What are Providers thoughts regarding these statements s to the appropriate age ranges they would see? Are there truly a set of ranges or figure of speech? Would a person who just turned 50, good shape, good hygiene, etc..., be considered to old for the "Mature and Upscale Gentlemen" sayings on there sites?
I know what that guys are going to say. I know many are over 50 and well above and have no issues with this question.
The reason I ask is because someone mentioned that they had set an appointment with a provider, date and time, and upon arriving and leaving donation in place, the provider began to be rude to him explaining that he was to old to be in the hobby. Didn't make him feel to well, even though he has been in the hobby a long time.
So where does that line stop for most?
Just a very curious, and hopefully informative from the female stance, question
Thanks in advance for any replies...
One means, in a legal sense, age 21 or more, though in our world,I guess 50 would be as good a number as any.
I prefer to regard that term as referring to mental and emotional attributes however and regard it as meaning you act as a mature person would, that is to say with politeness and tact, among other things.
Upscale could mean that one's income allows them to spend freely (if not wisely), and the client won't be degrading the experience by trying to haggle the price, though I suppose there could be other attributes attached not the least of which is that you bath and dress appropriately for your session.
I'm a youthful 64 in years, feel like I'm 35, and think like I'm 25. I always give my age when approaching a new provider so I hope to never have the experience like the poor fellow you describe. I can't think that provider will last long unless she does some kind of weird sadism shtick.
I'm definitely "mature"--chronologically speaking at least--but due to my choice of profession and having raised kids, definitely *not* "upscale" in the usual meaning. But that just means I wait longer between appointments and forgo the more high-end providers.
I have also started, with the few appointments I've booked in the last couple of years, to mention my age up front; I don't want an unpleasant surprise on any side. So far I haven't encountered anyone who has a problem with it.
Well said.
It's a service business, at the end of the day.
...That really have no meaning other than PR fluff that I completely disregard. As for "mature" - that can mean many things and if a hobbyist is concerned that he or she is too young to meet the criteria then an email or text to the gal would be a good idea to help clear up any possible confusion.
which I see often in ads and I always get a chuckle after seeing it: "It's me or it's free", "My pics are real and recent" "No LE" (that's always a favorite), "Call only when ready" the always popular "hygienically correct" and lastly my all time favorite "generous gentlemen"
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least favorite word in the dictionary.
However, it could just be ladies are trying to weed out a type they dont want to see.
If they want to weed people out, they can raise their prices. Wouldn't necessarily work, but it has a better chance than words on ads no one reads.
AFTER taking the donation.
Yes. And it was an add that was posted on another popular B site he answered.
Whenever a client in his 60s wants to make an appointment, he lets me know his age in case it's a problem. It makes sense because I'm only in my early 20s and some girls my age may not be comfortable with such a gap. But I'm completely fine with it. I'm much more concerned with how they treat me than their age.
If I say I'm looking for mature upscale gentleman, to me that means preferably men in their late 30s and over, want both of us to have a good time, and has no qualms with giving me my full donation.
Quite frankly I don't even think about being too old in civvie life much less P4P. Thanks for making me feel old. lol
Actually the thought really never does cross my mind. I have a couple of SB's that are still quite a ways from their 20th birthday that have no problems even being seen in public with me and one who will identify herself as my GF if asked. I guess it must suck to not only be old, but know you are old to boot. In my case, "ignorance is bliss" lol
If it helps, I've had SDs in their 60s so don't worry about it 
age is just a number
and rarely worry about in civvie life, although I have conceded my chances of winning the lottery are about as good as my chances of picking up the cute 19 year old waitresses I still am interested in, without offering "some sugar" at least. I still have enough swag to land the occasional "twenty something" but that usually means 29 and not 21 at my "advanced age" lol
Haha that still sounds like a pretty good set up
I have a client that I've seen since my first month in the industry. He's in his early 70's now and still performs like he's 28. Granted, there's a little blue pill involved now but none the less, it's always among the best and I always "get mine", lol. And I'm certainly one in a position to know good from bearable in the bedroom. I also have a college student that is so sweet he's the highlight of my week sometimes. I opt to say I prefer gentlemen 40ish-60ish but there are exceptions to every rule. Lots of ladies have changed their "Greek" rule lately, lol.
I know what that guys are going to say. I know many are over 50 and well above and have no issues with this question.
The reason I ask is because someone mentioned that they had set an appointment with a provider, date and time, and upon arriving and leaving donation in place, the provider began to be rude to him explaining that he was to old to be in the hobby. Didn't make him feel to well, even though he has been in the hobby a long time.
So where does that line stop for most?
Just a very curious, and hopefully informative from the female stance, question
Thanks in advance for any replies...
For me, age would have nothing to do with it since I have wealthy 21-year-olds who book me, but they are polite and very sweet and considerate. So 'mature' just means a client with no drama or issues and knows how to treat a woman well.
Upscale means, that the client can afford my prices without question.
Regardless, if they are a woman or a man, or what ethnicity, race, age, religion or profession or if they have a disability. Equal opportunity for all.......Uninhibited, kinky fun is all really that matters....
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To me "Mature" can be an age thing, as in older, or it can be how one acts. If I am using the term, it means acting like an adult and having some knowledge about life where he can have a great conversation.
"Upscale" in my eyes means being able to spend freely without haggling and also a more business type of person versus a blue collar type. I for one like the blue collar types as they tend to be more fun and act like a regular person. Some "upscale" guys come off as being pains in the arse and picky. Some, not all.
I think there is good value in mentioning ones age if you feel there is concern on if she wants to see you. Some have age ranges (no younger guys and some don't like older guys). Older guys are great for me but I won't put an age range on my stuff because there are some younger guys (under 35) that are mature enough where I am open to seeing them. I actually do have quite a bit of guys who are in the 22-35 age range that are just as mature and a gentleman as the older crowd. If I would have put a "only 35 plus", I would have missed out on them. I just go by each individual.
If a gal is very young, she may want to know if the guy who is contacting her is four times her age. She may be fine with it and she may not be. Always best to find out before walking in the door. Same thing if you are very young, at least give me a heads up so I am not shocked when I see you lol. Yes, that has happened a few times.
I know what that guys are going to say. I know many are over 50 and well above and have no issues with this question.
The reason I ask is because someone mentioned that they had set an appointment with a provider, date and time, and upon arriving and leaving donation in place, the provider began to be rude to him explaining that he was to old to be in the hobby. Didn't make him feel to well, even though he has been in the hobby a long time.
So where does that line stop for most?
Just a very curious, and hopefully informative from the female stance, question
Thanks in advance for any replies...
If the client showed up in a Wheel Chair or Rascal Scooter, then that would be too old to play.
... but if I'm ever in a wheelchair or scooter, I hope to have working hands, tongue, and brain* still!
*To the extent that it is functioning now, anyway.
... clients in wheel chairs, whether due to old age or disability or injury. Maybe the guy in a wheelchair is a veteran who's in the chair because of what he did for his country.
I know some providers like this, my ATF for one. Some advertise as "disability-friendly." They don't care if the guy's in a chair or not, disabled or simply too old to "get it up." They know they can make him feel better just by treating him as someone special, for that hour or two.
Take the donation, be rude to the hobbyist by telling him he's too old to be in the hobby = his dick most likely went limp upon hearing her cruel words = she didn't have to work.
I do hope the hobbyist writes a review!
I know what that guys are going to say. I know many are over 50 and well above and have no issues with this question.
The reason I ask is because someone mentioned that they had set an appointment with a provider, date and time, and upon arriving and leaving donation in place, the provider began to be rude to him explaining that he was to old to be in the hobby. Didn't make him feel to well, even though he has been in the hobby a long time.
So where does that line stop for most?
Just a very curious, and hopefully informative from the female stance, question
Thanks in advance for any replies...
Maybe true because even after that tirade, she still went through the date. Albeit very mechanical to where my friend Wanted to hurry up and leave, which he did after forcing himself to be done within 20mins of a supposed 90min session. He was that hurt and put off by it that he Wanted to hurry and leave.
Just Hearing his experience made me want to bring up the age thing and advertisers wording to the Ladies Here to get their thoughts on this. He went by an ad somewhere else. You can likely guess...
From someone who has been hobbying a long time, it really rocked him personally and he has admittedly slowed way down because of this encounter. Depressed him that much.
I personally haven't run into this type of issue. I am 50 myself and have met Ladies from 22 to 50. One 22 year old after a very long session of basically non-stop activity, with her finally laying there with Multiple O's, sweat, you get the idea, said I must have been hell at 17 with a laugh. My reply was what do you think about Now? We both laughed because the two hour session was so intense and strong, for both, but especially Her.
Robbin could be right. She could have declined and not excepted the donation before starting to lecture the poor guy.
Just after hearing his encounter, I myself began to wonder about the topic. Admittedly wondering too much and finally hesitating contacting providers I would normally not even blink about doing so. Hearing his story made me feel bad as well, perhaps to much to get into my own head.
As several of us have said, just let providers know your age before you meet. And as several of us has also noted, it seldom turns out to be a problem. That particular provider did not really act like a decent human being, and I'd say that behavior is in the minority.
You might want to let your friend know the gist of what we've all said here, too. And maybe recommend some of the providers here who know how to appreciate a guy (more, if anything) when he's not a kid any more.
Your "friend" is a grown ass man with free will. Or at least he is supposed to be. I can't imagine putting up with that kind of crack from any woman, unless of course I am hitting on an 18 year old civvie girl and she tells me "get away from me grandpa" lol
and for the record, I am well over 50, getting much closer to sixty and no hooker has EVER told me I was too old, and I've seen hundreds of hookers still in their late teens.
She was just being a bitch and probably trying to rip him off.
Seems to me that the majority of TER ladies enjoy and very much welcome older guys. If in doubt, just add your age into the screening process. I am willing to bet that most will add a real nice note on how they love and appreciate older gents.
I think it takes one shitty human being to say crap like that. I am sure she wasn't perfect but he was a gentleman and didn't criticize her. There are things that sometimes we may all think about various things in life, but decent people don't say it.
He should review her. I would have walked out with my money if she was insulting me. Saying things like that is not a one time thing. I bet she says that often. Real ladies don't act like that.
Since it was brought up in a few posts on this thread: I do not discriminate against a group, just individuals based on their behavior... which also means I don't care if someone is disabled either. I will see nice guys that I find interesting and know how to respect me. I give that respect back.
Just Hearing his experience made me want to bring up the age thing and advertisers wording to the Ladies Here to get their thoughts on this. He went by an ad somewhere else. You can likely guess...
From someone who has been hobbying a long time, it really rocked him personally and he has admittedly slowed way down because of this encounter. Depressed him that much.
I personally haven't run into this type of issue. I am 50 myself and have met Ladies from 22 to 50. One 22 year old after a very long session of basically non-stop activity, with her finally laying there with Multiple O's, sweat, you get the idea, said I must have been hell at 17 with a laugh. My reply was what do you think about Now? We both laughed because the two hour session was so intense and strong, for both, but especially Her.
Robbin could be right. She could have declined and not excepted the donation before starting to lecture the poor guy.
Just after hearing his encounter, I myself began to wonder about the topic. Admittedly wondering too much and finally hesitating contacting providers I would normally not even blink about doing so. Hearing his story made me feel bad as well, perhaps to much to get into my own head.
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Mature: Won't use condoms to make water balloons
Upscale: Won't use water balloons as condoms
...when contacting a potential provider. At 63, there may be some qualms on the part of a provider to see someone who is 2 1/2-3 times their own age (another reason why I've concentrated on lovely women 35+).
Once I get that part of the discussion out of the way, most women I've contacted recently don't seem to have an issue with it -- again, shows the value of upfront and honest communication in the process of getting to know one another a bit before the meeting.
Bad provider business 101. If she wants minimums or maximums on age limits she should post it on her ad/site
That sort of behaviour is just plain rude.
I know what that guys are going to say. I know many are over 50 and well above and have no issues with this question.
The reason I ask is because someone mentioned that they had set an appointment with a provider, date and time, and upon arriving and leaving donation in place, the provider began to be rude to him explaining that he was to old to be in the hobby. Didn't make him feel to well, even though he has been in the hobby a long time.
So where does that line stop for most?
Just a very curious, and hopefully informative from the female stance, question
Thanks in advance for any replies...