Or is it all a troll act?
Do providers really use a blacklist or is this just escort internet lore?
a DNS list, and often network their list with other providers. Several ways to get on a list. The most common are:
Timewasters
No shows / flakes
Rough or abusive
Shorts and Stiffs
They don't want either one. When its anatomical, one is preferred, the other is not, but most providers will make do.
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I thought it was a fashion, or perhaps fashion and hygiene, issue...
...threatening to write a bad review if the provider doesn't do something nasty you want, e.g. bbfs, is another good way to get your ticket to the BL.
While I agree that is quite deserving of inclusion on a BL is it really something different from Abusive?
Yes. Abusive is something like ghetto gagging a provider for an entire 90 minute date, or some other physically or psychologically abhorrent behavior IMO.
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Of course there is a blacklist, besides the NBL, and personal DNS lists, there are loads of other ways the girls communicate with each other about bad actors, guys want BBFSCIP and who want to pay with milk and diapers instead of cold hard cash. But there is no way they are going to tell you all their secrets.
Please tell me you aren't really Asian, "our kind" are supposed to be so much smarter. You lower the curve for all of us.
You can be smart, but not necessarily knowledgeable. Many people impute knowledge to those who are intelligent. Not always true. Wisdom, on the other hand, comes with age and experience. Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit, not a vegetable. Wisdom is knowing not to put it in your fruit salad.
I'm just sayin'
Or is it all a troll act?
The blacklists have helped me avoid at least 3 situations in which my life might've been legitimately at risk had I not used them. So I swear by it! There's too many crazy people with bad intentions out there.
If you think Providers don't talk amongst themselves you're sadly mistaken.
I have blocked and blacklisted quite a few folks, but the ones who really piss me
off I tend to share their info amongst other providers. And if I'm really heated, I will
take the time out of my schedule to alert the every provider in the state and the surrounding ones too.
I don't like games and I am sure that's true for the rest of us.
You say ladies talk amongst themselves. Maybe this explains why I keep getting random text from established ladies telling me that they are coming to my town and asking me if I would like to meet with them. I was aware of the said ladies/lady but never contacted them and I wondered how they got my number. Maybe another provider had shared my number and info with them.
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I doubt it... Most ladies are stingy with their gentlemen
why don't you ask them?
As to a provider black list,
my favorite philosophy is:
If I haven't been told, then it's none of my business.
"If you don't know by now ... don't mess with it!"
my favorite philosophy is:
If I haven't been told, then it's none of my business.
There are a couple more that are somewhat more reputable than the NBL, though they also pick up tainted listings from it. Black lists do perform a legitimate function, but like much else in this world they are badly misused. To me, the only reason to put a guy on a black list is if he robs, refuses to pay, assaults, stalks or harasses girls. Black listing for time wasters or poor hygiene is bullshit, especially if real, personal information is revealed. These latter transgressions are what DNS lists are for. But many girls don't know the difference.
And to the shock of absolutely no one, JLS chimes in with her anti-male and angry response.
OF COURSE BL's are needed to help warn other gals to keep their distance from a DANGEROUS John, but not from a thoughtless or careless one.
Time wasters, NCNS, and last minute cancellations are all an annoyance, but they are the price of doing business, as EVERY business has to deal with from time to time.
It is people like JLS, who sadly don't know the difference between these two VERY different type of offenses and never will.
A "professional" will put those dudes on her DNS and maybe tell a few close friends in the biz, as you suggest.
But "professionals" also don't go around with multiple personas to fool the clients.
Ahem.
And you are on all the reputable ones, under your various names.
and deservedly so.
if there's a NCNC as long as the person take care of the cancelation fee... it should not be an issue and should not be on that list 
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Have abused it's use, both ladies and believe it or not guys have put others guys on there, like there's some Guido grease ball bullshit going on.They'll take their beef to that level. Oh,and I'm listed on the NBL...It hasn't hurt me, so fuck her ass.
Safety is always the first rule. If anyone fucks with your time and money, a provider can and should rightfully blacklist. Always remember that there's always more clients coming her way. Providers: stay positive and keep your head held high and the right kind of clients will come. Clients: be a true gentleman and a class act. We always appreciate meeting the good guys in this business! Bad boys go to clubs, drop ridiculous cash on bottle service and go home with their dicks in their hands. Blacklisted boys just probably can never get laid EVER since they fucked over a sure thing.
This is the most cursing I've done in one post. hehehehehe
This is a tough business. I might be in the scrub class but I think I've been around long enough say everyone gets cancelled on. I don't bother with a deposit. If I'm in a good mood and the dude has a good excuse, he might get a chance but for the most part, I keep it busy and stay open for a real good client to land on my pretty little lap and forget about the jerk of the week.
Keep it movin' and don't look back
Uwhy are you asking?! Are tou worried that you are blacklisted for a reason?!
As long as you behave like a truly gentleman, you shouldn't haveto worey.
These verification options have been great for me, ans fortunately I had avoided ugly situations because of it.
An extensive one at that!
Yes, there's several "blacklisting" sites that do exist and many providers utilize these sites. I only use them as part of my screening process. I personally have never had to blacklist anyone (thank God). LOL.