I am thinking of potentially reaching out to some providers about a MFM session. I was wondering how would one make that happen? I know there are couples who offer this service, but my urge is to go with a single lady (my ATF) and perhaps another hobbyist in my city per her recommendation.
For Hobbyist: Would you feel comfortable if a provider presented this option to you?
Would it make you feel more comfortable if you read the other guys reviews and got a sense of how you would interact?
Or hell no, would never consider it?
For Providers: Have you had experience facilitating this request, or does it go through your assistant/agency? Good or bad experiences?
Too much work?
P.S. I'm not bi and other than being in the same room with the other guy, my only concentration would be on the lady. PM or board posts are fine.
Never done it, but would with my ATF.
For Hobbyist: Would you feel comfortable if a provider presented this option to you?
Would it make you feel more comfortable if you read the other guys reviews and got a sense of how you would interact?
Or hell no, would never consider it?
For Providers: Have you had experience facilitating this request, or does it go through your assistant/agency? Good or bad experiences?
Too much work?
P.S. I'm not bi and other than being in the same room with the other guy, my only concentration would be on the lady. PM or board posts are fine.
It is something I could set up with certain guys but I would not give you any sort of information on them, which would include the reviews. Even if he said it was ok to share that information, I would not share it. Too many things could go wrong with this.
The issue is this, if I haven't seen you before, how do I know how you will act during with another guy? He is a paid client. Obviously I wouldn't want to have issues during the session with either feeling uncomfortable.
Some gals may have guy friends that wouldn't mind partaking.
I would go with a couple, if I were you, it just makes it simpler. Then you would know that the other guy would be into having you there, versus him feeling "oh, this might be a good idea" and later changing his mind.
I have done MFM before, but in all cases both the guys knew each other. Everything went great because we were all on the same page.
Did you ever consider seeing one of the hot TS ladies and having her do doubles with another provider or your provider? You could see her getting fucked by a hot lady and you'd both be concentrating on the GG, if that is what you wish.
For Hobbyist: Would you feel comfortable if a provider presented this option to you?
Would it make you feel more comfortable if you read the other guys reviews and got a sense of how you would interact?
Or hell no, would never consider it?
For Providers: Have you had experience facilitating this request, or does it go through your assistant/agency? Good or bad experiences?
Too much work?
P.S. I'm not bi and other than being in the same room with the other guy, my only concentration would be on the lady. PM or board posts are fine.
A visiting provider was in town with a guy advertising services. I read some reviews of them... but many included.. things like while i was kissing her.. he went down on me..
It made me mervous and i decided against it. I contacted the provider and told her I was not bi.. she told me that she enjiys helping to expand others boundaries. I decided against it...
But I wouldn't do MFM if it were free, much less pay for it. Makes no difference who the other guy is.
I am thinking of potentially reaching out to some providers about a MFM session. I was wondering how would one make that happen? I know there are couples who offer this service, but my urge is to go with a single lady (my ATF) and perhaps another hobbyist in my city per her recommendation.
For Hobbyist: Would you feel comfortable if a provider presented this option to you?
Would it make you feel more comfortable if you read the other guys reviews and got a sense of how you would interact?
Or hell no, would never consider it?
For Providers: Have you had experience facilitating this request, or does it go through your assistant/agency? Good or bad experiences?
Too much work?
P.S. I'm not bi and other than being in the same room with the other guy, my only concentration would be on the lady. PM or board posts are fine.
I really like the idea of the lady really enjoying it. And it fits my voyeur tendencies.
I've done it in a room with 8 guys and 11 ladies, but just 3 of us is different. I would have to know the guy, to be sure we are on the same page.
Some guys think having a lady in the room makes it less gay. If you're curious, book a TS and save the other half of the fee. You can still get that I'm-not-gay-because-there's-a-pair-of-tits-in-the-room feeling.
To answer your question . . . Hell no, not even if THEY paid ME.
Don't worry CDL, my dick isn't very long, so there is zero chance of crossing swords when I'm pounding her from behind and she has you down her throat.
Less gay, but most of the posts I've seen in this guys are looking for DP. My point is if you want to rub your dick in another guy's, you still don't need a girl in the room. Again, if you're bi-curious, hire a TS.
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When I was in San Diego, back when MySpace was popping, I saw a profile of an ass just sitting there perfect. On a whim I contacted the lady and shot her a line. She responded back and we talked. Then she dropped a proposition on me. She said "hers the deal, my man just likes to watch me get fucked." I paused, then agreed to meet. That Friday evening, she gives me her address, and I'm on my way. Nervous as fawk, I make it to her place, she answers the door, smoking hot and introduces me to her man. He is cool with everything and after some drinks we head to the room. She's giving me head as her dude is watching and we do the deed, he hops on while I clean up and next thing I know she has my cock in her mouth until I finish again. Cool couple, as she stated her dude just liked watching his girl get fucked. He didn't touch me nor did I touch him. So, yeah I guess it is amazing because I don't feel once ounce of gayness in my body.
Also, while I lived out there I frequently visited a really popular swingers club called Thad's. Couples going at it left and right, small pockets of fucking here and there in small groups and some larger groups. Gayness meter still on 0. So if one was to go by your theory of thinking then every male that visits a swingers club with his woman is gay right? Don't confuse your own lack of confidence with that of someone else's.
To answer your question . . . Hell no, not even if THEY paid ME.
I don't care if you are gay or not, it makes ZERO difference to me either way.
You put out a request on how to set up a "non sword crossing" MFM. Personally, I think you should be taken at your word. You might try asking on your regional board, there are a lot of guys into this type of thing I would imagine, especially since I have seen MANY posts on this subject on the various regional boards.
One other thing to consider are the many "couples" that advertise this service. This way you can have the guys interact as much or as little as you'd like since he is part of the package and not a paying customer himself. Just something to think about rather than ending up in a bed with some random dude who might not share your same thoughts about "boundaries"
The majority of couples that I have seen advertise this service are more "cuckhold." I'm really not into paying to watch live porn and not being able to participate.
but they are frequent posters/advertisers here on TER and 100% legit from what I have heard. They seem to offer what you are looking for.
Sorry I can't be of more help, as while I don't feel the need to criticize you for your tastes, I don't happen to share them. Good luck though. There are enough both women and men that are into this that I am sure you can find what you are looking for.
Swingers clubs either. If I want more women for an orgy I'll just hire more women. I shouldn't have to trade mine to some other dude. I know some guys that tried it and the problem is your woman sees a guy she wants to fuck, but his "trade" is an OTHFB, so for me, it would only be an option if I was broke, because it's obviously going to be cheaper.
Unless you just watched the TS play with its tits, or something, the situation is not comparable. The above poster specified that he didn't want to interact with the man. I don't know whether he wants to be going at it with the lady at the same time, but I get the feeling it's more about voyeurism.
If you want to argue watching a man and woman go at it is gay, okay, but then pretty much everyone who watches porn is gay. I don't think think the fact that you're actually in the room with them makes enough of a difference. Depending, of course, on what this guy actually has planned for the room.
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He doesn't want to interact with the man. They ALL say that. I would say it too if I was going to try that shit.
I watch my fair share of porn, and almost always the woman has an exceptional orgasm, I wanted to be part of that and cross it off the bucket list.
The other dick in the room, is just that another dick in the room. I know I'm not gay, or bi, not that there's anything wrong with that, so I wasn't scared.
But yeah, if you're not secure with your sexuality, you probably shouldn't try it, you might slip and fall and turn gay.
For example, you could always post on your local board about what you are looking for and see who replies. I could screen them and we'd go from there. Hard for me to do the same as that would be seen as advertising.
Of course your ATF may already know someone who would be interested, it can't hurt to ask.
The experiences I have had have always been setup by the gentlemen - they have been overwhelmingly positive. And the vast majority did not involve any male-male contact.
Is if I was given a significant discount.
with two people I am very close to.
With anyone else, nada.
How about I fuck her today in Texas, and then put her on a plane for you to fuck tomorrow??? lmao
You fucking fucker.
Would you be watching you, like a clone, or would you inhabit the consciousness of all twelve of you at once?
A little bit of both and I'd switch off to suit my mood.
I sometimes find myself in a standard Me-Her situation and I'll be busy in one area thinking, "This feels great but I wanna be down there, too!" or "I wanna be up there, too!" And if I switch, I'm often thinking, "This is great, but I want to get back to the other end of things, too!"
Or Schrodinger's Cock: Picture that I'm in a box with her and my cock is sometimes in her mouth and sometimes in her pussy. But I really want the superposition of being in both holes at the same time. And hands and mouth doing their things, too. (I think there would be more physics majors if it was taught this way, especially with the required lab assignment.)
If there were 3 of Me, in shared consciousness mode, I could be in three holes and not have to worry about wishing to be in a different. If there were 3 of Me in independent clone mode, there might be petty jealousies or we could reach a diplomatic solution: "1, 2, 3 Switch!" "1, 2, 3 Switch!" (I think there would be more Poli Sci majors if they taught negotiation and diplomacy this way.)
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Yeah, it's all fun until one of the copies makes a copy and things go down hill from there 
I'm grounded enough to know that NOBODY ELSE wishes there were more of me.
Hay! Wait a second. Then there'd be none left for the rest of us!
I wouldn't want the lady to pick a "Hobbyist", that would be in poor taste in my mind. I would feel better if she selected a male escort who's experienced in this. A fellow hobbyist may not be able to handle the situation well. He would probably be all "giddy" like a 6th grade school child. And can you see it now, you cross swords and he utters a "Eww...". Or he's more in awe of your package and just how you move...you get the drift...So hell no, it's not my style anyways, I have a hard enough time with MFF duos cause I have the attention span of a 4 year old when it come to this shit.
For Hobbyist: Would you feel comfortable if a provider presented this option to you?
Would it make you feel more comfortable if you read the other guys reviews and got a sense of how you would interact?
Or hell no, would never consider it?
For Providers: Have you had experience facilitating this request, or does it go through your assistant/agency? Good or bad experiences?
Too much work?
P.S. I'm not bi and other than being in the same room with the other guy, my only concentration would be on the lady. PM or board posts are fine.
I was recently approached with this idea.
I brought the idea to one of my ATF's and she was all over it - I never got an email back from her so fast before lol
For me I had a hard time thinking what would fill up the time.
I've seen the various positions in porn. And probably using all those different positions could take up about 30-45 minutes. But how much could one guy really just go to town and the other guy just watch - maybe another 15 minutes
Anyway I would do it. And I am surprised how open minded I am after such a short time in the hobby.
It certainly would be a learning experience.
I don't really think DP would be the best idea. That is too porn. Hobbying is more intimate than that I think.
But seriously, I'd like your thoughts on how the time could be filled. I haven't yet had a double session MFF, but much of that time is filled in watching the two women enjoy each other...hot...hot...hot.
In straight MFM that part of the program isn't an option.
It gives me amazing orgasms thus my interest in MFM...Hard to maneuver though and one or both men have to be longer in length otherwise it won't work.
I feel like it would be a better experience if the two men are friends first....less awkward and more fun! Also it doesn't always go down like you want it to. My one paid MFM experience went well and it was with two friends but one was shy and I could tell her wanted me to himself while the other was all for the group action.
I suspect this one will likely be put in the thread about sex fantasies where the reality never lived up to the expectations for most guys (and maybe gals too).
Suppose there's really only one way to find out. That said, for me, I generally know myself a lot better than anyone else does so for these types of questions other really cannot offer good advice.
And like you I asked on here how to go about it.
I was informed, and followed the advice to post the request on the "in search of" board.
and will continue to be until the equipment no longer works. My last two FMF doubles have been fantastic.
Both were women who'd never been with two guys at the same time and reached out. They also offered a very attractive rate to do it, so a friend and I did. As your OP stated, there was no male-to-male contact but still was not a turn-on. I probably won't do it again. But I'd say go for it if you can find some willing participants. Best bet would be to find a girl you already know who wants to try it and is into the idea.
of a lady who really gets off on being banged from behind, while she has a cock in her mouth.
I guess it gets my voyeur tendencies flowing.