For all of you who PMed begging to show a pic of my new wheels:
Recently on 2 occasions while driving to an appointment I had the lady text me repeatedly, which caused me to have to pull over since I couldn't answer while I was driving 65 mph. I had to check since it may have been to cancel. Ladies please think about the fact that the client is on the road.
get all the way there and THEN find out she can't make it? That would make me more likely to run into a tree . . . . on purpose.
Clients will frequently do the same when awaiting the arrival of his outcall date, even if she isn't late.
"Hey just checking in to see how far away you are!"
"I hope you're wearing something discreet for the hotel lobby!"
"What are you wearing?" or "Tell me what sexy panties you have on, to help me get going now!"
And so on and so forth....
ALSO, on the other side of that coin, I've had clients tell me they'd HOPED I'd send them flirtatious messages on the day-of, to encourage them along their drive by "enticing" them in. Some even specifically request this!
Hopefully, they have whatever feature it's called that allows them to play text messages without having to use their hands or look down at the phone while driving, as well as then respond with voice-to-text. 
"Hey just checking in to see how far away you are!"
"I hope you're wearing something discreet for the hotel lobby!"
"What are you wearing?" or "Tell me what sexy panties you have on, to help me get going now!"
And so on and so forth....
ALSO, on the other side of that coin, I've had clients tell me they'd HOPED I'd send them flirtatious messages on the day-of, to encourage them along their drive by "enticing" them in. Some even specifically request this!
Hopefully, they have whatever feature it's called that allows them to play text messages without having to use their hands or look down at the phone while driving, as well as then respond with voice-to-text.
Omg, THIS!!!!! ^^^ Guys constantly blow up my phone whether it's incall or outcall. I also don't do flirty/sexy texts of any kind unless we know each other REALLY well.
I could not agree more to this.
If there will be more than a certain amount of texts between us then we will speak on the phone. I am like that with people in this hobby and out! I also will not text and drive. Two different times when I was driving and texting I looked up and was speeding towards the back of a car as the light had turned red. Both times I basically had to use both feet to stomp on the brakes! After I got my heart back in my chest and went home and changed my panties, I no longer do that. I text/call/email right before the date to let him know that either I am leaving now and will text when at his place or either that I am at my incall and all ready for him. No flirting texts while he is driving or anything. You know the saying: I can show you better than I can tell you :p I do text/call to let him know that I am at his place and it works out. I have learned my lesson. I could have been at fault for those accidents not to mention destroyed my car and my insurance company would have been balls deep in my ass. No more. I have even told guys inquiring while I was driving that I was driving when they texted me so I am answering them now that I have parked my car. Y'all PLEASE be careful out there!!!!
I can't even tell you how many times I've gotten an 'Are you close? Where r u?' message when it's obvious I'm driving.
I could understand it if I were running late, but I'm almost never late... and, I always send a message the day of, confirming any details, and saying that I'll let them know when I'm about 5-10 min away.
If they want banter (or even chat), I rarely answer. Even if I'm NOT driving, that type of thing tends to get out of hand really quickly. For instance, I recently had a client text me for 3 hours straight. I'd replied in a quick and friendly way to an appointment request. Then, he just kept on going. I finally had to tell him that I was leaving to drive someplace... oh, and guess who ended up never replying to my confirmation email? LOL. (That's happened twice w/the same guy.)
Unless it's clear that both parties are available for and receptive to texts, they should be confined to the essentials (room number, 'I'm running 10 minutes late,' etc.).
I'll usually send the guy just enough to reassure him that we're still on, and that I'm all set to arrive on time. If he's visiting me, I'll sometimes text the room number and tell him to come right up when he arrives, etc. But that's it.
It definitely happens frequently.
I usually text back saying, "Driving" or I'll call using my bluetooth to let them know that I'm driving and provide them with an ETA.
I do mainly outcalls and this is a huge issue! Some clients want an estimated ETA every 5 minutes and/or on the way there they say something like "Oh by the way can you wear the green corset?" It's a bit frustrating but I understand it goes both ways.
maybe but you'd damn sure better read your voice text before you send it.
Siri has gotten me into some serious trouble LOL
text when you arrive. Safe and easy. Yep, works both ways.
I hope the clowns that want a thousand "enticing" texts while they're on their way aren't on the same roads I am. Just sayin'. I guess they think of it as OTC time? And my speech to text app sucks...
I'd call her...and she wouldn't answer. Then I'd get another text, and I'd call...and she wouldn't answer. I loved that woman dearly, and still do, but she was always a bit of a flake, and it got worse over the course of three years. Oh, the things we put up with for money and mind-blowing sex...
and a lot more efficient than texting. I find it strange that so many simply refuse to speak on the phone and will only text.
I am not one of those people and if I can't talk to you on the phone at some point, it's a no-go. Seems like more guys (not too many but a few) only want to text and/or email. I don't care to text, but will do so to a certain point. Too much gets lost in translation (so to speak).
I am either getting ready or driving to you, so don't blow up my phone. A simple "On my way" or "here" is fine. I only text a guy to confirm and if he is late, asking eta. If either party is lost, then it is ok too.
There are guys that want to play a million texts when they are on their way or when you are on your way. I am driving, I don't have time to do that, nor should anyone else. Suppose to be driving!
I once told a guy if he wanted me to get ready and shower etc, he needed to stop the texts. You would think people would think of these things.
On my new car (Yes, I said a NEW car!) I can just press a button on the wheel and talk hands free.
Best invention ever!
Totally agree. One of my biggest pet peeves is them texting me when they know I'm driving to them. They could just as easily call, and we could talk on the phone.
Congratulations mrfisher. Having a new car is a wonderful thing and a special treat when it is just what you want! Enjoy!
Best invention ever!
So what are you going to do with all the 8 tracks?
For all of you who PMed begging to show a pic of my new wheels:
Just to get your adrenaline going.
On a serious note, I do agree. Texting while driving is extremely dangerous.
getting ready for the hot stud muffin that will be arriving at my door to do any texting and chatting on the phone.
no need to look down. You can respond by voice.
Driving cannot text! At least that response tells the provider you will not be responding to her texts if she continues. If it is cancellation information well it was a nice relaxing drive.
That would be super cool. I, know my phone will turn voice to text, so I don't see why it wouldn't work, but how does one set that up with the car's Bluetooth?
Not sure how to load it, but when a text comes in the car asks me whether I want it read and then asks if I want to reply. All done orally, to get me ready.
Practice Practice Practice.
I share your annoyance. I have an incall, if you are on your way, I am getting showered, perfumed and pretty. Every time yuo text I have to stop what I'm doing. If I'm on my way to see you at your strip hotel, I have to pull over to answer "what are you wearing?". Please don't text the half hour before the call. I'm either primping or driving.
I mostly cater to outcalls, so I always have to drive to my appointments. I live in Atlanta, so traffic is pretty bad 90% of the time, and the roads aren't all that great ITP. I've found it safest to email my client right before leaving my house so they know that I'm on my way. This has always worked great for me, with the exception of once when I was in a car accident (and no, I wasn't texting a driving lol).
Nothing wrong with her texting. Shit, it's up to you to check when you can safely. Does she know your exact whereabouts and location?
Set your phone to auto responder that you are driving next time.