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Re:nyla decosta... dissappointed..boohoo
Nyla_DeCosta 7954 reads
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I don't see the purpose of this post when I called you to apologize. Had I read this before hand I wouldn't have called or extended the special rate to you. You're a very petty individual.

did everything right as far as i know...
she even said we were on but when it was time to confirm...never got a call back never a reurning word...
as i told her on the answering machine:
i am sure it is my loss and not hers.....
boohoo
it's not like i paticipate in this hobby all the time

Nyla_DeCosta7955 reads

I don't see the purpose of this post when I called you to apologize. Had I read this before hand I wouldn't have called or extended the special rate to you. You're a very petty individual.


His post was not out of line at all.  I for one like to know if providers are not one for keeping their appointments. Its even a review search option.

If you want to be treated like a professional and a lady then please act like one.

observerinchicago7552 reads

So does this mean providers have the right to publically post no-shows by clients who are deemed unprofessional when not keeping appointments?  Her reasons for not keeping the appointment were not known to the poster prior to his post, which is the reason for his apology after the fact.    

Things happen and appointments are not kept everyday (more so by clients than by providers), BUT until you know what happened that caused the no show or cancellation, then you cannot assume Nyla is being unprofessional.  His post was out of line and HE even admitted it and apologized.  Now, since HE apologized, shouldn't you apologize--especially since you have no clue what the details of their situation or conversation was?


The first half you your message was right on. YES a provider has a right to be upset about a no show and post something. This is an OPEN forum (well moderated....).

The second half of your message was crap and is not worthy of a a reply.

observerinchicago7166 reads

Your reply hardly makes sense. Did you even read it or the entire thread prior to pushing the "Post Message"?

As far as your first comment, providers are NOT allowed to post a clients name in public forum for pulling a no-show.  When she does, she is usually slammed by people like you telling her to get over it.  And, once again, you have NO clue what happened, so it was tacky of you to call someone unprofessional. Period. The original poster even came back to APOLOGIZE to the entire board for his error.  Doesn't that mean anything?  I guess not to people like you who resort to name-calling instead of apologizing or backing down....

So, back to talking about crap...the scent is slowly rising from your direction darling.  Perhaps you should visit a few more providers and let off some steam.  I'm done with you and this thread.

You have be careful with posts like this, pinbo!  I got cancelled on once by JulianneXXX and she was sweet enough to say she would  then see me for free (which she did, and it was fantastic by the way- of course I tipped her :)  ;).  But cancellations by both sides are a fact of life, and when either party spreads it around, it affects reputations.

In the very least, post it in the review section.  Nyla is one of the true treasures around IMHO, even though our schedules have not always clicked.

this post was put b4 i had the chance to talk to nyla on the phone .... we cleared everything up and i for 1 want to apologize to her  and say that i hope we can clear everything up with another appointment in the near future... this is just a result of a long delay till when the post comes up on the board

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