TER General Board

Do you screen?
SensualShai See my TER Reviews 403 reads
posted

You said that you gave out your incall address way too automatically. Does this person have references? I say go with your gut but if sounds like you have doubts or at least are not sure so why not just leave and go to a new place? Better safe than sorry.

yellow flag: wants location, but the call was way too short. doesn't "talk shop" even for a regular caller. only seems to be after my location, which I give way too automatically. No personality.

red flag: googling the number, I find that the number was previously registered to another "escort" which was probably used for stings ~~

I wanted to taunt the cop over text so bad, but I refrained. Actually is it safe to remain at my location tonight after giving it out? I already set up appointments for the morning and don't intend to take any more.

zerofcksgiven1118 reads

if you suspect who he is and you gave your location out you need to leave.
why would you stay and do more appointments tomorrow?smh

You either trust your "spidey" sense or you don't.  If you trust it - you need to bogey on to another place.... if you don't ...  well.... just why did you feel strongly enough about it to tell us...

And.... BTW... while LE may be a really bad way to ruin a few weeks/months of your life - there are MUCH worse things that can happen to you.  So - if I were you - I'd trust that little voice that says --- there is someone out there whom I have a bad feeling about who knows where I am and that I might have a couple of grand in cash on me....

It is never wise to give out your location. I understand the many probable reasons why you've done so... but from now on I would kindly suggest screening better.

he might have been just your average every-day serial killer who didn't want to bury a perfectly good cell phone along with the body of the last girl he saw.  Not everybody who is suspicious is LE, you know.  Don't be so paranoid.  

Always Trust Your Gut Instinct, especially in the hobby.

Posted By: stefaniesong
yellow flag: wants location, but the call was way too short. doesn't "talk shop" even for a regular caller. only seems to be after my location, which I give way too automatically. No personality.  
   
 red flag: googling the number, I find that the number was previously registered to another "escort" which was probably used for stings ~~  
   
 I wanted to taunt the cop over text so bad, but I refrained. Actually is it safe to remain at my location tonight after giving it out? I already set up appointments for the morning and don't intend to take any more.

So if I google my phone number my real name comes up.
I paid the $1 to OK Caller for introductory membership (will cancel before they charge me in full ;)
and it comes up with my old work address as my work address. lol

I know the cops have to catch the transaction taking place but I did met a woman that said her phones were seized (along with $50k in cash aggg!) when she was arrested. If I had known her then my phone number would be in her phone.

Should I be worried?

Just change phone numbers. Not much you can do at this point. You need to have a Hobby number not traced to your life. Only see safe girls that are well reviewed, so you can avoid LE. Keep mouth shut if ever stuck with LE. They can't prove anything if you didn't mention things in emails, texts, or voicemail.... and as long as you both STFU

What was she thinking having that much cash? She needs to learn what to do with her money better. Just asking to be robbed!!! Also if I was her, I'd be too embarrassed to tell others LE got 50k off of me.

Posted By: LikeTearsInRain
So if I google my phone number my real name comes up.  
 I paid the $1 to OK Caller for introductory membership (will cancel before they charge me in full ;)  
 and it comes up with my old work address as my work address. lol  
   
 I know the cops have to catch the transaction taking place but I did met a woman that said her phones were seized (along with $50k in cash aggg!) when she was arrested. If I had known her then my phone number would be in her phone.  
   
 Should I be worried?

triage577 reads

why was she booking appointments if she had 50 thousand dollars? take a vacation or something

Funny.  We have retirement plans and brokerage accounts just like y'all

oh I see....burner phone :)

triage680 reads

it can be a burner, but most important it must not be connected to your name

Well,  
you have now learned to not give your location away so easily. That's good.

Sounds like you're not a huge "screener", which means your Gut Instinct should be sharp.
Since you are now hesitating on your decision, you need to listen ONLY to what your Gut is saying.

I'm guessing,
the competition is wanting you gone.

but not good idea to trust only your gut... we have to cover all the corners.

Posted By: GYBOpower
Well,  
 you have now learned to not give your location away so easily. That's good.  
   
 Sounds like you're not a huge "screener", which means your Gut Instinct should be sharp.  
 Since you are now hesitating on your decision, you need to listen ONLY to what your Gut is saying.  
   
 I'm guessing,  
 the competition is wanting you gone.

With sharp gut instincts you will know when the Dick on the other end of the line is hard or not.
From what you're saying the Dick was not hard, hence,  "No personality".

As far as giving location out "way too automatically"
You will learn to take control of the phone conversation and  
realize your "location" is Sacred ground for only the Holiest of Dicks that you choose.

It is not to be given out fully, until the Dick proves he is quite serious about supporting your well being.
Give approximate locations, especially when an appointment is Many hours away.  
There is too much time to jack off and cling to the dollars that they feel connected to and not keep the promised appointment.
Make sure you're Not the only hotel around for miles, when giving out the approximate location.

In the morning, another approximate location can be given.  
When he calls from there, ask him what he sees.  This will be a marker/sign for you to know he is
taking the necessary effort to bring Dick to you.

Instigate something Sexy on the phone , to double check the hardness of Dick and the fullness of the balls.
If it's not there, you can still cancel without giving away the Sacred ground.

When your gut knows it's almost fucking-time,  
give the Exact address and Never/Not until it's fucking-time.

fucking.... brilliant. I will be quoting this many a time over.

yup!

Posted By: GYBOpower
With sharp gut instincts you will know when the Dick on the other end of the line is hard or not.  
 From what you're saying the Dick was not hard, hence,  "No personality".  
   
 As far as giving location out "way too automatically"  
 You will learn to take control of the phone conversation and  
 realize your "location" is Sacred ground for only the Holiest of Dicks that you choose.  
   
 It is not to be given out fully, until the Dick proves he is quite serious about supporting your well being.  
 Give approximate locations, especially when an appointment is Many hours away.  
 There is too much time to jack off and cling to the dollars that they feel connected to and not keep the promised appointment.  
 Make sure you're Not the only hotel around for miles, when giving out the approximate location.  
   
 In the morning, another approximate location can be given.    
 When he calls from there, ask him what he sees.  This will be a marker/sign for you to know he is  
 taking the necessary effort to bring Dick to you.  
   
 Instigate something Sexy on the phone , to double check the hardness of Dick and the fullness of the balls.  
 If it's not there, you can still cancel without giving away the Sacred ground.  
   
 When your gut knows it's almost fucking-time,  
 give the Exact address and Never/Not until it's fucking-time.

... to arrest you.  Proving you are doing something illegal is not the cop's job. That's up to the DA.  

LE only needs probable cause to make an arrest and for that they can cite any number of known "suspicious" actions or activities such as:  

1. Placing an ad on a web site known to be used for illegal activities  
2. Possessing condoms  
3. Possessing lots of cash
4. Single person staying at a hotel known to be used for illegal activities
5. Talking on the phone in "code" using words like in call, outcall, stress relief, full relaxation, etc.  
6. Any goddam thing they decide is suspicious.  

They count on most providers who get arrested admitting they were engaging in illegal activity, usually through coercion or threats of higher charges if they don't 'fess up. Even if you stay silent (and believe me you should ALWAYS stay silent and demand an attorney), you will go through a terrible ordeal getting booked, staying in lockup, trying to make bail, having all of your property confiscated (cash, clothes, phone, car, etc.) as evidence, and more.  

If you suspect you've been pinged by LE don't wait to find out and hope they can't prove you are doing something illegal. If they find you, you WILL be arrested no matter what they see or don't see.  

Just get out asap and find a new place to work.  

NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER talk to a member of LE without your attorney present, ever! Even if they say they don't want to arrest you. Even if they say they need your help for something else (they can lie without any repercussions) - refuse to talk to them without representation.  It can only hurt you.  It will never help you.  

(No, I am not an attorney or a member of LE.)

Did you stay put?  
Did you take your morning appointments?
Did you cancel your appointments?  
Did you pack up the night before and leave the premises?  

Let us know you're OK.  

Otherwise, ask your lawyer to post your jail address and cell number so we can send you a file in a cake.

Posted By: stefaniesong
yellow flag: wants location, but the call was way too short. doesn't "talk shop" even for a regular caller. only seems to be after my location, which I give way too automatically. No personality.  
   
 red flag: googling the number, I find that the number was previously registered to another "escort" which was probably used for stings ~~  
   
 I wanted to taunt the cop over text so bad, but I refrained. Actually is it safe to remain at my location tonight after giving it out? I already set up appointments for the morning and don't intend to take any more.

I had a somewhat similar experience a few weeks ago.  A person contacted me and asked for something I didn't offer and when I said no they started calling me all sorts of names.  Out of curiosity I googled the number and another provider popped up.  My first thought was that a pimp was behind it.  A few years back in a town close by a pimp would call the competition to set up meetings and when he got there he would threaten and rob them to run them off.  Anyhoo...it's just a thought.

pimps arrested and not the clients or the providers?
How about language services for providers who don't speak English, don't get a good agency, and end up being employed by a pimp?

Register Now!