If you specify that you enjoy X or Y types of clients or sessions, it encourages those clients to feel good about choosing you. Most ladies attract a certain type of client anyway so it's really not necessary to mention that you like those types. But as I said, it makes them feel even more confident about picking you.
Its just marketing. Young clients are rare because: 1. They don't have much money (usually)2. They're probably out getting it the old fashioned way
3. They may be in new marriages/relationships where they don't yet feel the need to venture out Some may also say they love older men but yes there is some limit to how old. Im not speaking for everyone but I personally don't want an elderly, geriatric client. I want to have fun in the session and be able to relate to him mentally in some way.
I have noticed that several providers state that they "love" older gents. Is it because they are usually only good for one pop, ,or more reliable as far as showing up, easier to deal with or some other reason? Is there an age limit
you self impose?
Older gents are lovely...not that younger ones are not, but generally men with time become seasoned with the knowledge and savoir faire for treating a lady right. We find that safe and sexy! As for pops, which is a phrase I detest, btw...that depends on the gent so do not assume such things. I do not impose age limits...some do. happy hobbying
accountability, maturity, way to treat a woman...financially (for the most part) stable, enjoy a nice session, MARRIED (more discretion for me), for an older gentleman is more about experience than treating me like a blow up doll..
That's pretty much it...(in my case)
V~
said that first of all while their faces' have aged, their bodies' usually have stayed attractive (he was writing this from the France of Louis XVI) and second of all they are usually very grateful.
I think I am much more appreciative now that I would have been in my 20s and 30s (though I didn't start hobbying until about 20 years ago).
you self impose?
you self impose?
Seriously, do you think that "only one pop" somehow makes a client easier?
If so, you are mistaken. An older gentleman may have ED issues, bring a pump, or be so jaded by decades of hobbying that he expects me to turn cartwheels to impress him. Or he's simply become very critical, even nit-picky.
A young guy who wants to hump me for the entire hour, getting off as many times as he can? That is actually quite simple, although this could be more physical exertion than the average date.
I like gentlemen over 55 for two reasons: we usually have more in common in terms of life experiences (which makes conversation easier/more comfortable) than I find with younger men. And hey.... being with someone 10 or 20 years my senior makes me feel like a "young hottie" again.
Because the sexier I can feel with you, the hotter our time together will be.
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Which is more work? Three pops in an hour with short rest periods in between pops? or 59 minutes of non stop fucking just to get a single pop?
I am not saying that is what I do, (I don't), but if I was one of those guys who was overly concerned about "getting my money's worth" I could.
and yes, I am much pickier than I was forty years ago. At 18, even the crack of dawn wasn't safe, I would fuck ANYTHING, now at my "advanced age" of today, I have much higher standards.lol
...... that just because the "typical" AARP-qualifying client might be less PHYSICALLY STRENUOUS than a 30-year-old, does not mean that he is automatically EASIER.
The clients whom I consider "difficult" are such because of their personalities, habits, and behaviors that have little to do with physical demands.
Yes, I believe anyone who's been frequenting this board for more than a week is aware that you are, to put it mildly, quite seasoned when it comes to women both amateur and pro. ::eyeroll::
However, I honestly cannot imagine you taking the time and energy to berate a woman who fell short of your expectations and/or standards. You'd simply walk away, no? 
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If she fell short of expectations where it comes to appearance, I would simply walk without there ever being a session and if she failed to meet my expectations between the sheets, I'd simply never go back. I have never understood the concept of telling a woman about "how bad" she is in bed. You are absolutely right, I am not "that guy" lol
I remember Marsha Winfield (Night Court) doing stand up back in the 90's. She said someone told her that older guys could do it longer. Then the punch line was, "What I want to know is: Who wants to fuck an old man for a long time".
I am not saying that is what I do, (I don't), but if I was one of those guys who was overly concerned about "getting my money's worth" I could.
and yes, I am much pickier than I was forty years ago. At 18, even the crack of dawn wasn't safe, I would fuck ANYTHING, now at my "advanced age" of today, I have much higher standards.lol
Older men are definitely not easier for the reasons explained above. Some older men...usually above 70...tend to have that weird older person smell and taste which is generally why I prefer men between 40-60.
And hey.... being with someone 10 or 20 years my senior makes me feel like a "young hottie" again.
So naturally I would gravitate towards older men. They are better lovers,more attentive,dress and smell better usually and almost always are kinky as hell. Younger clients seem to be really hard to deal with and ask a bunch of stupid questions. No thanks.
you self impose?
Because they are more experienced in bed and more mature mentally.Who wants to have sex with an 18 year old who still trying to hit puberty?lol
you self impose?
I think a lot of guys here would be willing to give you a ten percent discount off of their usual rates.
Count me as one of the "not for ANY amount of money" crowd where it comes to Fancy.
That's why I put the line in the water. Lol
I think of Frank Sinatra comparing it to this verse in, “It was a Very Good Year”:
And now I think of my life as vintage wine
From fine old kegs
From the brim to the dregs
It poured sweet and clear
It was a very good year
Pops aside, what provider (who likes wine), would want to pass that up?
...the difference between a client acting like a "guy," rather than being a man.
"...for an older gentleman is more about experience than treating me like a blow up doll.. "
As one of the older gentlemen, taking our time and treating a woman as a woman should be treated is all part of the BOTH of us having a quality encounter. From what I've gathered, guys are simply looking to "get theirs" and don't have much regard for the woman involved. A man sees her as a partner in their time together and should want her to enjoy herself as well.
Some of that is inherent in personality, some of it is social conditioning and some of it just takes time to develop -- "guys" can become men but it's a journey.
I didn't mean to start a fire storm. I've only discovered this site in the last 3 months & have joined in the last 2. i did not know sites like this existed so I have many questions as far as decorum is concerned. Certainly didn't mean to offend anyone.
plus, they're less jackhammery and maybe more grateful? Better manners, I imagine.
If you specify that you enjoy X or Y types of clients or sessions, it encourages those clients to feel good about choosing you. Most ladies attract a certain type of client anyway so it's really not necessary to mention that you like those types. But as I said, it makes them feel even more confident about picking you.
Its just marketing.
Young clients are rare because:
1. They don't have much money (usually)
2. They're probably out getting it the old fashioned way
3. They may be in new marriages/relationships where they don't yet feel the need to venture out
Some may also say they love older men but yes there is some limit to how old. Im not speaking for everyone but I personally don't want an elderly, geriatric client. I want to have fun in the session and be able to relate to him mentally in some way.
This is a somewhat confused post. Yes, it is marketing. It's beneficial to mention it if you want to drum up business from certain types.
Ladies don't have any reason to m make clients feel confident about choosing them, except to make them more likely to choose them. And to get them to repeat. If they like attracting a certain type, they can get even more to come by advertising to them.
So I'm not sure what you're on about with the they attract a certain type anyway, not necessary to mention stuff.
Most of your clientele have large expensive homes and gardens.
When marketing your business, you mention, "I LOVE landscaping large homes and gardens!"
They're the only clientele you get anyway (rarely if ever will someone with a small house ask for your services), but just to reassure your potential new clients (with large homes and gardens) that they've picked the right landscaper, you mention them specifically.
I hope this example makes more sense.
Old men usually know how to take a long time to shine up that gun barrel. The lady's love to shine up a gun barrel till it spits out B. Franklins. Lol. No disrespect beautiful ladies. What a great hobby for an old man. Beat's the hell out of golf. Putting a little white ball in a hole. Stupid!
I am one of those girls who loves to fuck men twice (or 2.5 times) her age. I prefer men of that age both as clients and as real-life partners.
I could go on and on about how advanced age engenders consideration for others, an expanded worldview vis-a-vis the arts, current events, travel, etc.
However, I'll give you a compare-and-contrast scenario.
Example 1: A young guy.
Contacted me via p411. 25 y/o. 10 OK's, easily verified, sound nice over email. Zero potential red flags. He's from CA, visiting his parents in LI, and taking the train to the city for some fun... some sexy fun, some other fun.
The day of: he tells me he'll be in the city "all day" because he's "bored." Two hours before the appt is set to start, he tells me that he's at my corner, "on good faith" that I'll be available so early. I was in fact feeling trapped in my hotel at that point (if I went out to get lunch, would he accost me in the street?). I told him I'd be available about an hour early (I still needed to get ready) and that I'd be happy to see him at that time, as it fit into my plans for the rest of the evening (anticipating that he'd want to hang out for a while longer that *I'd* planned).
So, I see him. Cute, 25. Doesn't have many interests, doesn't like to read, doesn't have any plans for his day in the city except for seeing me and walking around. He and complains about how "boring" it is visiting his parents. We start fucking, straight off, with little foreplay except about 15 seconds of kissing (bad kisser). He comes quickly, so I begin a massage and prepare for round 2. He pretty much reubuffs my efforts at said second round. Then, suddenly, he's raging (with about 5 min left). I've (supposedly) come 3 times already. He wants to know, what is my record?? Let's beat your record, he says. He wants some excessively rough finger play. I beg for his cock (hoping he'll fuck me and come). He holds out for as long as possible, then of course, he can't come, since he's now putting too much pressure on himself to "perform." He has to jack off, while fingering me too roughly, trying to stick a (large-ish) toy up my ass, and generally manhandling me. Tells me he's always wanted to try anal (I'm not known as an anal provider, and did not -eh - prepare). When he finished, he asked for a massage (it was already 40 min past the time) and barring that, to grab dinner OTC (I guess so we could talk more about how bored he was).
Example 2:
Guy books 2 months in advance. He's in his 60s. One of my good friends was a reference and had very nice things to say. I didn't ask for any additional screening info.
He arrives on time. We relax a bit with a bottle of wine and, within a few minutes, start kissing and get into the session.
While he's short, skinny, and bald, he's very sweet, and not one bit bad in bed. He is gentle when touching and fingering, and knows how to eat a pu**y. It takes him nearly the entire time (about 3 hours) to come, but he's gentle, sweet, and we vary things w/a variety of positions and activities (69, different positions, using massage oil to rub and slide on each other, using toys). He came, I did also.
Before and during, the conversation was very interesting!! He was in NYC for a special charity trip, which I found both endearing and interesting. We had similar interests in music, except that his knowledge was much more extensive than mine. It was a pleasure to speak with him about art, his "nerdy" interests (I found them interesting) and his travels and work. Despite the difference in our ages, I thought we had fantastic chemistry.
He booked as much time as he needed, and left right on the dot, even though I wouldn't have minded if he'd stayed a bit longer. I hear from him via email every so often. He has a trip booked this spring and we'll meet again when he's in my area 
I'm genuinely excited!!
I've always had a penchant for the older gentleman. There's numerous reasons why but my favorite has to be that usually it's their level of maturity. I have found that the conversations had with a older gents tend to be more intellectually stimulating. There is also more of an understanding of boundaries for both parties. While I enjoy younger clients thoroughly, there is a tendency for them to cross the line. Finally, it has nothing to do with how many "pops" (god I hate that) an older gent has or does not have. The best sex I've had has usually been with a much older gent.
LJ
we are much more mannered and appreciative.
you self impose?