seeing her for four hours every three weeks (too long a drive to  just spend an hour or two). I knew within the first half hour with her that I'd be seeing her as often as I could.

I'm delighted to find someone who makes me want to be a regular, as I will want to explore a lot with her.

For me it is her looks..how our personalities mesh..gotta have that chemistry working between us and truly enjoy spending time and talking with each other. There is just something different about her and we just click..Sometimes it's like you just can't wait to get back and spend time with her again..Finding a lady that you click with makes this hobby really special and a lot of fun.

all other things being equal.  Too bad we can't control that.

Of course, if she has a nifty little sports car that she'll let me drive, that would also cinch it.

Or, if she has a helicopter that she'll take me around in, that works also.  Not too many gals with one of those however.

I like your sense of humor! When I get a cute lil sports car or souped up chopper.....go big or go home right? I will look you up!

It started off all right, but after a while, the thing crashed to the ground.  

Luckily I wasn't hurt.  People asked what went wrong.  I said everything was fine until I started to feel a bit chilly, so I shut the fan off.

It's a Chemistry thing, a Passionate thing, etc...  
I have only one review on here, new to TER, but have seen several providers.

To me it's when you go in with a set list of things you want to do, yet when you are with her, you connect on a level that the Set List never really cares anymore. You are so Into the session, the passion, you truly do leave having to shake that experience out of your mind. It's not Robotic or seem Scripted, it's just Flows.  

Chemistry? Physical? Yeah, maybe all, maybe not.  

I just knew I had my head rocked, in more ways than one! It was an Intense session. Not talking about throwing each other into walls, yada..., (Though could. lol...) It was very passionate, like I was the only one in world, at least for our time. All I thought about for weeks. Repeat was the same experience. I search to find someone who can connect on that level or perhaps beat. I'm still searching...

ROGM444 reads

Great Attitude is a must.
Super Hot Looking. Although not a deal breaker.
Open Menu. She has to do the things I like to do.
Great to talk with.
Not a Clock Watcher.
Doesn't Rush me.
Seems to enjoy being with me. Even though most act like it.  
Doesn't charge 1 Billion dollars to see her.  

And I happen to be lucky to find a local provider that fits all these qualifications.    

...are the key elements, with physical appearance in there somewhere.

Yes, I'm a man and thus drawn to a woman that I find physically attractive -- that's step 1.  

Then I need to have some interaction with her (can be electronic but face-to-face is always best), to judge how we get along with our clothes on; that's step 2.

Then there's that undefinable "X factor" that I refer to as the Vibe -- chemistry, connection , karma, heat, etc.  
That's step 3.

After all that (and it pre-supposes that I've done my due diligence in researching her presence, to see if the things I feel are important in play time are present), then we're off and running.

With all of the above in place, I will repeat until something changes -- of course, I may see other providers in the interim.

Great response! I've heard other providers complain from time to time about too many texts, emails etc. I actually enjoy and welcome the communication before a session. It allows me to get a sense of the person to 1. feel comfortable offering a session in the first place 2. Cues that help me to get an idea of what the person is seeking and 3. My genuine self is a rocking awesome, good hearted person. I have a bubbly personality with a very expansive sensual appetite so a quick scheduling and session doesn't always give me the leeway to let that shine. Good conversation is a huge turn on and part of the overall chemistry thing. It's an "ivy leaguer thing."  

Thanks for letting me know my train is running down the right track!

The physical is why we see these wonderful ladies...the other 75% is the chemistry, casual and intellectual conversations, openness, and sharing experiences.  

The profession intrigues me and I love to spread my wisdom (and my wealth to a limit when I can) with the ladies who can entertain my needs in 60 minutes.

makes a regular all the more enjoyable. When you find that woman and develop that mutual attraction,  
the sex can take on many different forms as you learn more about each other's body and desires. The  
depth of the journey evolves and can be electric. I like electric... a lot.

chemistry AND the physics have to be good.  She also needs a sense of humor and an outgoing personality.  

One never knows when, where, nor with whom, it's just that somehow you click. It just happens. I've had many regular ladies over the years. They've all had different hair colors, different personalities, different boob sizes, different libidos, and they've all come from different cultures. The one attribute they all shared was that each one really liked me a lot. And that was proved by their actions. So I never go out looking for attributes. Rather, I always let things unfold naturally. If I feel like you like me, I'll be back. If I catch any hint that you're going through the motions, it'll be like my (moving on) post above.....She's Not There.

Posted By: sassysally6688
Many people ask me if I have "regulars." I respond..."I have many irregular regulars!" I think the answer might be different region to region but my curious mind wants to know. Most recently, I received a text from another provider telling me a gentleman whom I have seen sporadically over the past 3 years was wanting to get in touch with me. Wouldn't it be easier to schedule a monthly or bi-monthly session than to worry about contact info, losing contact info, or starting all over again with someone else that you haven't established a connection with and enjoyed?  
   
  I am guessing the rural area where I reside and can reasonably travel within does not yield itself well to true "regulars" but in the spirit of always wanting to evolve... I thought I would put that question out and see what my like-minded,erotic, fellow sexual beings think. :-)

Along with an obvious desire for her to want to see me again .  
I also tend to desire fairly stable situations. No BSC ladies, and I really don't want to be in her rest of her life dramas.  

Most of the ladies that I visit regularly are great at communicating. And if there are miscommunications, they get resolved. If not, the arrangement ends.

Posted By: micktoz
Along with an obvious desire for her to want to see me again .  
 I also tend to desire fairly stable situations. No BSC ladies, and I really don't want to be in her rest of her life dramas.  
   
 Most of the ladies that I visit regularly are great at communicating. And if there are miscommunications, they get resolved. If not, the arrangement ends.
Good point desire fairly stable situations in paid session.

I find the providers that I click with.  When there's mad chemistry, and she feels like a real girlfriend, I'll be back.  I've been lucky enough to make connections with some providers who don't mind if I give them a call a couple times a month just to chat.  That definitely brings me back for more.

Posted By: vantheman666
I find the providers that I click with.  When there's mad chemistry, and she feels like a real girlfriend, I'll be back.  I've been lucky enough to make connections with some providers who don't mind if I give them a call a couple times a month just to chat.  That definitely brings me back for more.
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