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I'd be afraid to orgasm
and have a torpedo-turd knock my date out

Mommascomin4977 reads

I'm reading a review and guys are talking about how tight or loose a girl is. What's ironic is that when a woman is sincerely attracted and turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel "looser" than if you were to have sex with her where she was repulsed by you or just not into you and be "tighter".

It also just seems in stark contrast to later in the review, where they'll comment on whether they thought she was actually into it or not, which is a stupid thing to do anyways, because a lot of us are great actors and you'll never be able to tell, so all you're really doing is ruining your own memory, one that you paid for.

Posted By: Mommascomin
I'm reading a review and guys are talking about how tight or loose a girl is. What's ironic is that when a woman is sincerely attracted and turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel "looser" than if you were to have sex with her where she was repulsed by you or just not into you and be "tighter".  
   
 It also just seems in stark contrast to later in the review, where they'll comment on whether they thought she was actually into it or not, which is a stupid thing to do anyways, because a lot of us are great actors and you'll never be able to tell, so all you're really doing is ruining your own memory, one that you paid for.


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Posted By: Fancy8888
Posted By: Mommascomin
I'm reading a review and guys are talking about how tight or loose a girl is. What's ironic is that when a woman is sincerely attracted and turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel "looser" than if you were to have sex with her where she was repulsed by you or just not into you and be "tighter".  
     
  It also just seems in stark contrast to later in the review, where they'll comment on whether they thought she was actually into it or not, which is a stupid thing to do anyways, because a lot of us are great actors and you'll never be able to tell, so all you're really doing is ruining your own memory, one that you paid for.
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I find some throats are much stretchier than others.

Many girls have put in their best efforts to try and take the whole thing, but some simply cannot.

I know I'm guilty of doing that myself , but for most part  
I do it for my own memory , that the gal I was with was indeed  
pretty tight if I ever want to go see her again I will know what to expect.  

For example , If a girl was really loose than I just don't mention it .
There are some women though that are so damn tight that I tend to put a star  
next to it so only I know that there was something special about that pussy :)

GaGambler641 reads

As far as trying to determine if she was actually into it or not, when paying for it I really don't care that much as long as she makes me "think" she was into it. The only way to be sure is when she stops charging for it and even then it might be because she likes "YOU" and not necessarily the sex.

ATLDAWG672 reads

Sex with a hooker should be for you !   A gal boning 3 to 10 or more guys a day aren't doing it because they just need all the sex they can get for their own gratification!

Fuck it like you stole it !

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I'm impressed to know that at least one man understands that there is a correlation between the level of moisture and how tight (or not) a lady feels.  

I'm also impressed that you get it.... when a lady isn't charging its more likely that its because she likes "HIM" and not the sex.  

GAGambler for president!

Prostitution would be legal.  Count me in!

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ROGM755 reads

It's all subjective. What's tight to one guy is loose to another. Some of you guys seem to think that tight is best. Yeah if you want to go into a Meat Grinder.

heeeeey, that's what I call big dicks.

             hhhhhhmmmmm,  
     so, the real question is,

Will the real "Meat Grinder" please stand up.

triage519 reads

everything in a review should be taken with a grain of salt. it's not scripture

There is nothing in scripture that should ever be taken with a grain of salt?

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AnonymousHo684 reads

but a pussy feels tighter when a woman hasn't had a bowel movement. The lower intestine presses against the vaginal wall.

Posted By: Mommascomin
I'm reading a review and guys are talking about how tight or loose a girl is. What's ironic is that when a woman is sincerely attracted and turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel "looser" than if you were to have sex with her where she was repulsed by you or just not into you and be "tighter".  
   
 It also just seems in stark contrast to later in the review, where they'll comment on whether they thought she was actually into it or not, which is a stupid thing to do anyways, because a lot of us are great actors and you'll never be able to tell, so all you're really doing is ruining your own memory, one that you paid for.

The sex will be better if we keep her away from the fiber at dinner?

I'd be afraid to orgasm
and have a torpedo-turd knock my date out

AnonymousHo629 reads

My pussy is tight due to Kegel exercise. I offer anal so I always give myself an enema before an appointment. I posted about the poop thing, because I read about it in a women's health magazine.

Posted By: GYBOpower
I'd be afraid to orgasm  
 and have a torpedo-turd knock my date out

that there is a crying need for some basic research on this topic.

I claim the top spot on the list of volunteers.

everyone who knows you, including me, acknowledges your very high intelligence. As you know I have long lived mainly from important research grants (likes this one you proposed).  I will direct the study, above all by screening the female subjects.
You are needed for the more important role of note taking, interviewing all the male subjects, recording data, and above all interpreting it.
I have arranged the labs  to be involved: during Dec, Jan, Feb your work will be at the University of Sascatoon in Saskatchawan  (the first task will be to teach me the correct spelling) Break in March, April, May then June, July, August at the University of Umalooloo in the Republic of Congo. You should try to leave for Northern Canada in the next week or two.  (You can contact me in Palm Beach for the next 6 weeks or so.I will be either there or Las Vegas lining up the first wave of female subjects.)
I am looking forward to working with you on this vital work so important for the security of the United States.

that require my attention, say about five thousand or so, and that should keep me occupied for about the next three years.  Then, I really must shampoo my hair after that, and there's the sock draw that needs sorting which I've promised myself over and over I would finally do.

Such a bad break, but I fear you'll need to recruit another to fill my shoes.

I heartily suggest my comrade, Jake to be my replacement.

John_Laroche610 reads

Some girls are naturally tighter than others given a similar level of relaxation. I've experienced this many times in civie life with women I knew well enough to know they are relaxed and into it. I used to think it had a lot to do with body size (small girl= small pussy=tight) but then found that not to be true. When it comes to pro's who've had a lot of sex with a lot of sizes, the good ones who may no longer be tight make up with muscle control. That's probably what the reviewer is sensing.

As far as being into it, sure girls fake it, but "you'll never be able to tell" is pure BS. You can't fake an elevated heart rate, perspiration, flushing, etc.. that comes with a real orgasm. What guys say in the review? Well naturally they want to sound like a stud and say she's really into it. Besides, how else can they justify a 8-10 performance score? "Oh, she took it like a real trooper."

Last civie I dated was like fucking an open window - but wet as hell and totally into it.  She is still trying to get back together a year later.  It's more a physiological thing than anything else.

Mommascomin393 reads

I wasn't comparing some women to other women, i was specifically talking about comparing experiences with one woman.

"I'm reading a review and guys are talking about how tight or loose a girl is. What's ironic is that when a woman is sincerely attracted and turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel "looser" than if you were to have sex with her where she was repulsed by you or just not into you and be "tighter". "

See here, i am discussing how ONE woman, can feel different to different guys, simply based on her level of a attraction, and that the level of attraction doesn't positively correlate with how tight she is. In fact it is a negative correlation.  

Some girls will always be tighter than other, that just human nature, or women who have given birth vaginally, or a host of other reasons. The reviewer isn't "Sensing" any of this, because he isn't aware of any of this. He doesn't know if the girl has sex twice a month or twice a day. You'd be surprised how some of the least reviewed midrange providers on here see 4 guys a day, and how some of the often reviewed girls see one client a week.

My whole point is that assumptions (including yours) about a woman's body by clients is almost always wrong.

Tightness caused by dryness and that of a girl that has consciously developed her kegel strength.  I can usually tell the difference, but I agree it still doesn't mean she's into the sex or into the customer.

If you do a good job acting - I am not going to know whether or not it's "real".  You've done your job!  On the other hand. - if you cannot be bothered to act like you are having a good time...  then that's worth reviewing.  Surely we are adult enough to realize that P4P has limits and that a lady is not going to fall in love with you when you walk in the door regardless of your sexual prowess -especially if she sees guys regularly.   On the other hand, we are paying for a certain level of illusion with respect to desire.  As an extreme example- do you think that just laying there chewing gum and Texting while periodically asking "are you done yet?" Is going to be something that would be reviewed favorably regardless of how "tight" you are...  even bad acting is better than indifference.  So ACT- but try to do it well.

With regards to tight - assuming reasonable lube it's a matter of PC muscles.  I have known at least one lady that could grab you internally.  But, honestly to me - tight has never been on my list of reasons that a good fuck was memorable...

Posted By: Mommascomin
I'm reading a review and guys are talking about how tight or loose a girl is. What's ironic is that when a woman is sincerely attracted and turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel "looser" than if you were to have sex with her where she was repulsed by you or just not into you and be "tighter".  
   
 It also just seems in stark contrast to later in the review, where they'll comment on whether they thought she was actually into it or not, which is a stupid thing to do anyways, because a lot of us are great actors and you'll never be able to tell, so all you're really doing is ruining your own memory, one that you paid for.

Yes, I also agree with Mommascomin.

Apart from the VARIETY of great women we can meet and spend time with in the hobby - precisely why I P2P - I also do repeat with ATFs. Why? Because my time with these fantastic (few) women feels spontaneous, uninhibited, friendly, hot, etc. [Secret: It's the (perceived) emotional connection with a woman that keeps me coming back to an ATF.] However, I know that connection is largely an illusion (mine), but during the our time together it feels real for me...and that's what I really hope to experience and keep coming back for.  

So, yes, I am all in for illusion.

And I agree, again, with Mommascomin...the thread about tightness...really?

"turned on by you, her muscles will relax and she'll feel 'looser'
than where she was repulsed by you and be 'tighter'. "

When a woman is very aroused, she will swell up inside, due to increased blood flow, and become TIGHTER.
Clitoral erection occurs when the corpora cavernosa, two expandable erectile structures, become engorged with blood.  
I have known girls to get so aroused and tight that a dick could hardly make it in.
Maybe the "looser" feeling is all the natural lubrication going on.  

Kegel Exercises, which are squeezing and holding the pelvic floor muscles in women, are what is used to fake an orgasm and get that oh-so-tight-feeling that every cock is looking for,
and also that hurry-up-and-get-this-shit-overwith-feeling some providers are looking for.

Sure, blood will flow to the genitals, but any swelling in the vaginal walls (if detectable at all), is more than offset by the relaxation of the vaginal walls, because the vag was designed to elongate and relax during arousal in order to accommodate various sizes of dick.

souls_harbor552 reads

Proud as we are of our size, the vaginal size is more concerned with fitting a baby.

Posted By: Bendadick.Cuminsnatch
Sure, blood will flow to the genitals, but any swelling in the vaginal walls (if detectable at all), is more than offset by the relaxation of the vaginal walls, because the vag was designed to elongate and relax during arousal in order to accommodate various sizes of dick.

If anyone trying to fit a baby in a vagina?  Babies come out of there, but I don't thing anyone's ever tried to put one back in.

ROGM377 reads

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
If anyone trying to fit a baby in a vagina?  Babies come out of there, but I don't thing anyone's ever tried to put one back in.
I'll bet there's a lot of guys and some girls that wish they could put a baby back inside.

Stick your fingers in your Vagina
and feel how SWOLLEN and JUICY it has become.

It's quite a different feeling inside there, during REAL sexual response.  

The clitoris is greatly increased in size,
   just like a penis would get.

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the concept of IOP and that quite a few providers have done the kegels and have a lot of control.

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Yes there are times where a guy says something like "you're so tight I can't even get it in" if I'm not super wet or lubed. And when I am, I'm still told I'm really tight. Then I loosen up as I get wetter. And then it gets tighter as the orgasms happen. Because you're contracting and then there's the throbbing that comes with aftershocks. Plus I'm squeezing half the time because it makes my orgasms happen quicker so I get more in :D

Everyone is different and I think there are different tightness levels due to all sorts of factors.

triage552 reads

enjoyed reading this

Posted By: chloemercier
Yes there are times where a guy says something like "you're so tight I can't even get it in" if I'm not super wet or lubed. And when I am, I'm still told I'm really tight. Then I loosen up as I get wetter. And then it gets tighter as the orgasms happen. Because you're contracting and then there's the throbbing that comes with aftershocks. Plus I'm squeezing half the time because it makes my orgasms happen quicker so I get more in :D  
   
 Everyone is different and I think there are different tightness levels due to all sorts of factors.

or the two lovely bombs, set on their bosom that can blast any strong, holy spirit filled individual, but that part of her that cannot be described, yet can only be felt.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

FatVern357 reads

If that's true why are women physically attractive?

Have you ever seen wild animals "get to know one another" before sex, or after?

Posted By: MasterZen
or the two lovely bombs, set on their bosom that can blast any strong, holy spirit filled individual, but that part of her that cannot be described, yet can only be felt.”  
 ― Michael Bassey Johnson

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