I am going to Richmond next month which is not too far
Xo

...about 2hr 15/2.5hr each way.  
Since the travel time alone takes a huge chunk out of the day I think it's fitting to ask for a 3hr date minimum .

Not too far at all if the fun is truly fun!

Don't think I can post it here, though.

I stay at lake Anna in the wintertime which isn't far from there

Provider rule of thumb for traveling

Now this is just what I have come up with from "watching the other ladies"-

Driving time should equal the appointment time or less.  
(What lady is going to drive 3 hours for a 1 hour appointment?)

Usually if I drive an hour to get there, I charge $100. (Technically this is 2 hours, adding both there & back.)

This fee can vary from lady to lady.

So if I spend 2 hours total driving- my required minimum appointment time is 2 hours.
(Totaling 4 hours.)
I think that is pretty reasonable.

Now here's your formula...

Total hobby funds = X

Donation = D
Travel Expense= T

As long as you can make D+T≤X.....
And she is willing.... Go for it.
More flavors to pick from, right?

BTW, most ladies who travel that far, will probably want a deposit upfront.
Just make sure you get a well reviewed lady when sending deposits....
But I am sure you already knew that.

Happy Hobbying to you