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low self esteem
souls_harbor 293 reads
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tats = low self esteem.  Doesn't matter what they are about.  

If you put up a billboard on your body it is to call attention to yourself.  

If you parade your virtue or your tribe on a billboard it is because you feel inadequate without those markings.

LaffysBoytoy4208 reads

I have seen about 33-38 providers in my short few years of P4P. Most I repeat with and a few I do review, if they let me and don't throw hissy fits. Why a hooker would get mad over a 9 rating, I don't get.

Anyways, during this time I now have ran into 2 girls with certain tattoos. The "gay rainbow". Now, I have asked both of them if that meant their gay, as that is exactly what it means. One said no as if I was insulting her, but it wasn't an oscar winning performance. The other said it was for support for the gay community.

Now I am no dummy. It means a person is gay. It doesn't mean supporting a gay person's rights nor that one is bisexual. There is different symbols for that.

I decide to let it go and just smirk because the one gives an 8 and the other is a great sucker. lol.

Does it bother me if I see a lesbian hooker? Nope, not at all. As long as she's acting into it and I am enjoying, it's all good.

Just wondering what other peeps thoughts are on this? What would you do if your girl you are seeing is obviously a lesbian?

To make a minor adjustment to one of your statements to make it fit my particular situation:
 
"Does it bother me if I see a straight/bi hooker? Nope, not at all. As long as she's acting into it and I am enjoying, it's all good."

Actually the rainbow represents all queer people and their allies. Everybody knows that :D I'm pansexual meaning I'm open to dating male/female/trans/non-member binary/demi-sexual, a sexual etc. To me it's the personality that matters. And I have a rainbow choker that I wear semi - often to represent the lgbtq+ community.  

The rainbow stands for unity and so it makes sense that it represents everyone lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, genderqueer  trans, etc. There are lots of straight allies that sport rainbows at gay pride parades and events like that to show support. Next time a provider is wearing a rainbow tat and she says I'm not gay, what she probably means is I'm not gay. She either identifies with some other orientation or she's showing support for a close lgbtq+ friend or relative. I hope this helped clarify.

... are you talking about?  

If a person gets a tattoo it symbolizes whatever they want to symbolize.

You're interpretation of rainbows, stars, snakes, skulls, guns, roses, Chinese characters or totally abstract images on someone else is less than irrelevant.  

At the same time, your interpretation of someone's sexuality, especially if they already told you how they think about it is equally irrelevant. You do not determine some ones else sexuality.  

Be grateful at least one of these providers (who, BTW are actually real people with lives, hopes and dreams) is even willing to suck your cock after you treated them with such blatant disrespect.  

[End of rant]  

Have a nice day.

I haven't seen a rainbow tat yet, but one of my fav providers dyed her hair in rainbow colors for the last Gay Pride day, to show her support and because she's bi.  I had a threesome with her and one of her bi friends that day, and when we were catching our breaths we talked about her hair and the Gay Pride day parade later that day.  Not sure how it happened, but we started singing The Rainbow Connection, with me doing my best (but not very good) impression of Kermit.  I'm wondering if that's ever happened during any other threesome, and thus would it qualify as a once in a lifetime experience?  :)

LaffysBoytoy473 reads

I didn't give her shit nor was my thread a rant. I asked a simple question. It is not disrespectful to ask.

For those of you who also answered on here, yes a rainbow tattoo does mean you are gay. There are other symbols for other orientations. Knowing what it means, idiot, does not have me determining their sexuality.  

Of course a hooker is not going to say that she's gay. There are guys who won't see a lesbian hooker just because they feel they are not into it. I was very much into it and will be repeating regardless, with both.

It is not something I'd ever asked prior to meeting. If I see a tattoo on someone, it is fair to ask about it. It doesn't change my mind on seeing them.

Herbtcat, I doubt you should be throwing stones. Seriously? You do need to work on your comprehension before you twist what I wrote to your ugly liking, I said the exact opposite as what you claim. You don't know the difference between a nice question for all and a rant, do you noob?  

And for all of you who pmed me, no I will not be giving out these two girls' information. My review of each, under my real handle (glowing reviews btw) is enough (and no I didn't mention the tattoos).

Posted By: herbtcat
... are you talking about?  
   
 If a person gets a tattoo it symbolizes whatever they want to symbolize.  
   
 You're interpretation of rainbows, stars, snakes, skulls, guns, roses, Chinese characters or totally abstract images on someone else is less than irrelevant.    
   
 At the same time, your interpretation of someone's sexuality, especially if they already told you how they think about it is equally irrelevant. You do not determine some ones else sexuality.    
   
 Be grateful at least one of these providers (who, BTW are actually real people with lives, hopes and dreams) is even willing to suck your cock after you treated them with such blatant disrespect.  
   
 [End of rant]  
   
 Have a nice day.

Re-read your post and I stand by my rant.  

Try a little humility.  

I dare say if you have only seen 33-38 providers you are the noob, Sir.  In my 30+ years of hobbying I've seen over 300 across 27 countries.  (Though I've only recently started posting reviews on TER.)

GaGambler331 reads

If you see that many in a single week that is. As a lifetime number, not so much. Certainly not enough to make any claims as being anything but a noob himself, but this place is full of self appointed experts who have been here all of about 45 minutes.

For the record, I have never seen that many hookers in a single week, but I have literally dozens of months were I saw at least that many women. I think you have me on the number of countries though, I am pretty close to your number counting all the Caribbean countries I have been to, but I think I am still a couple short of 27.

No worries, Friend GaGa.  

It's not a competition; it's an adventure to be savored one (or sometimes two :P pussies at a time.  

I've been lucky to be able to travel quite a bit for business, music tours, and vacations.  And I always try to sample the local cuisine in every new city.  And yes, my count also includes 4 Caribbean cruises so we may align in that regard, especially if you've been to Campo Alegre in Curacao.  

I'll be adding visits to Australia and New Zealand this year, so the adventure continues. :)

Who gives a fuck what her preferences are?  She's not there to fall in love with you or your cock.  She is there because it is her job and as long as she is good at it and makes the "fantasy" happen, then despite her tats, juzt lau back and enjoy dude.

told me lots of great lesbian stories!
It was awesome!
I have always toyed with the idea of getting a tattoo - a rainbow tattoo sounds like a good idea.
Perhaps my daughter and I can get matching ones.

I don't think everyone there is gay.  They do have heterosexuals there, the last I checked.

Also, rainbows are made by God.  Is he or she gay?    

To echo Freud's comments on cigars:  Sometimes a rainbow is just a rainbow.

The rainbow is seen on Hawaii license plates, and it has also been the nickname for University of Hawaii's Athletics for many years (Rainbow Warriors, for the men's teams and Rainbow Wahine, for the women's teams), but it is not the "symbol for the state of Hawaii."

The lady you meet provide you with a good service?  
Did you feel comfortable during the session, screening and would leave a positive feedback if you ever see the tattoo?
I often wear t-shirts, tops at the gym, something on my wrist, I have the rainbow flag on my car, on my house, and Im very much what you can called "a lipstick one".
I am attracted to people for who they are, their beliefs, and I don't think this should interfere with my work.  

Oh, as a matter of fact, I post on my twitter couple days ago a picture about supporting trans kids in bathrooms and a potential date cancel on me because of it... HOW STUPID IS THAT?!  
oh well, I am very fortunate to have a very close family member that is trans and I love it to the moon and back. One client doesn't going to affect my business either...  

 

Remember that sex work, is work.

Posted By: LaffysBoytoy
I have seen about 33-38 providers in my short few years of P4P. Most I repeat with and a few I do review, if they let me and don't throw hissy fits. Why a hooker would get mad over a 9 rating, I don't get.  
   
 Anyways, during this time I now have ran into 2 girls with certain tattoos. The "gay rainbow". Now, I have asked both of them if that meant their gay, as that is exactly what it means. One said no as if I was insulting her, but it wasn't an oscar winning performance. The other said it was for support for the gay community.  
   
 Now I am no dummy. It means a person is gay. It doesn't mean supporting a gay person's rights nor that one is bisexual. There is different symbols for that.  
   
 I decide to let it go and just smirk because the one gives an 8 and the other is a great sucker. lol.  
   
 Does it bother me if I see a lesbian hooker? Nope, not at all. As long as she's acting into it and I am enjoying, it's all good.  
   
 Just wondering what other peeps thoughts are on this? What would you do if your girl you are seeing is obviously a lesbian?


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does that mean you are gay?

Or maybe some people simply cannot be permitted access to a fuckboard unsupervised.  

SMH.

all aspects of heterosexual life. P4P contexts are certainly not exempt!  

But seriously, there are more sexualities one can identify as besides heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual. And no, the "gay rainbow" doesn't only resonate with homosexual people.

Oh bitch please.
Next time think before you post something as archaic and ridiculous as that.

GaGambler455 reads

well every man but me of course, MORE PUSSY FOR ME!!!  

don't worry, there will still be more than enough for you too.

and yeah, that was a pretty dumb statement. I knew this years SPOTY's would be hotly contested this year. It looks like we have another contender.

I bet you wouldn't even bend over to pick up the soap in a locker room full of women!!!

I always knew you were trouble ;)~

Posted By: LenaDuvall
all aspects of heterosexual life. P4P contexts are certainly not exempt!  
   
 But seriously, there are more sexualities one can identify as besides heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual. And no, the "gay rainbow" doesn't only resonate with homosexual people.

I think the fact you have a reaction to the tats says a lot more about you than it does about the lady.
Plus I would contest your premise that you know better than they do what the symbol meant to them.

Why in the world would anyone care if a fave was bi , lesbian or totally hetro ?  
The fact is most of the ladies I see frequently and genuinely adore happen to be bi. They also tend to share a level of sexual curiosity and healthy attitude toward sex .

Posted By: STPhomer
.  Why in the world would anyone care if a fave was bi , lesbian or totally hetro ?  
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Actually if you are a lady client or a female/male couple it does matter. I am always willing to try a "gay for pay" provider if she can pull it off successfully. Trouble is I have yet to find any that really can. I have met a few strippers who have just torn me up in the VIP only to reveal to me afterwards that they are completely straight. Fooled the hell outta me! But I have yet to meet a provider who can successfully do that. And considering the cost of an escort session vs a VIP in a stripclub, I'm reluctant to take a chance again on a gay for pay provider....Especially since there are so many really bisexual ones to choose from :)

Posted By: LaffysBoytoy
I have seen about 33-38 providers in my short few years of P4P. Most I repeat with and a few I do review, if they let me and don't throw hissy fits. Why a hooker would get mad over a 9 rating, I don't get.  
   
 Anyways, during this time I now have ran into 2 girls with certain tattoos. The "gay rainbow". Now, I have asked both of them if that meant their gay, as that is exactly what it means. One said no as if I was insulting her, but it wasn't an oscar winning performance. The other said it was for support for the gay community.  
   
 Now I am no dummy. It means a person is gay. It doesn't mean supporting a gay person's rights nor that one is bisexual. There is different symbols for that.  
   
 I decide to let it go and just smirk because the one gives an 8 and the other is a great sucker. lol.  
   
 Does it bother me if I see a lesbian hooker? Nope, not at all. As long as she's acting into it and I am enjoying, it's all good.  
   
 Just wondering what other peeps thoughts are on this? What would you do if your girl you are seeing is obviously a lesbian?

"As long as she's acting into it and I am enjoying, it's all good."  

It must be that added extra Knowing / Confirmation of the stamp
    that if she had her druthers, she would Not be sucking your dick,
       that is eating at you.  

There are married girls,  
girls w Boyfriends,  
girls w no sex drive,  
girls that have never eaten a pussy in their life,  
    in this business too,
        that are potentially a Far Worse date than the "lesbian hooker".

The attached link is from a provider whom I haven't seen YET - but who seems to be a really interesting person that I would love to spend a GFE evening with.   The stars just haven't aligned yet... and I always take a Looong time before I pull the trigger - assuming of course, that she would see me....

 I think I understand her point.  I really like having sex with two (or more) women.  However, I would enter a monastery before having two S.O.s.  That sounds like the definition of hell to me.  

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It symbolizes God's promise to never flood the whole world again.  However, God is still OK with local floods...especially if they kill all the gay people.

Seriously, though, quit worrying about other people's tattoos and sexual orientations.  If they're making you happy, why even worry about it?   Psychologists have found that most men who see TS providers are, in fact, straight men (that includes me).  I also know of full-blown lesbians who will occasionally fuck a man because his dick feels more natural than a strap-on.  IOW, sexuality and tattoos are fluid and open to interpretation.  

souls_harbor294 reads

tats = low self esteem.  Doesn't matter what they are about.  

If you put up a billboard on your body it is to call attention to yourself.  

If you parade your virtue or your tribe on a billboard it is because you feel inadequate without those markings.

please remember,
there r a lot of those "low self esteem" ppl around.

You may want to ponder more reasons a person would choose INK
 than the one you have come up with.

You seem to be "parading your virtue" around
 in your sense of superiority.
Make no mistake, it is as unattractive as low self esteem.

You make me laugh

Posted By: souls_harbor
tats = low self esteem.  Doesn't matter what they are about.    
   
 If you put up a billboard on your body it is to call attention to yourself.    
   
 If you parade your virtue or your tribe on a billboard it is because you feel inadequate without those markings.

hobbyists. Some providers are bi in RL and still there are providers who are gay for pay.

INMO, for a great doubles session, both ladies should be really bi.

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Is the "gay for pay" tattoo a rainbow with a $ in it?  
# Soooo Gay!

Posted By: keystonekid
hobbyists. Some providers are bi in RL and still there are providers who are gay for pay.  
   
 INMO, for a great doubles session, both ladies should be really bi.

-- Modified on 2/28/2017 9:55:50 PM

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