for being tasteless.
Here I am going for the low-hanging fruit, not to mention the pot calling he kettle black! LolI hate to be the fantasy killer but don't you guys think it is wise to carry around your recent STD results? While I would never in my life go bare back via intercourse, my concern is oral. I love to suck...but with a condom it sucks to do so(no pun intended) IMO. How do you guys get around it if there is a way around it? The taste of condoms are horrible to me but I would never ever not use a condom on a client for oral..Is it rude to ask for an std test? Because frankly, I am tired of the condom taste.
BTW I am willing to present my own results...tacky??
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For the majority of us mongers in the game, I'd say that we do indeed prefer BBBJ over CBJ. I say the majority even though there are some who prefer and request CBJ for safety reasons. There are a number of Non-GFE providers that I would love to see that do not provide BBBJ, which is why I have been hesitant to see a few. If paperwork was given as an option then I'd most certainly show it.
BBBJ over CBJ.
A CBJ is a total waste of time and money-BBBJNQNS is the only way to go !
Why?
Because anyone you are with after that test could change you from negative to positive.
That's true IRL but a thousand times more relevant for a provider
BTW I am willing to present my own results...tacky??
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screening for STD is only realistic in certain situations
I think you pretty much need to decided either you'll roll the dice on the small chance of getting something via BBBJ or that you'd rather go non-GFE. But it's mostly one-or-the-other. I say "mostly" because if you go go GFE but a client makes you feel uncomfortable you can always request a condom, or even send them home. But that's not a strategy, just a fall-back.
Good Luck!
Somebody recently said that a certain brand of condoms had no real taste. But dang if I can remember which brand.
Really? I feel like latex always has a taste.
for being tasteless.
Here I am going for the low-hanging fruit, not to mention the pot calling he kettle black! Lol
not using one. The risk is less than other activities you probably engage in. If you DFK, you can catch any one of 110 communicable diseases, but if you suck his dick without a condom, the most you can get is 12, so you can see you have much better odds when sucking than when kissing.
As far as bringing up test results, I think whoever brings it up first is suggesting that they NEED to be tested because they engage in BBFS. If a provider offered to show me her STD test, I would probably not see her. If the customer brings it up, then you need to assess whether there might be more risk with this guy than you're comfortable with.
I have come to the conclusion to go BBBJ,
Now you have other decisions to make as a result of this one. Will you allow CIM? If you do, will you spit or swallow? These are both TER profile filters that men search for who like that sort of thing. And don't throw away the condoms, just use them where you don't have to taste them. Lol
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Def CIM (I am getting excited thinking about this) I hear semen eases anxiety and depression soooooo....swallow. It's for my well being, ya know.
enough to cause a little swelling. Lol
Also, the most disturbing thing for me is when a guy tells me his "clean" status, has his tests BUT DOESN'T ASK ME ABOUT MY STATUS - as if assuming I am clean (which, yes, I am) but it's TWO SIDED.
Not asking about my status is a red flag
Telling me your status is nice but it doesn't mean shit - sorry! Cover up or get the fuck out
it's common for a provider to state being "D&D" free, so why is it so bad when a hobbyist does it?
lower end girls from BP or CL that a normal person might SUSPECT are NOT D & D free. Classy providers who maintain their own websites are presumed my most to be safer and cleaner, and in my experience, are.
I am kinda excited about this change. I know its silly but I always try to be extra careful and now I'm a little excited about this change. I miss tasting flesh lol
your address is? 🏥👄
Maybe she tours, too, but didn't see a calendar on her website. You thinking about a road trip?