...unless it's got $100 bills taped to it, of course.
Is "hey" or "what up" the standard introduction for getting in touch with a provider or anyone for that matter? Lately an influx of lame in word or one liner attempts to meet up. Also alot of asking about rates...which are clearly stated on my webpage and most ads. I've been saying "no thanks" alot more lately due to the nature of messages received, like not being willing to fill out verification or even tell me your name or info I've asked for. Or the guy who wants to know specific services for details,rates etc. Call me old fashioned but whatever happened to actual introductions and possibly reading the website when provided? Afterall,it looks as if most ladies bust their butts to make their sites look awesome and professional.
How do you like to introduce yourself to a potential provider or client? Do you prefer to keep it short and sweet or give a bit more information?
And ladies...how do you like to be first contacted when someone is seeking your services?
Hello_____,
Your recent ad on _____ really piqued my interest, and everything on your website just confirmed that I'd like to meet you.
Are you available this _____ evening around ____PM for a __ hour appointment?
I have several recent TER Whitelists, P411 OKs, and references, but prefer not to give my handle until you've responded with your interest in meeting me.
I'm looking forward to your response,
John
Any more, would come after she acknowledges interest in me; eg., if her reviews are all over the place with services provided, I might also inquire if she is TER VIP and if she can confirm that her profile is accurate.
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LA agency bookers would consider it an incomplete request and would not respond.
I like to try to use good language and give my name, age, race and only ask pertinent questions. A range of dates and times, do you see older white men. Nothing explicit or suggestive, no code words. I try to answer your questions as best I am willing to.
How do you like to introduce yourself to a potential provider or client? Do you prefer to keep it short and sweet or give a bit more information?
And ladies...how do you like to be first contacted when someone is seeking your services?
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...looking for the intel that I need before contacting her. My emails are always polite and a bit playful, and once it's established that we'd be a good match it's off to the races.
If I get a one word response from her (like if I ask a question and all she replies back with is "yes."), then I'll move on to someone else. This communication thing works both ways 
turns into a scowl, you move on?
...unless it's got $100 bills taped to it, of course.
I have to believe that since you're both well known here by your handle and reputation, the ladies you contact are a bit more open to some of the playfulness in your communication. I'm.fairly positive if I did that with a lady I hadn't seen before, she would quickly.put me on her DNS list.
Thoughts?
Most of the providers that I contact never interact here on the boards so they don't know me or my persona here. And by playfulness I never try to be too cute or cross any lines. I think that a guy would be ok if he tried a bit of playfulness in an introductory email to a provider as long as all of the necessary info was also there and that playfulness didn't come off as smarmy or ventured into forbidden territory.
Knowing that she is investing her time in responding to any inquiry, I tend to keep things short and sweet with all the relevant information needed. It's nice to be able to use a verification site to set things up, speeds up the process and all the data she might need is there for her to see.
They acknowledge that they've actually read my site, let me know their Ter/p411/or work info to verify, and whether or not they want an outcall or hotel incall.
It's frustrating when a guy says hey are you free on Wednesday around 8pm without specifying hotel incall or outcall. And there are guys who actually book an appointment with me and then don't even look at my site. There's important info on there!
For example: I have a protocol on how to handle donations. I've had guys just put the donation right next to him. It's awkward and leaves me wondering if he's a cop. Plus if he spends money on an expensive bottle of wine, it's not my fault if he didn't read on my site that I don't drink. Then there's the added fee for hotel incalls that you wouldn't know to add unless you read the site or my P411. And lastly no mention of explicit acts. There are so many guys that ask about Greek. It clearly says on my Ter YMMV. If he doesn't have a Ter there's nothing I can do about that 
Either they're a cop or absolutely careless. I'm not willing to take the risk.
I see why lots of providers have an auto response message asking potential clients to fill out info basically it's nice when a guy reads my site and gives me verifying info without me asking it makes things much easier on me.
I send a polite intro beginning with Hi__________, Included is 411 on my age, ethnicity, height and weight, very brief background on what I do, my handle, how many WLs and P411 OKs I have and specific info re possible date. I also offer to PM them here so they know it is actually me who texted or emailed them. As I have dozens of WLs and many OKs, I rarely get asked to provide further references. If I do, I simply move on to another provider as I'm not interested if she doesn't trust all the other ladies who said I'm safe already. Ironically, the one time I provided references, which was recently, the young provider dragged her heels in contacting them, finally did, then flaked on me 2 hours before our morning date. Go figure. I believe our ladies have enough to deal with in terms of disrespectful hobbyists, without having to reply to ones who can't even introduce themselves appropriately.
A short intro stating my first name & my age & expressing that I am interested in the provider's availability. If I get a response then more details can be discussed later.
that you should put in your intro message. When you don't its just annoying. Name, References or other screening info, Incall/outcall, date/time. You really don't have to say that much. However, I have had some men write entire paragraphs when they introduce themselves to me and although I'm very busy I kind of like it. I know that most of the people who contact me are busy like I am and if they took out the time to write me a long introduction I really do appreciate it and try to reciprocate with something equally as nice. So for me short and to the point is fine, long stories are fine, but "hey" messages? Definitely NOT.
I totally agree keep ot short and sweet but with enough info to move foward. Maybe it's just this last week or so that I've even noticed but it's kind of creeping me out. I will ask them where they found me and most have said TER and one mentioned another site I don't have a profile on yet. But usually when a TER client contacts they typically leave a response as you all have stated above. I ask them for a name or to fill out verification and than crickets w no response after.
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I use P411 - so the invitation automatically includes the time, date and duration - as well as my TER handle. By viewing my profile she can get my references
So all I pretty much have to do is enter in the message section something brief like...
I would love to have lunch with you this Saturday. Start time is flexible.
It seems to work; if she wants more information - she'll communicate. If she wants to chat - we'll chat. If it just won't work - we'll both move on.
Also, reading my website and following protocol. If the lady prefers to received the form from their website.. why make it so complicated?!
Once I received the form form my website, I check the information, and move on to respond about more specifics for location of if I am not available during the dates and times requested asking if we can make some minor changes or I would work things on my side.
Those "r u avail NOW" I don't respond, the 3 am messages deleted too.
I appreciated being contacted with a short introduction with all the information needed for screening. We can chat, talk and flirt once we meet face to face
oh, and the explicit emails... DELETED, I am to engaging in those type of conversations, I have even cancel appointments after screening because they decided it was ok to be explicit. NOT~
Heck, some providers don't even respond to p411 requests with specific dates, even though p411 requires providers to respond yes or no.
I love man who knows who to use his words....one liners are alot like that in bed...boring as hell. Yawn...no thanks. A man's dirty mouth will far get me off greater than his wallet.
What's the likelihood that these are screenable, respectful, reliable clients?
I'd never contact any other professional, and type Hey,’ and expect a reply.
I like to flip the situation. If I were making an appointment, I'd *at least* say something like, 'Hi, do you have availability at 7PM today?'
That’s true even if he's new and isn't aware of screening (a lot of newbies do extensive research before contacting their first provider, though).
Even the 'R u avail' emails so rarely pan out. (I used to reply to every email). If by chance they'd actually reply rather than reading my request for references/work info and saying, 'Oh, forget it!'... it would be like pulling teeth to get the info that I needed, and set up a concrete date/time (without waffling, indecision, last-minute cancellations or asking to reschedule 15 minutes before the time). And if we actually got to meet (if they didn't totally flake), they'd be the ones who didn't respect time, or would ask 1 hour before the appt... ‘’Are you hot?” or “I have [name amount less than donation], can we still meet?” Or something.
Escorts who don't reply to such emails aren't lazy... they just prefer to limit their services to those who are likely to be problem-free, respectful and fun, and avoid those little indicators that there might be issues farther along down the line.
More content provider = better service for the clients she sees.
I do not respond to emails that just say "Hi" or "Hi, how are you?".
If I get a text that says that, I say "Hi, how are you?" back. I give them the opportunity to say more and if they can't within a few messages, then I ignore. Even the more experienced guys seem to keep that first text or two pretty basic. They will know how to send a proper email or P411 response, but can't seem to get texting lol. "Can I help you?" or "Where did you get my information from?" seems to work wonders.
I know some girls don't have patience for the "Hi" texts. I guess I am just use to it as most of my regulars tend to do that to me. lol.
Like you said, with just a brief "Hi" myself.
Emails are a substitute for a letter- put all the info before you send it.
Texts are a replacement for a phone call- it's ok to say everything, like a voicemail, but also ok to confirm there's someone there before continuing, imo.
Lol, kidding of course, but you know everything in this hobby happens on both sides. I can't tell you how many nice, respectful intro emails or texts I have sent, that received a one or 2 word reply from the provider.
Lmao. Thanks for the giggle.
Lol, kidding of course, but you know everything in this hobby happens on both sides. I can't tell you how many nice, respectful intro emails or texts I have sent, that received a one or 2 word reply from the provider.
Hi _____,
Earlier in January we exchanged several PM's on TER after I viewed several of your recent reviews on TER.
I'm Keystonekid, a mature (6' 1", 208 lbs, early 60's) gentleman who knows how to treat a lady. I have multiple whitelists on TER and can give you references of Florida ladies I have seen in the past 6 months.
#1 X [email protected]
#2 y [email protected]
I would like to meet you on Sunday afternoon, February __, for a 2-hour incall date. I would like to meet somewhere around 4pm.
I look forward to meeting you.
Keystonekid
Earlier in January we exchanged several PM's on TER after I viewed several of your recent reviews on TER.
I'm Keystonekid, a mature (6' 1", 208 lbs, early 60's) gentleman who knows how to treat a lady. I have multiple whitelists on TER and can give you references of Florida ladies I have seen in the past 6 months.
#1 X [email protected]
#2 y [email protected]
I would like to meet you on Sunday afternoon, February __, for a 2-hour incall date. I would like to meet somewhere around 4pm.
I look forward to meeting you.
Keystonekid
Hi (provider name),
My name is (name redacted) and I'm from (city redacted) which is near DC. I'm planning a trip to (your city) for (event) from (dates) and I would love to set up a one hour incall appointment with you when I'm up there. Preferably(date/time) but I am flexible
My references are (list reference name, email, phone number and website).
My phone number is (phone number is redacted) and my TERID is SDotTaylor.
Please let me know if you need anything else,
(name redacted)
If I receive a "hello," I'll respond in kind.
If I see just a "Hello" later, I won't reply to it. To me, it indicates the person is only interested/available for a live conversation. And possibly not free to send or receive intermittently. Same with "Are you available?"
If they text lots of info, I'll assume they're ok with my (discretely) replying whenever I do see it.