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Photos should be honest
hueyfan 40 Reviews 564 reads
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That is one of the criteria a hobbyist looks at when making a decision.  It is one of them I use.  If hair style is a big deal just ask.  It could be like asking for a specific outfit.

When posting photos, glam ones are great but not necessary.  The real person is what I am looking to see.  And please don't just publish three pictures of basically the same shot - can't tell you how many sites have three shots of the person's backside and nothing else.  

I've had a couple of instances where the providers' website photos showed something more than what the provider presented in person. For example, every single photo of about 50 photos on one provider's site shows long wavy hair down to her ass. When I went to see her, her hair was shoulder length. I asked about the photos, and she said those were hair extensions. I guess she decided not to wear them for her customers.

Another provider's photos showed a wavy lion's mane of hair. When I went to see her, her hair was thin and straight. I asked about it, and she said that setting her hair takes a long time.

Another provider's site showed her face, and it looked beautiful. Much of that was apparently makeup, as when I saw her, she was wearing no makeup and her face looked very plain. I didn't ask for any explanation.

How closely should a provider be to her photos? If she shows ass-length hair, should she have ass-length hair, or new photos on her site?

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I personally love changing my hair and don't think it's that big a deal but, since my hair is very wild and curly (a huge Afro basically), I often get requests to leave it that way. I think if hair, or any particular feature, draws you to a companion then it's in your best interest to mention it so they can bear it in mind when preparing for you date. This is the reason many of us encourage clients to speak up about requests. A simple "I love your hair in this picture/are you still keeping your hair like this" or "You look stunning in this picture would you mind replicating the make up?" Will save frustration on both ends.

So true! We can't read minds. I know for me I change my so often it is hard to keep up with photos.  Luckily for me it's color I change and not length . I have long dreads and they a bitch to maintain lol but I always mention what color it is and let them know if photos maybe slightly different bc of the hair.

Posted By: avazane
I personally love changing my hair and don't think it's that big a deal but, since my hair is very wild and curly (a huge Afro basically), I often get requests to leave it that way. I think if hair, or any particular feature, draws you to a companion then it's in your best interest to mention it so they can bear it in mind when preparing for you date. This is the reason many of us encourage clients to speak up about requests. A simple "I love your hair in this picture/are you still keeping your hair like this" or "You look stunning in this picture would you mind replicating the make up?" Will save frustration on both ends.

Her pictures aren't accurate if she's gained significant weight, her makeup is hiding something or suggesting something that isn't true (like fake freckles), the pics are out of date, or they hide that she has a bunch of tats when the profile doesn't disclose them.

This is very simple.

Hello ****** Which photo is the most recent?
You might also want to request a certain look.  

A lot of providers wear hair extensions, most of the top ones.  If long hair is important to you, I suggest mentioning it. Same with heavy make-up. Photography make-up is very heavy and not traditionally worn everyday.  Especially in humid climates like Florida. If you like a natural look request it. If you want glam VaVoom, request it!  

 
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GoogleWasMyIdea532 reads

Of course, reviews won't 100% save you from disappointment but if six people give her an 8 and her photos are 10 you might ask why. I also make sure I look at the "Photos current?" box. And of course, if there is something you like, request it when you set up the date.  

All that said, it seems that what we now call pussy was referred to as cats in Benjamin Franklin's day, and his famous phrase "all cats are gray in the dark" was part of his explanation of why to take an older women to bed. Fun fact: He ripped the line off from John Heywood, whose book of proverbs (1546) said 'When all candles be out, all cats be gray.'

My recent experience: I met with just an incredible provider. Amazing session (one of the best ever) and fun, fun, warm, intelligent, nice person. She was not beautiful in any classic sense. But that didn't detract from the quality of the session. And I'm sure, had she been able to market herself as beautiful on top of her other gifts she could have charged double what she did and I wouldn't have seen her. That's a trade-off I'd make any day.

FWIW

GaGambler561 reads

and that is certainly your right.

but it's my right to laugh at you for your VERY low standards.

BTW you are currently out to a double digit lead in the early polling for BSU. You should be proud.

I understand that could be frustrating but often we had our hair and makeup done profeasionally for photos and its not something we could do ourselves and if we could it could take hours/days and hundreds which is not feesible for one date. I had a few ask me the same with my old pics which is why i juat got new pics showing a very natural look which is more me in a real session.

souls_harbor461 reads

I noticed the hamburgers they serve at McDonalds never look like the ones in the menu pictures.

But if the menu showed cheese on the burger, and yours didn't have cheese, would you ask why?  

I understand the providers who are saying that they change their hair often. In this one particular case, as I said, every single one of some 50 or so photos shows the same extremely long hair. I would assume that it's one of her selling points.

My former ATF had the most incredible body I've ever seen: mouth-watering DD boobs, tiny waist, curvy hips, long supple legs. She doesn't look anything like that now, but still uses her photos from eight years ago when she looked like that. What surprises me is that I don't read complaints about it in her reviews (although I know she manipulates reviews).

Posted By: donbecker54
I've had a couple of instances where the providers' website photos showed something more than what the provider presented in person. For example, every single photo of about 50 photos on one provider's site shows long wavy hair down to her ass. When I went to see her, her hair was shoulder length. I asked about the photos, and she said those were hair extensions. I guess she decided not to wear them for her customers.  
   
 Another provider's photos showed a wavy lion's mane of hair. When I went to see her, her hair was thin and straight. I asked about it, and she said that setting her hair takes a long time.  
   
 Another provider's site showed her face, and it looked beautiful. Much of that was apparently makeup, as when I saw her, she was wearing no makeup and her face looked very plain. I didn't ask for any explanation.  
   
 How closely should a provider be to her photos? If she shows ass-length hair, should she have ass-length hair, or new photos on her site?

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False Advertising?

 
Fit that grievance into a Review.
That'll get some notice.

In the future,  
REQUEST a "Look" that is your favorite of all her pictures.

I wouldn't wear my Mini-Mouse outfit for someone  
who wants me as Cruella de Vil

The subject line was cut off. The line was "become 'not like her photos' "

If I ever get a hankerin' for Mini-Mouse, I know who to call. ;)

WICardinalfan333 reads

Everyone is different...but I am not that fussy about a ladies hair unless it is oily and stringy.....which signals other things maybe in need of attention too.  Has yet to happen to me.  

I would, however, be upset of a lady represented herself as having a full bush, landing strip, or partially shaved and there was nothing down there.  I miss the bush or landing strip, I really do.  So ladies, please be honest about that element?  

I have been lucky, never been with a lady in which there was not even a hint of misrepresentation.  

A while back I saw a lady frequently who's "look" evolved over time.  First time I ask for the hot MILF look going to work out.....got that one.  Second time the Victory Secret Sex Goddess......got it.  I finally asked her what she preferred. She shared she just likes being naked.  Whom am I to argue, from then on she met me naked.

But if a client likes it curly then I certainly don't mind if they request it before the booking. I try to carry as much of the outfits I have in my most recent photos with me in case that's requested too but it's not always feasible.
I try to look as much like my photos as possible because I don't want someone being disappointed when they come to see me and I'm not into fake hair/boobs/nails etc anyway. You can still be glamorous with your real look :)

if i took professional photos and looked a certain way, then i believe that is how i show up to an appt...i feel if i did not then i basically lied and misrepresented myself...i do not "do" my hair and wear minimum make-up because that is what i am comfortable with...it is part of me...just my .02 cents

when a provider exceeds my "add 5-10 years and 10-15 pounds to whatever the ad says" rule.  This rule insures I am seldom disappointed because most girls fudge a little on their stats, so I expect that, but not too much.  If the ad says she weighs 120 and its really 160, that's more than a fudge, it's a misrepresentation in my book.

John_Laroche410 reads

I'm extremely disappointed in an extra 5 years and/or 10 pounds.
Of course if an ad says 120 lbs, I'll pass (unless she's 5'8" or taller).

VOO-doo439 reads

And I look ill at any weight lower than 140. The 'ideal' BMI range for my height is 135-170ish. I've only approached the 'underweight' mark one time in my life, when I actually WAS ill. Otherwise, I have a lot of muscle, so I probably should be closer to the higher range. I've been squarely in the middle for the past few years (ever since escorting). So yes, I'm around 145-150... damn, I apparently, that is FAT!!! Yet, I have zero gut, and my ribs almost stick out farther than my boobs.  

120 seems to be some magic number that men think is "thin". Even an agency told me once that they would not hire a lady over 120, no matter what her height. (I thought they were lying). I haven't weighed that since I was, like, 11, and probably 7-8 inches shorter than I am now. (No, I wasn't a fat kid.)

My point was about disparity between real weight and what a provider advertises.  I've dated some athletic, muscular women that weighed up to 150, and looked tight and fit, but if she advertised herself at less than 135, I would still consider that a material misrepresentation.

VOO-doo473 reads

I don't include any number on my site, specifically because the real number would "sound" fat. My attitude is, if they want to know whether or not I am fat, they can look at my photos.  

Modified to say: if I DID put a number on my site, I definitely wouldn't say 120 even though it's the "magic number." I'd probably claim slightly lower than my real weight (that's not to fudge my fatness level, it's because of how the number "sounds").  

I'd hope that most guys would be smart enough to realize that a woman of above-average height and musculature (I'm not a bodybuilder, but definitely toned) would never weigh 120, except maybe on Mars.

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"In a low-gravity atmosphere, my weight is 60 pounds."  Lol

When I first started, I had a gf tell me "Do what agencies do, use someone elses pics!" I was totally uncomfortable with that idea. Then I colored my hair lighter, took my extensions out but then I realized I only had professional pics in my long black hair...so I decided when I see a client, I put them back. It's false advertising and it is not fair. That is like shopping online on those wholesale priced sites and see something beautiful and you end up with something totally different and unappealing. I say ladies, look like your photos and if you change your hair or something, please state so.

I know nothing about them. If it takes a lot of time, I can understand why a provider might not have them in when a guy shows, although I think a guy who's booked three or four hours should get some consideration.

If they're not a big deal, I wish more would use them. I think really long hair is sexy as all hell. So, I'll leave you with one of the queens of "lotsa hair" ;)

Some of you folks are totally out of touch with the time and cost involved in various "cosmetic" procedures.

I hope you don't intend to TOUCH or PULL her extensions, seeing as how a full head of cold fusion extensions costs the same as a cheap used car...

Sigh.

She doesn't specify on her website, and I so seldom get hair extensions anymore. I don't intend to pull them, either. Could be stapled on.

Every provider I have had showed up and looked like their picture, hair might have been styled, colored or cut different, but it did not matter to me, as long as they had the correct plumbing and fixtures. Women cut their hair and change it more times than most men change underwear.  If long hair is the reason you are hiring a woman, well, you might want to change your reasons. I do understand how it might be upsetting if a provider having a pretty face because of make up, showed up not looking her best for the date, and looked drab, you can back out of the date or just fuck her doggy style, and facing away from reflective surfaces. It becomes false advertising, if your provider was showing a vagina between her legs in her picture, and showed up with a penis between her legs, you would have every right be upset.

VOO-doo390 reads

She clearly states on her site that her hair has changed since her last photo shoot.  

I won't even borrow clothing items for my photo shoots, because I know how many times men have requested specific outfits I've worn in my pictures.  

Hair has a dramatic effect on the a woman's entire appearance, and how she is perceived... while a man might find the same woman attractive regardless of her hairstyle, if he's booking a girl with waist-long hair and gets one with a pageboy cut... well, some men are going to feel disappointed.  

I mean, some guys specifically search for redheads, blondes, etc.  

If she's wearing clip-in extensions for the shoot, and they dramatically change the length or style of her hair, then she should wear them for appointments. Or leave them out for the shoot. Whichever.

I guess make-up works the same way. If she's glammed up in photos, that's what guys will be led to expect. Some will be very disappointed if she doesn't deliver.  

I mean, say I order a used book from Amazon. If the seller includes a photo of a brand-new book for informational purposes, he is obligated to at least say - somewhere - that the book in the photo is not the actual book you'll receive. And it's best if he actually does include a photo of the 'real' used book, tears and all... even if it's, like, the last photo in the gallery.

That is one of the criteria a hobbyist looks at when making a decision.  It is one of them I use.  If hair style is a big deal just ask.  It could be like asking for a specific outfit.

When posting photos, glam ones are great but not necessary.  The real person is what I am looking to see.  And please don't just publish three pictures of basically the same shot - can't tell you how many sites have three shots of the person's backside and nothing else.  

I've always held the idea that it is better to look more amazing in person then one does in pro pics, or any pics for that matter. The last thing a provider should want is to disappoint when the door opens.  
That being said, ladies change their hair styles and make up looks all the time and, if you prefer a certain look, inquire about it. Ask, politely, if a) her current look matches the photo you've seen and desire or b) if she would mind making herself up to appear representative of that pic.
Keep in mind, it can take time to accomplish these beauty feats! So, make sure to give ample notice (prior to your preferred booking time) for your beauty queen to get everything that needs to be done, done.
As a general rule, it's best just to ask which pic most accurately represents her current beauty trend and go from there.
Some ladies find attire/ make-up/ hair look requests to be offensive. Some invite it. It's best to inquire about her current look first then (if it is not what you are after) inquire if she would be willing to go the extra mile for you to change it.
Appreciation for the lengths she goes for you (pre appt) would be welcomed and returned, I presume, in most cases.
Hope that helped!

and put a date on your pics.

I used to wear wigs, and learned to put that in my site. (When a client is expecting a platinum bob & you show up with waist length curls, they tend to get confused.)

It's pretty simple- we girls like to show off, so we take pics looking good- but put a date on them so clients know they are from last year.

And the makeup thing? I just assume I should be full face unless the client has another preference. Just saying. To me, showing up like that is the equivalent of rocking Thierry Mugler in your site/ad, but showing up in dirty sweats. JMOI.

When I order a double double w/cheese, I don't want to be handed a veggie burger & told "It's still a burger". I might eat it still, but I'd be very disappointed.

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