I'm with you on that but cannot help but noting that a lot of the married guys I know seem to have selected this service as well....
Read on another site that there is a fetish called Financial Domination consists of a Submissive Slave and Dominant Master. The Slave is required to turn over all his money and possessions to the Master. Have you heard of this fetish? Can you add any additional information about this?
Yes, I have heard of it before, I actually see it advertised on some of the Sugar Baby sites, but I am about as likely to try it as I am to let someone ram a twelve inch dildo up my ass.
Some things you don't need to try in order to be "positive" that you won't like it. This is one of them. lol
fg he most likely know a lot about that, especially the 12 inch dildo part.
I'm with you on that but cannot help but noting that a lot of the married guys I know seem to have selected this service as well....
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Financial_domination
There are al kinds of fetishes out there.
It doesn't have to be "all your money and possessions," but it is a financial relationship. You can learn more about it on the Alt site FetLife.
To me, Financial Domination seems based on 2 things- there are some men out there who have more money than they know what to do with, and less free time than they would like to have, so they hand over money to a FinDomme and have their humiliation needs fulfilled in that way.
Psychologically, I would say it's a "Mind Fuck" as far as who is controlling whom...I'm sure the wealthy man actually gets a feeling of control over sending money to a "Domme" and then receiving whatever it is he wants in return- attention, degradation, etc.
And the Domme gets what she wants- pretty easy money to up her lifestyle and ego, and a feeling that she is degrading and controlling men.
I know of a Philly Domme/model/producer/business owner who seems to make good $$ off of men buying her outfits and writing a script/fantasy, and then she makes a movie of the scene and sends it to them. As a bonus, she posts the video clips for sale to everyone. This is a kind of variation on FinDomme.
under its alternative name, marriage.
-- rimshot--
bada BING!
I can't help but say "This sounds Fukked up!
That being said, I would of course be willing to take anyone's cash and then humiliate them. Just PM me lol.
I'll be more than happy to assist with that! of course.. Im the one that dominate ! hahaha
LOL
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I'll PM you the address of where to send your money.
I mean to say.. Im the dominate person in here.. send me all ur credit cards haha
me confused with someone else here who is passive. I don't think anyone would think that of me, especially once they've met me in person.
you could have some success with it
Sure I can... I have some experience already!
you should try it
you can send me all your money! LOL
I had someone text me last week and ask if I could force him to give me all his money and pay child support on any kids I have through slapping and punching him but no sex. I declined.
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Not for everyone. Rarely fetishes are. The Master can use discretion to deny permitting the Slave from being reckless or not.
There are people who fuck cars, and eat glue, it's safe to say those are stupid fetishes too.
No need to try anything that does not have an appeak to you...but this fantasy world is one of wonder and delight. It is brave to expose and explore whatever fetish it is that drives your soul and makes you purrrrrr...this forum is not the place to judge
This has been depicted in the writings of Sacher Masoch himself. He was obsessed with being under the control of women in furs etc. The movie "the Blue Angel" originally a German film starring a very young Marlene Dietrich depicts this relationship and many pro dommes do this. It is not right that the average "money slave" turns over all his (usually it is a male) money any more than a sub who loves to give up sexual control wants to be maimed or killed. The slave is dominated and part of the domination is by spending a painful (but not impossible) amount of money on the mistress. Some times this will include forking over a set amount of money sometime it involves taking the mistress for a painfully expensive shopping trip. Sometimes it involves being not quite able to meet the demand and begging for some relief while the mistress in her soft voice tells "you sniveling piece of etc etc not to call again for three days and then only to beg forgiveness and tell me you have found the money I do you the honor of accepting. And don't you dare masturbate or climax in any way until you call me with the money."
It is a form of control exchange that some subs find very exciting and many dommes find lucrative.
I checked it out years ago and just seemed to require too much effort to weed out all the phonies. Although I think a few have done well it.
Can't imagine what the paying half gets out of this arrangement.
The hooker is just going to put the guy in debt.
There can't be many who partake in such stupidity.
I'd get less than nothing out of it myself but I can at least imagine the kind of person who'd get a kick out of it.
He'd have to have an abysmally low self image and crave the humiliation of being led around by his dick and his wallet at the same time.
Not for me and not for FatVulva. But there are twisted personalities who crave such abuse. Hell, there are some guys who love to have girls crush their balls with high heels. Takes all kinds.
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why's that?
Guys that are into it love it. It is a way to give up power, control and it is a highly popular fetish.
but so far in my case at least, No takers. lol
That about sums it up.
I have been involved in Findomming once, it took a lot of trust, and waaay too much of my time. He was a needy little bastard.
I prefer regular ol' bdsm, especially considering some of these doms don't realize they are getting flipped-
findomming is the oldest trick in the book to turn out a domina- they dangle the "I want to be your slave and turn everything over" and next you get a former self respecting domina jumping through hoops like you wouldn't believe, for an idea, or the wisp of a promise.