I can usually tell from an introduction email if I'd like to have someone as a client. I adore respectful & informative introduction emails. It shows me you're serious about spending time with me. Being respectful, punctual, and considerate goes such a long way and automatically puts me at ease, which in turn puts you at ease...

Everyone says they want to see the perfect gentleman with good hygiene and all that. I think all those things, for men and women, go without saying.  To me, my AFTs treat me like a real woman. The intimacy is always great but to me it is taken to the next level when they take the time to talk to me as a human, not just a vessel to appease their physical needs.  

Sometimes it's little things like laughing over silly knock knock jokes, letting me sleep in on an overnight, being able to over indulge when out to eat without worrying of being judged, talking to me about real life, - as in truly getting to know each other. Being "real" with each other is probably the biggest. Just about everyone  in this hobby seems to have something to hide but when you can let your guard down a little, express yourself and know you still have a person that has your best interest at heart, it is huge.  

Those are just a few of the things that have earned my favorite clients a special place in my heart. It's definitely not about money or gifts at that point cause I can't tell you how often I'm willing to have off the clock time and just have fun as well.  Business or not, when you have a great connection, why not just enjoy it?

I have had days when I want to get down on my knees and say "thank you!" for fellows like that.  All providers know that our lives have particular difficulties.   Real gentlemen?  I love them.  

...no man with an once of self respect wants to be called "lovely". SMH.  

If you're that interested in what it's like for the gals, just get yourself a website and put up some ads... that way you can experience it firsthand.

(Except tipping... I'll echo the platitude that the best tip is a repeat date. I rarely ever get a cash tip and sort of feel funny when someone gives me one).  

My favorites are people who are just... fun.  

People I like unreservedly. People who are kind, pleasant... not necessarily polite/suave/sophisticated, but good-hearted and likeable. Smart, interesting. People who live adventurously and test their limits. People who are always learning. People who embrace the possibilities in life, and try new things once in a while (or often).  

People who are just... cool! I don't mean that he has to be the life of the party. Just someone I can laugh with. And be 'myself' around. I guess that's different for every person.  

One specific guy I'm thinking of is all of the above. But in addition, he also makes sure *I* have a good time whenever I visit him in his home city (I happily drive ~3-4 hours *each way* to see him. I don't even ask him for how long, for deposit, etc. I just get in the car and go). He remembers our conversations and what I like... for instance, he found a certain type of art exhibit he knew would make my eyes pop out based on an offhand comment I'd made. If I'm staying in a certain neighborhood, he'll give me a checklist of places to check out. Things I wouldn't have known about w/a plain guidebook or a superficial walking tour. When I'm with him, he's a fantastic conversationalist and companion. Sometimes the sex is great for me, sometimes it's whatever. But he's always completely considerate and respectful, even while still being a horny-ass ba**ard lolol. (I woudln't have it any other way). In short, it never feels like 'work.' It feels like getting together with an old friend (with sex thrown into the mix).

I consider myself a lucky lady. My screening can be a pain at times; but I want to make sure that I will meet with a truly gentleman. I have many great clients / friends. I enjoy a good conversation, a respectful encounter, someone that is clean and smells good, someone that respect my boundaries and I always repeat the same thing over and over again... "someone that doesn't treat our date as a fitness competition". There's no need to prove certain abilities.. it's all about explore, fantasize, have fun and go with the flow.  

V~

I try my best to remember details that they have told me in the past and try to keep it more like we are friends getting together to enjoy each other's company.  Some you connect quicker then others.  You sound wonderful already most likely you don't need to change a thing, and thanks for being so considerate.  

I do love a good bear hug, but I worry about my make up getting on their clothes or a little shimmer on their cheek. I don't want to get anyone in trouble

Alyssa

Best clients are generous in the bedroom

In my opinion, the best clients are the ones that love DATY which seems to be pretty common so I'm very happy :p also cuddles and light convo after -  you know. All my clients have been easy to talk to, respectful of boundaries, clean and eager to please me also which is a nice surprise.

Then I wipe my dick on her drapes.  I'm nothing if not classy.

The obvious is to not contact ladies who aren't what you're looking for, expecting something different. (Price, location, look, screening requirements, etc)

Genuinely respectful, but like minded in the necessities (listed above).  

Everybody I've seen really does have something unique and special they bring to the appointment. The fee is obvious, but nice personality traits. Outgoing, introverted, funny, sentimental, smart, affirming, animated, etc etc.  

Even a stutter is cute. Or clumsy. The main goal is a seamless booking experience, due to the fact that they chose someone who's requirements match their comfort level.

Get acquainted with the information she has online - websites, ads, etc. Be thorough and take in the information she chose to make available.

Be straightforward and respectful in your communication - don't be too chatty, just enough to work things out for a date.  

Follow the provider's protocol, whichever it is, especially with providing screening info.

Show up clean, minty breath, clean nails. Smell nice.

Treat her with respect. Understand her boundaries and don't try to cross them.

Do not share on forums personal details she has chosen to share with you - and you only.

Tip her if you believe you got the service you deserved.

I am very lucky as in I am good with connecting with people. That is sure made even easier when the client follows above mentioned manners - not only they get my connection, they also get my admiration.

Google you are the definition of one.

A client who by the first communication, you can just tell he is respectful and interested in also participating to make our session mutually enjoyable. He makes the screening process a breeze and has picked a rendezvous a few days in advance to allow for enough time for me to check out his reputation. If a deposit is necessary he sends it, sometimes I have gentlemen send more than what is required of them, I guess it is just to show their sincerity, and I appreciate the touch.
They confirm and respond the day before our date. If it is an outcall booking 2 hours or more, they offer to spend time munching on room service incase I'm hungry. These little touches, bounce someone to the top of my list. None of it is required in order to have an amazing time, but it makes for a very nice memory.

To be a great client!

Initial email have your entire gameplan ready: day/time/length of date, short intro, in/out, 2-3 references, what you're into if it's something specific, wardrobe (not the hour before)

Be on time, not too early, not late.

Don't hand donation to me, place it in plain sight without mention.

Shower upon arrival or within an hour of arriving, dental hygiene within the hour of arrival

Don't gossip about other ladies. Don't bad mouth other ladies. Don't ask how much money I make, how many guys I've seen that day, don't ask to be the FIRST OF THE DAY, don't rely on white lists

Don't send an email over 3x a day until your date, and threaten to cancel if one email hasn't been read in an hour

Don't cancel dates right before the first, we have bills to pay on the 1st too