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As long as you have the donation we are great!

navyblonde3400 reads

i have a regular 9-5 job.. nothin' special and not high payin'.. my question is would you turn down a hobbyist based on his income or occupation?? does it matter as long as he has the donation??

I usually don't even ask about occupation until we're face-to-face. Not a big deal to me.

Honestly, I have NEVER heard of a provider doing an income check.   It ain't like she needs to have your W2 when she books you.  

Agree on the forum -- seems like an odd question here.

That said, I did have the thought that if this ever became legal the providers might have to consider income. Too many seem unable to control themselves, spend beyond their limits, fall in love with some provider or otherwise show signs of addiction. So, like gambling operation have to try to protect known gambling addicts from ruining their bank accounts (and family budget) in some states I would think providers might be exposed to the same regulatory standard ;-)

Posted By: mongo19621954
Honestly, I have NEVER heard of a provider doing an income check.   It ain't like she needs to have your W2 when she books you.  

You could have trouble clearing the screening process if you are law enforcement. That said, I used to see a provider who got excited about cops and firefighters.

Posted By: navyblonde
i have a regular 9-5 job.. nothin' special and not high payin'.. my question is would you turn down a hobbyist based on his income or occupation?? does it matter as long as he has the donation??

get turned down, but if you're 9.5, its less likely.  

John_Laroche611 reads

But if you can't resist, just make sure your fingernails are clean and you'll be fine.

Cash is king. They don't care where it came from, whether you earned it or hocked gramma's silverware. Don't give your real name or work info for screening either.

bad advice.. another example on why never trust those who hide behind an alias.

Posted By: John_Laroche
But if you can't resist, just make sure your fingernails are clean and you'll be fine.  
   
 Cash is king. They don't care where it came from, whether you earned it or hocked gramma's silverware. Don't give your real name or work info for screening either.

souls_harbor404 reads

I think that was sarcasm.

Posted By: TurbayVeronica
bad advice.. another example on why never trust those who hide behind an alias.
Posted By: John_Laroche
But if you can't resist, just make sure your fingernails are clean and you'll be fine.  
     
  Cash is king. They don't care where it came from, whether you earned it or hocked gramma's silverware. Don't give your real name or work info for screening either.

I would never turn down someone because of their annual income. I feel like if you have the budget for this kind of fun, then that's all that matters. Party on:)

As long as you have donation it should not matter. Then again watch how many personal details you share with her to begin with.

 
don't tell her you are paying her out if your unemployment check or child support, or maxing out your credit card. Classy.

Posted By: navyblonde
i have a regular 9-5 job.. nothin' special and not high payin'.. my question is would you turn down a hobbyist based on his income or occupation?? does it matter as long as he has the donation??

But I am 8-4 and I've never had a problem.

If someone disclosed to me that they had a job that I felt conflicted with animal rights, then yes I would decline.
I recognise that could cover a broad spectrum of occupations (and hobbies potentially) as we all view conflict and rights differently.  
It's just a personal choice....

Posted By: navyblonde
i have a regular 9-5 job.. nothin' special and not high payin'.. my question is would you turn down a hobbyist based on his income or occupation?? does it matter as long as he has the donation??

Are you asking me? Sorry, it's hard to tell when the threads start stacking up...

let's just say I'm afraid you might take that question too seriously to ask again ... but yes YOU ... lol

Bahahahaha.....too funny!

Posted By: nothrofboston
let's just say I'm afraid you might take that question too seriously to ask again ... but yes YOU ... lol

Perhaps the question should be more general in its approach when addressing this population. The responses would then have more of a scope to why they wouldn't see certain hobbyist. For the Play 4 pay world, I don't think that the requirements would be as stringent. In real life your concern regarding occupation would be more justified and a concern with the population that you are addressing.

Posted By: navyblonde
i have a regular 9-5 job.. nothin' special and not high payin'.. my question is would you turn down a hobbyist based on his income or occupation?? does it matter as long as he has the donation??

I appreciate your replies.. I've been in touch with some providers and a couple of them asked where I worked and if I can send a blank email from my company.. I'm still not sure what that's all about.. that and readin' reviews on hotel suites and fancy dinners.. TER makes me wanna go check out CL.. haha..

Dfusethesituation426 reads

Perhaps that was due to you not having reviews (i.e. newbie) and for verification purposes, especially if you're saying "some providers" and "a couple of them."  Some ladies do ask for work/employment info as an alternate means and proof that you aren't LE.  Be careful with that though, HR departments can track things like emails received and sent out.  They put 2 and 2 together and you could be questioned and or fired.  

Posted By: navyblonde
I appreciate your replies.. I've been in touch with some providers and a couple of them asked where I worked and if I can send a blank email from my company.. I'm still not sure what that's all about.. that and readin' reviews on hotel suites and fancy dinners.. TER makes me wanna go check out CL.. haha..

...and occupations who can pay my rate.
Of course some can pay it more frequently than others.  
We're not getting married anyways .... it's just a date (or several) :).

-- Modified on 1/31/2017 9:14:24 PM

Posted By: navyblonde
i have a regular 9-5 job.. nothin' special and not high payin'.. my question is would you turn down a hobbyist based on his income or occupation?? does it matter as long as he has the donation??

if the priest was a woman. I think there's a special room in hell for that

They'd never give a second thought to  where I worked or how meager my salary was when I was off the clock, showered, polite,  with polished teeth and clean nails, her cash in hand, ready to throw down inconspicuously.  

   Now that I'm working for the Trump Organization with a bigger salary than I ever imagined  
             I'd likely have difficulties booking a session  with some Gals.  
                                         
                 On the other hand it would  be much easier finding a Gold Digger to scam.
                                          See how that works..   :-D

Your income isn't a thing to providers.

As long as the client was good about paying and we never had any issues between each other then it would never and should never be a problem. Your just like everyone else in the world. Everyone has different jobs and if that job makes you happy and supports you that should not have anything to do with a provider turning you down. I have some blue collar gentlemen and I adore them so much. Hope this helps.

I don't think it matters.  We all have to make ends meet. A lot of providers are judged because of how they make their living.  

You'll be fine! As long as you are gentleman and respectful from the moment of contact and beyond you'll be fine. There are plenty of providers who are available within your time frames and/or budget. Do your research and look around. Most of all, have fun.

Here's to your week being lush and healthy,  

LJ

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