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To work with. I think it would be awesome to team up with another lady and double our fun. Did you look here, recruit a friend,post an ad elsewhere?  

I am curious as to how to possibly find a friend to work with. Thanks

Maddy

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AnonymousHo844 reads

For this one, you should post your question on the Newbie or ISO board.

Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
To work with. I think it would be awesome to team up with another lady and double our fun. Did you look here, recruit a friend,post an ad elsewhere?  
   
 I am curious as to how to possibly find a friend to work with. Thanks  
   
 Maddy

Thanks. I will try that also.

Posted By: AnonymousHo
For this one, you should post your question on the Newbie or ISO board.
Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
To work with. I think it would be awesome to team up with another lady and double our fun. Did you look here, recruit a friend,post an ad elsewhere?    
     
  I am curious as to how to possibly find a friend to work with. Thanks  
     
  Maddy  
 

Dfusethesituation587 reads

So disheartening when hookers hate on other hookers hustle just for asking questions.  It's an Ad/Discussion board, get over it.  Why not kill two birds with one stone?

Posted By: AnonymousHo
For this one, you should post your question on the Newbie or ISO board.
Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
To work with. I think it would be awesome to team up with another lady and double our fun. Did you look here, recruit a friend,post an ad elsewhere?    
     
  I am curious as to how to possibly find a friend to work with. Thanks  
     
  Maddy  
 

AnonymousHo415 reads

Don't worry! She's already come up with a lot of threADS. I'm sure she'll post plenty more.

Posted By: Dfusethesituation
So disheartening when hookers hate on other hookers hustle just for asking questions.  It's an Ad/Discussion board, get over it.  Why not kill two birds with one stone?
Posted By: AnonymousHo
For this one, you should post your question on the Newbie or ISO board.
Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
To work with. I think it would be awesome to team up with another lady and double our fun. Did you look here, recruit a friend,post an ad elsewhere?    
       
   I am curious as to how to possibly find a friend to work with. Thanks    
       
   Maddy  
 

It doesn't matter what I post, there is always someone who has to say something that has 0 to do with topic or something negative to add.  I ask questions and it is called an ad. Okie doke. TER is a trip. I didn't get the dig because I guess I generally just don't poke at people. I don't see the point. I can check one ho off my list.  

There's also a provider's only board too, isn't there?

Yes,which I have tried to join. TER has denied me several times saying I don't post enough on the board and now that I am.....you see ?lol. Can't win for losing. But yes already tried that.

...guidelines. Then try again. You'll get there.

LaffysBoytoy460 reads

like she always does and admits to it.

If she was at all serious, she could contact ladies in her area. She knows how to find other ladies.

Then she gets mad when people call her on the repetitive ads. I am going to start being a jerk if she keeps doing it. One thing to post a discussion thread, another to always put up ads here.

Posted By: xtheory
There's also a provider's only board too, isn't there?

Always gotta be one. It's all good. ;)

you could attend some and ask about it with gals in that area.

Otherwise you could PM gals on your local discussion board and ask them if they are interested.

then please please PLEASE seek out one who is also bi. Nothing worse than having a bad actress trying to pass off as "really bi" and not even really interacting with the other gal.  

Per your website I see that you cater to both genders....Bravo!

Yes should add that yes I am truly bi and would only work with someone the same. Don't see myself finding anyone unless I find them in RL honestly. Lol I prefer real experiences and not fake anything for the sake of a buck. Hard enough to find a female play partner in everyday life much less this lol.

Posted By: lopaw
then please please PLEASE seek out one who is also bi. Nothing worse than having a bad actress trying to pass off as "really bi" and not even really interacting with the other gal.  
   
 Per your website I see that you cater to both genders....Bravo!

Hey, Miss Lady. If you are ever in the PacNW, I could use a new female to work/play with. (I gotta see the goods first, though. Lol) My email is [email protected] , if your interested, shoot me a link to your site. I do, however, only take dominant roles- if that is something you are comfortable with.

I would post on that discussion board for ladies who are duo friendly, or ask a client who you maybe friends with if they know any providers that may share the same chemistry.

I LOVE ladies, and always had several girlies to play with, but I just returned from a long break & am looking for a gf to play with too!

lol

Smile 4 me!  Good luck.

You need a posting history to get on the provider board (plus a minimum of 3 reviews, which she does have).

Posted By: Ms_Nasty
I would post on that discussion board for ladies who are duo friendly, or ask a client who you maybe friends with if they know any providers that may share the same chemistry.  
   
 I LOVE ladies, and always had several girlies to play with, but I just returned from a long break & am looking for a gf to play with too!  
   
 lol  
   
 Smile 4 me!  Good luck.

I don't specifically know how providers work - I do know how it works in my business though.  In my field, we often need to work with other professionals to meet our clients needs.  Different people have different specialties which you often need to combine.

People do business with people they know.   Call folks  - offer to buy lunch.  The topic of business will come up as it always does between professionals.   You won't need to push it.  Over time, you'll get to know people.  

In my field - there are trade associations that I can use to develop relationships with fellow practitioners and customers - in yours - there are meet and greets.

You have people skills - use them.  If you don't have people skills.... honestly, you are probably in the wrong profession...

A first provider, I usually don't need a second one.  Six or seven years ago, when I was trying to prove to myself how fucked up AARP was for sending me a membership, I would often look for a second provider the same day after I finished sessioning with the first one, but I realized soon after that it burns up too much dead time for travel to do it that way. So I switched to mostly two hour sessions. It saves the travel time and still lets an old guy give AARP the finger, in a manner of speaking.

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You also get a broader spectrum in a place where some ladies haven't already established their circles, and there is a very large variety of personalities, values, price ranges, looks, etc etc etc.

It really is a great place to network. Of course, use your judgment and listen to your gut. But that's the place to go...

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Did you contact any local ladies....or rush to do this thread.....Really no matter to me, I understand rent is due next week and one must do what one gotta do to get those clients in your inbox....no shade baby.

Think I'll post a threAD myself, been like a year or so.

Toodles
Lisa

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GaGambler376 reads

A good threAD could liven up the board.  

I will admit I poke fun at many of the threADs posted here, but the truth of the matter is, some of the threADs can be quite entertaining. It's only the ones that scream "look at me, look at me!!!" that bother me. I actually welcome the threADs that have some thought put into them.

A duo session is mainly a bucket list thing, and not something guys do regularly. Maybe once or twice a year or every blue moon. Cost is the main thing. For example, if each lady's rate is 1k/2hours, making it 2k/2hours for both of them (give or take a couple hundred), it makes more sense for the client to see each of them separately for a total of four hours (two separate two hour sessions) at the same cost, or seeing a lady who offers a generous multiple hour discount to get an entire day or evening for 2k.

Double sessions are typically initiated by the client who has seen both ladies individually and feels that they all would get along. Other times it's offered by the lady who mentions that she has a girlfriend who she does doubles with. Communication is important for doubles to learn everyone's limits and expectations. If seeing bi action is important for the guy, then pairing with two really bi ladies would be necessary.  

Just because a provider offers doubles, it doesn't make me more likely to see her individually or with one of her friends. Most guys aren't lining up for doubles.

John_Laroche411 reads

1. ask your repeat clients if they have another favorite who is really bi and suggest the three of you get together.

2. use TER search tool and look for girls in your locale with traits that you like (age, body-type, non-smoker, etc...) who are also lightly reviewed (they're looking to promote themselves too more than highly reviewed girls) similar price as you, and are also really bi. Contact them and invite them for coffee to discuss business opportunities.

3. use the ISO board with enough detail so you're not wasting others time.

I have more, but they would violate my witty subject.

Just make friends in RL or on the boards, look for someone you click with.  

(Remember: for some people, doing a double can bring up some real emotional issues! Make sure whoever you team up with can handle double fun)

Myself, I was born with ho-dar, so it's not that hard for me to sniff someone out while on the out&about.

"ho-dar" Hold the door that is funny!!!

...often enough that it seems to be a pretty normal way of finding a lady to do duos with. Even though I don't do doubles, it has never, ever bothered me to get a email from a lady asking me if I would be interested.

But yeah, instead of casting a wide nationwide net like this, do some targeted research on ladies in your specific area who you think you would like to work with and send them a courteous email to propose the idea to them.  

That would work out a lot better because not only would they know you are specifically and truly interested in working with them, this way of posting makes it look like you'll work with just anyone.  

just reach out and start networking.

I was genuinely interested in just seeing a different perspective or maybe getting a discussion going.  I didn't realize that so many people were offended by simply asking a question or wanting to get some ideas.  I can't join the provider board bc I don't have enough post up. I am not at all the type to work with just anyone but I am interested in talking and sharing experience with one another. I figured a message board was a good start but after this thread I learned the search method...so thanks for the help there. I just don't get the need to be nasty or put me down or assume anything about me. If my post is so offensive or it is an ad. (Which wouldn't have been approved)...surely one could just simply report it..  Or gasp ignore it.  I hope y'all got your panties out of a bunch and have a kick ass day.

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Muhammad_Ali.as403 reads

...welcome to TER. I logged on today for the first time in 2 weeks and read some of your posts on several boards. This is exactly how you play the game. I found your posts interesting and learned a little bit about you. Again, this is how one does get started. While there will always be a few that voice their negative opinions about it, the majority are happy to see a new face and new discussions. We need new ladies to join the fun, and I hope this doesn't deter you or any other nice ladies.

PS. Daddy is going cum to LV in a few weeks and wants babygirl to tease and please him...wink 😉

AnonymousHo316 reads

Posted By: Muhammad_Ali.as

Daddy is going cum to LV in a few weeks and wants babygirl to tease and please him...wink 😉
Maddy's threAD worked well for her.

Muhammad_Ali.as343 reads

Yes, this how it works. There would be no discussion board or fun if we took such a hard stance on posting. A little clever or interesting conversation starter does help a lady get noticed. Many gentlemen want to see a little personality behind the screen name. Some do take it too far, but I think you were being a little harsh on a newbie who appears to be going about things the right way. In fact, I wish you'd use your real handle so I could see who you are. You seem kind of spunky, and while I don't necessarily agree with you, you did voice your opinion in a rather decent manner considering using an alias. Either way, it's all good. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Only other panty-bunchers care at all about what they bitch and moan about.  :)

I thought it was a great question. I've been lucky to have a long-time really, REALLY bi ATF who's helped me find doubles partners.  But without that kind of guidance, it could be tough finding the right match.  

That is awesome! For me girls are different breed. I am 100%opposite with a female and I guess lack the confidence or positive experiences to just say hey wanna go tag team someone with me? Even a simple" hi " can be hard for me if I really like her. Lol I wish I had the attitude and confidence (with women) of the poster above with hodar....I am jelly. Lol but I get all giddy and stupid around pretty girls lol. For me this was an easier , chicken route to take lol. I don't go clubbing or nightlife stuff so I don't know where to meet anyone in RL. Most the time I am to nervous to break the ice anyway. Once I know the girl is interested it's on....it's the getting started or initiation that kills me.
That being said-  I will add a wonderful and lovely,kind provider contacted me ,so I am so excited to hear back from her.  

Enjoy your kinky ATF. She sounds like a blast!

Xoxox

Since you used what I said about working with just anyone, Im guessing you feel my response to you was also nasty or a put down. Oye... Not my intent at all.  I genuinely thought you were asking this question for yourself, and thats why i suggested personally contacting a lady in your area and my reasons why it would be a good idea to go about it that way opposed to in a generalized way. I did not suggest that to be nasty.  

If Id known you were only looking for perspectives and a general discussion on the concept, I def would have answered a bit differently.  The way you worded it sort of made it seem you were actively looking for a duo partner to work with through your question, which may be why others are responding in response to that. Seems to be nothing more than a misunderstanding.  

Holy cow...relax though.  Even if you dont like others views and opinions, its an open forum and starting a topic lends itself to people having and sharing their different points of view.  You may agree, you may not agree with what others say, just as people may or may not agree with you.  But try to remember, logically, you cant take anything personal when someone who doesnt personally know you says something...all they are doing is pulling from personal experience..either what they are taking the time out to contribute makes sense to you and applies to you or it doesnt.  Not a big deal.

Generally I just make it as clear as possible to clients that I am more than happy to accompany them to a session with another provider if they want. As someone who actually started out seeing providers before I began doing it myself I find that guys generally appreciate a girl who clearly is bi. But I totally agree with previous posters who have talked about how much it sucks when a girl offers bi but isn't really into it... its the worst.

LoveJoyMi354 reads

I just don't know how to go about it.

But you can contact ladies directly and ask them if they are interested in doubles in your local area or the areas where you tour.  
Also, the providers only board, thru twitter (based on your location), and other sites where is for us ladies only.  

V~

Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
To work with. I think it would be awesome to team up with another lady and double our fun. Did you look here, recruit a friend,post an ad elsewhere?  
   
 I am curious as to how to possibly find a friend to work with. Thanks  
   
 Maddy

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