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T shirt or mans shirt, no bra or panties, take it off and we go.  Or, just be nude.  The clothes are coming off anyway right?  Even better, start undressing me as soon as I walk in.  Makes for less awkwardness IMHO.  At least with providers I know already anyway.  I can understand not wanting to meet a new client that way but if you know me, then know that I am comfortable with nudity.
Personally I rhink excessive reliance on lingerie is more for the fal than for me.

When seeing a provider,what do you prefer her to come out...nude,lingerie or sexy clothes????  Does it matter to you if she dresses up, does it get in the way ? Does a provider coming out of the restroom stark naked excite you or make you uncomfortable.???  

Looking to expand my sexy clothes and lingerie and want some inspiration before I go shopping.  

Happy Sunday

Seems most guys I see want to watch me undress or undress me. Naked is good too but lacks the teasing / watching part of the equation.

Coming out naked seems to give off the signal that one isn't into taking their time (IMHO).

Just really depends on the guy but I would say that as far as my experiences, about 95% would not enjoy if I just came out of the bathroom naked vs slowly undressing etc.

I like that idea alot. I need to practice the art of a little tease. I like incorporating that into the date.

Posted By: AlexandraMilw
Seems most guys I see want to watch me undress or undress me. Naked is good too but lacks the teasing / watching part of the equation.  
   
 Coming out naked seems to give off the signal that one isn't into taking their time (IMHO).  
   
 Just really depends on the guy but I would say that as far as my experiences, about 95% would not enjoy if I just came out of the bathroom naked vs slowly undressing etc.

You would be right.  It's the same reason we enjoy wrapped Christmas presents under the tree so much.  Anticipation is such an amazing emotion to experience.

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When I see a provider, it is usually for the total experience.  Not just the bed works!  If they lady strips right away (or before I arrive) and tries to initiate things very quickly, I feel robbed of the chance to build a little sexual tension.  I love undressing the lady or having her strip for me.  

Personally I enjoy when she comes out in sexy clothing. Anticipation is part of the enjoyment.

I like it when she keeps it totally casual and meets me in jeans and a t-shirt. Tight shirt and no bra is a plus.  No panties when the jeans come off is always a nice surprise too.

The other thing I like is revealing clothes, but not over-done.  I had one lady meet me with her boobs hanging over the top of her dress and it just seemed weird.  I like something organic.  Like two real people.  

Probably my least favorite is coming out in lingerie or stark naked -- we will get there eventually but as the old saying goes, I prefer a marathon - not a sprint.

...paragraphs are right on. My last review is a good example. However I'm fine with her being in lingerie when I get there. I'd be OK with naked on a rare occasion.

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Exactly right, casual attire. If you want to be more provacative, regular underwear that's easy to remove is better. Easier on these middle aged fingers.  Naked might be appropriate for a repeat appointment when you've established that's what the client wants.

Posted By: JackNobody
I like it when she keeps it totally casual and meets me in jeans and a t-shirt. Tight shirt and no bra is a plus.  No panties when the jeans come off is always a nice surprise too.  
   
 The other thing I like is revealing clothes, but not over-done.  I had one lady meet me with her boobs hanging over the top of her dress and it just seemed weird.  I like something organic.  Like two real people.    
   
 Probably my least favorite is coming out in lingerie or stark naked -- we will get there eventually but as the old saying goes, I prefer a marathon - not a sprint.

I like the woman next door look, so variations on street clothes (with nothing on underneath) do the job for me. I also thing that undressing a woman is wicked sexy and part of the GFE fantasy. On the other hand, I can't recall when being met by a scantily clad woman ended badly for me.

In short, wear what makes you feel sexy. If fancy lingerie puts the purr in you, go for it. If a bra from TJ Maxx does the trick, most guys will be happy with that as well. Most of us like the look - street clothes or lingerie- and then we want to be able to remove it easily.

would dick-tate the pace of the game ... perhaps you can let her dance to entice you or perhaps a lap dance. Try keeping your hands to yourself. It builds character lol and a strong boner, seven different ways. (from an old  
commercial)

Personally (within reason), since I like to spend a little time chatting, I'm more than ok with someone being dressed comfortably when I arrive. Though lingerie is all well and good, I don't care much about it.

It's different if we're out meeting somewhere first. Then it's dependent on location. A well chosen dress that suits the lady is appealing to me. Doesn't even have to be revealing. Just....fitting for that particular lady.

Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
When seeing a provider,what do you prefer her to come out...nude,lingerie or sexy clothes????  Does it matter to you if she dresses up, does it get in the way ? Does a provider coming out of the restroom stark naked excite you or make you uncomfortable.???  
   
 Looking to expand my sexy clothes and lingerie and want some inspiration before I go shopping.  
   
 Happy Sunday

...Or completely naked, so when I go for dances if she still has clothes on I'm anxious for her to get naked quickly so that we can get down to some serious fun. When I first started seeing providers I still had that mentality - I wanted her naked as soon as I walked in the room. But when I'm meeting a provider for the first time sometimes she's more nervous than I am so I've found her wearing a sexy dress with heels to be my fave way to meet someone now. It's classy and sexy and helps us interact a bit to get to know each other before the real action begins.

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but like you I want it to be something she can get out of rather quickly.

I have been doing this for decades and I am still a guy who prefers to get right to it with no real need for chit chat once we are BCD. It is a bit ironic that I am not a guy in a big hurry to get to the room on a dinner date or when meeting a girl at a bar (or strip club), but once we get BCD, I don't waste a second unless she is a bit shy and/or wants to go a little slower.

To be greeted by the girl in high heels and lipstick, nothing more. Doesn't usually happen on the first date, but once I start repeating, that's how I get greeted. One regular used to add sheer black thigh highs which was also very sexy because it emphasized her perfectly shaped legs.  These didn't come off until after DATY. Very hot!!!

I guess it's a stripper effect type of thing.  But I love seeing a woman in a thong and heels.  Lingerie sets the table, but its coming off anyways.  

I think I'd just as soon have her in whatever makes her feel comfy, sexy, confident. If she's rocking it and exuding that confidence, it doesn't matter that much what it is. For myself, I do prefer the more casual look. (Obviously a dinner and show is different, I haven't done an appointment like that, we seem to be talking about in the room here.) Whatever she feels good in. That could be jeans and a tee or yoga pants and sweatshirt, or a pretty little sundress, whatever. Just make me feel at home with you. If she's killing it with an amazing evening dress, that can be great too, but I don't need that. Lately I've found I'm really liking the look of little to no makeup. I think it's like a mask for a lot of women, and if she lets me see her without it, that's just sexy somehow.

Not that there's anything wrong with lingerie. But I think that's a little hit and miss. I think a woman needs to be good at knowing what lingerie looks good on her. Lingerie that drives me up the wall on one woman may only seem lukewarm on another. I think for you I'd say blues and purples and something that emphasizes those hips. Hard to say though.

Honestly, I think our culture makes a bit too big of a deal about men being visual. It's very true that we are, but at some point, it's more important that you're relaxed and being yourself, at least to some degree. If we're in the room together and getting comfortable and flirty and a bit steamy, we're definitely past that point. If I've contacted you and set something up, I'm into you; and assuming your pics are recent and accurate your hard work as far as looking good is about done and it's time for your personality to take over. I'm not saying let yourself go to the point it seems like a B&S, I'm saying be comfortable in your skin. Just be you. (Unless you don't like me. Then, be an actress.)

Your profile says you don't do incalls, but to anyone listening who does: it is so damn sexy when she's naked when I leave. That will keep you on my mind for a repeat. I may just stop at the door and ask if you're available for our next session right now.

I know a lot of guys will disagree, want a lot of effort put into everything looking perfect, but that's not me. Just my two cents, but I'm not alone.

As long as you are there, it doesn't matter what you're wearing. But usually the situation dictates the attire. Sometimes I request, and sometimes it's cool for her to surprise me. In the past I've requested full on dinner attire, jeans and a T, lingerie from one of her pics, lingerie that I suggest, and of course, if a certain fantasy is in play, stark naked is always a possibility. From her end, sometimes she wants to try on lingerie/clothing of her own choosing, sometimes she says she'll surprise me, and I once had an atf who loved wearing bikinis. She would always ask the night before if she could try on her newest bikini.  

Funny lingerie-I once requested a lady wear something from one of her pics. When I arrived, and she was in something else, she explained that my requested lingerie had burned on her heater the night before. An atf once forgot the time of our prearranged date, and answered the door in old baggy sweats.  

Weird lingerie-When I arrived one lady was holding back her attack dog in her lingerie. Another lady started cleaning her bathroom in her lingerie. With those images in my mind, I couldn't return.

No lingerie-Many guy's fantasies have to do with a woman dropping to her knees when you walk in the door. Sometimes, if the lady is wildly receptive to daty, I have the fantasy of dropping to my knees when the lady answers the door naked. Sometimes, if your atf matches your sexuality, and your dates are hotter than normal, that hour goes fast, so she better be naked at the door.  

Connective lingerie. One always carries a vivid memory of that first encounter with an escort. So 37 years later, when a new lady was wearing exactly what the first lady was wearing, I was blown away, and fell in hobby love. A different lady would sometimes wear lingerie (panties) of my favorite sports teams.

For me being a nudist I love being naked and feel most comfortable that way. I honestly have never been good at the whole teasing thing. It's a learning process for me and a fun one at that. I love stockings and garters. . I'm always casual to the door unless requested otherwise. In the summer I wear summer dresses and skirts everyday usually with no panties.  

I need to buy some clothing that is easy to get out of. The last 3 outfits I wore were casual but hard af to get out of lol. I'm thinking a few nice dresses with a zipper and a garter/stocking set underneath

Nothing complicated.

If it is loose, lacy, frilly, shear, and silky, that's good.  Dark red, even better.

except for a sensual entrance ... I prefer my regulars surprise me... one time an easy to remove dress and heels, others lingerie, other times a halter and panties ...
I just love women and knowing were gonna be sexxing  

except for the gal with the Haut Couture dress where I  
couldn't get the top button of her dress open. LOL. But she looked soooo hotttt. That was on our first date.

Heels, black stockings, lingerie. Talk on the couch for awhile, then get naked

..... I am always in awe of the excitement that the ladies that I see show in their preparation for my visit.  
I repeat with a small group of ladies and each one is so individual.  A couple really rock the lingerie, and their excitement level is expressed beautifully.  

A few really look amazing, and wear something loose fitting sexy casual that hint at the party playground underneath. With a whisper that they aren't wearing panties.  

A lot of the time they switch it up to keep the excitement and my attention going.  

And a great pair of CFM heels goes a long way to focusing me on them.  

What I'm saying is that it's not just what's being worn that counts, it's the attitude that is expressed.  

Damn, now I'm freaking horny.

I like it when I'm greeted by someone wearing nothing at all, wearing lingerie, Just a shirt, jeans and a tight top, a dress, or skirt -w- stockings or no stockings, or short shorts and a tank top.

The only times I've been unimpressed there were other problems that made the clothing issue minor but in those cases they might be wearing worn out leggings. I'm not a big fan of leggings but if someone is going to wear them they should be reasonably new and not faded and pilling. This should be common sense for most.

Basically it comes down to attitude and with the right attitude she can do no wrong in this department. I rarely do clothing requests although I may play around more with that in the future, but I think that when a girl puts effort into looking good she will choose something she thinks looks sexy, and it will be. If you're going shopping maybe focus on rounding out your wardrobe to be ready for any request. I recently asked a girl to wear a skirt. She replied "something tight or more schoolgirl?" Perfect reply.

...when I arrive at her incall, especially on a first date, so I've rarely made clothing requests.  My favorite outfit will always be her birthday suit, so most or all of whatever she is wearing will end up on the floor.  When she arrives for outcall and offers to change into something, I tell her not to, that what she has on is a fine start to the fun.

Some favorite surprises at the door over the years have been: bare under a simple sun dress, knee socks and a short pleated skirt, naked under a very short sheer wrap, short shorts and a tied blouse.

Pretty simple: I like jeans, t shirt and no bra.

... but other options are good too. After the first few moments it's all about the chemistry and how we act with each other anyway.

Another thing I like is for a provider to greet me wearing a short, simple dress with nothing underneath. I guess that is bordering on a mild personal kink, but I find it intensely hot.

I'm reminded of one time when the buzzer in my ATF's building wasn't working--it buzzed but didn't unlock the outer door. She finally ran down the stairs naked and opened the door for me, then excused herself to get ready. I told her "You're perfectly ready as far as I'm concerned!" but she insisted on getting into something sexy. It was art and performance to her as well as a personal encounter, and she always, always wanted to do it right.

God, I miss her. I seem to have digressed into a nostalgic byway here, don't mind me.  :-)  Good question!

i love the miniskirt and heels look.. the shorter the skirt, the better..

... the woman feels comfortable and sexy.   If she loves wearing only her birthday suit to greet me, fine with me (my ATF likes to do that sometimes).  Some providers I see like dressing up, in evening attire or even a sharp business suit (that hugs every curve!).  Some prefer lingerie.  Some keep it simple, with just panties.  Or athletic eg yoga pants with tank top.  Or casual with jeans or shorts. Or a silk robe with little or nothing underneath. And many other possibilities.  

If she's feeling good about what she's wearing, or not wearing, it can only be a plus for how the date will go.

When I usually meet clients I wear a very sexy, sultry piece of lingerie, a beautiful robe, and heels. I just think it is more enticing to the man.

But honestly whatever makes her feel sexy is the best outfit she can wear.

She which one gives guys an erection quicker.  Things work differently for each provider.

wear a certain item that I found on her website to be extremely appealing to me. Sometimes it is lingerie or just a sexy outfit. All nude, while the female body is appealing, does not do it for me. I would much rather unwrap my present.

...personally,i love slowly undressing the woman i'm gonna have sex with...the feel/smell/touch/taste/fantasy is what makes the experience more exciting...if we're regulars,nude is fine...if we just met,let the anticipation take over...

sexy clothing and then lingerie underneath the sexy clothing

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are so sexy to me. I am going to get in a car crash one of these days when my head spins watching women walk down the side walk going to their yoga classes.
I have asked my next date if we can go for a jog first. Then we can shower off together. So hot!

So, something easy to take off.  If With one of my regulars, I will sometimes request a specific outfit.

I love a nice bra and panty set but especially with thigh highs or stockings with a garter belt.  
If we are meeting in public a nice skirt and blouse that's a little risque without being too scandalous.

Wrap dresses and blouses.  Sexy but easy to slide off.

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I tend to like the GND (Girl Next Door) look and I love it when they show up wearing jeans and a nice blouse and once the clothes start flying she'll have thigh high stockings with the garter and a sexy black bra.  Perfect for me!!!!!

One time, years ago, in Denver I wanted to do a little role play and have the provider meet me at a bar that was close to her incall.  The plan was for to come in and sit next to me and "pick me up" before heading to her place.  It was cold out and she had on a fur coat that was buttoned up.  When we made it back to her place the fur came off and she was in the buff except for her nylons and FM pumps.  It ended up being a very memorable evening.  I gotta try that sometime in Vegas but its too hot to wear a coat out there, ugh.....

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HI. Whether she shows up to visit me or I'm at her location I like to see a girl show up dressed casual...maybe even cut up old jeans and cute blouse/sweater (weather permitting). Underneath, though, something lacey and super sexy.

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T shirt or mans shirt, no bra or panties, take it off and we go.  Or, just be nude.  The clothes are coming off anyway right?  Even better, start undressing me as soon as I walk in.  Makes for less awkwardness IMHO.  At least with providers I know already anyway.  I can understand not wanting to meet a new client that way but if you know me, then know that I am comfortable with nudity.
Personally I rhink excessive reliance on lingerie is more for the fal than for me.

fully clothed in a sexy party outfit or skirt and blouse.  high heels

It does not matter to me how the provider leaves the bathroom, as long as it is not immediately to the hotel door with my money. Stark naked is mind blowing immediately, but no matter what a provider wears when she exits the bathroom, it will come off eventually. As long as she feels sexy, and comfortable, and has an awesome personality. My first provider came out in a bath towel, stood in front of the bed, dropped it, then slid onto the bed to give me a great view of her body. I had an instant boner the second she opened the towel.

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