Looks like from your reviews, you love you some BP girls.  It's hit or miss with them and more than likely the one you wanted to see got cold feet because something about you wasn't quite right(In her mind).

How about trying a reputable provider that doesn't rely on BP to announce her availability, One that actually takes pride in her line of work and schedules her appointments in advance so that she may plan properly for you

I don't know how many sites you can leave a review if you haven't actually seen her. I don't blame you for wanting to though, I've had a few no call no show and its beyond frustrating, esp when you went out of your way.  
Unfortunately its part of the business and really all you can do is move on and find someone who handles things professionally. Or she might call tomorrow with a good excuse and go out of her way to make it up to you.  
There are plenty of us who are punctual and professional, and a darn good time! Good luck finding someone
 

Not sure where u r, but yeah, here in GSO there is a lot of that going around.  They will text you up till the minute u are basically in the parking lot and then never text u again or text u hours later cuz they may be with a client already cuz they have double or even tripled booked themselves.   That is why I go to Lillian or one or 2 of the 8 Taylors (there are only 2 worth it in GSO area lol)  because they are low volume and do not book people right on top of each other.  If u have an 8 o'clock appoint then u r it..  They will not have anything scheduled from like 7-9 or 10..  One thing u need to realize is that a lot of crappy providers will tell like 3-4-5 people sure come now and who ever gets there first will get in and if someone is waiting after wards still then they will see them.   and then both people end up getting a rush job.

I'm sure there is a "good" excuse. Just state the facts as they occurred, including names.   That is a very effective way to help stop this kind of behavior.

But you can name names here! If she's active on the boards, then be prepared for her to dispute your characterization of what transpired.

By "well-reviewed" are you referring to quantity or quality? If she's a low-priced, high-volume provider, then she either got a better offer or double-booked (first come, first served). If she's higher end, then you should expect an excuse and apology (and if she's really awesome, some offer to make it up to you).

I find that an actual voice phone call will provide a connection that a simple text message doesn't provide. If you talk to someone and tell them you're on your way, the tone of their voice will confirm they are committed to seeing you or if they are being a flake. Texting is easier at times but I reserve that for people I've previously met or already talked to by phone.