Occasionally I'll happen upon someone who focuses on the experience and personality of their dates in the same way a lot of my reviewers and favorite guys do... When that happens I have an inkling that we'd get a long great.
Also there's a certain subset of ladies who market themselves in a way I think I do also, a certain "type" if you will that encompasses persona, physicality, rates, etc. If someone has seen a few ladies in that category I also tend to think we'd be a match.
Is that weird? Do other ladies notice that? Would you ever think to say, hey I think we might get along? Guys, is that intrusive? Would you want someone to share their observation with you or do you generally have a handle on your type and who you want to see?
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that I would probably get along with a person based on who they've reviewed and the content of their reviews?
Occasionally I'll happen upon someone who focuses on the experience and personality of their dates in the same way a lot of my reviewers and favorite guys do... When that happens I have an inkling that we'd get a long great.
Also there's a certain subset of ladies who market themselves in a way I think I do also, a certain "type" if you will that encompasses persona, physicality, rates, etc. If someone has seen a few ladies in that category I also tend to think we'd be a match.
Is that weird? Do other ladies notice that? Would you ever think to say, hey I think we might get along? Guys, is that intrusive? Would you want someone to share their observation with you or do you generally have a handle on your type and who you want to see?
Not strange at all, if you ask me.
I think intuitive, thoughtful providers tend to gravitate to similar clientele. Moreover, that intuition leads to those providers developing a network of like-minded companions who I would imagine naturally share connections/previous relationships that seemed to work well for them.
If that leads to more clients meeting up with ladies that are of a specific "type" that really seem to hit all their buttons (physically, psychologically, intellectually, etc.), I can't see that as anything but a good thing! Word of mouth is a boon to almost every business (and, in the case of the hobby, also makes for a pretty cheeky double-entendre =P).
Not for nothing, Norah, but an ATF of mine name-dropped you once as not only gorgeous but also a similar personality type/similar EQ and IQ. It's interesting seeing you author this post. Small universe. =)
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If i get the chance its a great way to get a feel for my client and get to know what kind of guy he is and what kind of session he wants. I also use it as a filter for guys i know i won't get along with.
Sexuality isn't just about body parts bumping together.
The anticipation of the date, along with a narrative in the mind of the client about what the gal is thinking and what will happen is a big part of the experience.
Gals who understand this have a large advantage.
is a big part of the fun - the build up, flirting etc. This is so much better and more satisfying if both parties feel confident they will get along in person when they meet.
I've had two providers who didn't like the contents of my reviews and declined a meeting, which I appreciate entirely.
One of these who declined, I'd love to run into at a meet and greet because I'd like to hang out and have a drink with her, even though she's not interested in a one on one, she's super cool and interesting.
I know what works for me and what doesn't. I'll read only the general information, I'll look at her website and any other data I can find.
In general I end up with a wonderful time. A few had commented that they had wished that we met under different circumstances. My memories of them are absolutely cherished.
I had one provider initiate contact based on reading my reviews and said she'd like to connect. Of course it was the slow period just before the holidays, so I am sure she was rainmaking.
I think it is awesome. I have had several providers reach out to me via PM saying that they read my reviews and thought we'd be a good match. Were they all genuine? Who knows. Marketing ploy? Possibly. But it is a awesome feeling to log on and find a message waiting expressing such sentiments. I have also stumbled upon certain providers reviews and thought the same thing, which provoked me to reach out to said provider.
Both work in this business. It's like emails, a few pointing out a good deal once in awhile is usually welcomed, at least my me. Hearing from an advertiser everyday makes me want to unsubscribe and never buy anything from them. So I think you answer is that it's not really intrusive unless you over do it with the cold calling.
...from providers who either read one of my reviews or saw a post of mine on the forum and PM'd me. Usually the session turns out to be amazing!
It isn't strange at all. I've had the luxury of meeting a couple of ladies who have responded in kind to posts that I've made along the way. One of them has in fact become my ATF when I visit her city and the chemistry is off the charts. All because she responded to a post I had made that just had her dying laughing. I might have found her otherwise, but who knows for sure.
Not intrusive and you never know they may have noticed you too but are simply waiting for the paths to cross.
Great question and post.
That is why I'm providing. In this industry I can be with a man I would never otherwise meet or connect, but when we arrange that date, you wonder what will unfold. I'm the wild type, I am intrigued by men so different to me, if find it fun. That's not to say I don't like those similar to me, but those who aren't, are just so exciting and sexy....they say variety is the spice of life, and I intend to try every flavor. But then I am the easy going friendly type that likes and gets on with everyone, but with a naughty side...
Sweet naughty kisses,
Frederica
I've also had a few providers reach out to me based on reviews an post. I'm flattered as well. I read reviews an get a feel for some chemistry. An when I give references an get a positive referral I've been told they looked forward to seeing me. In fact the last girl I saw said I was a breath of fresh air. Thus we are here to help one another.
I wouldn't think it would be intrusive. Isn't it pretty much what clients do when looking for a provider? If I see an ad for someone I may be interested in seeing I'll go through a checklist to research if we may be compatible.
What's wrong with a provider doing the same thing?
Occasionally I'll happen upon someone who focuses on the experience and personality of their dates in the same way a lot of my reviewers and favorite guys do... When that happens I have an inkling that we'd get a long great.
Also there's a certain subset of ladies who market themselves in a way I think I do also, a certain "type" if you will that encompasses persona, physicality, rates, etc. If someone has seen a few ladies in that category I also tend to think we'd be a match.
Is that weird? Do other ladies notice that? Would you ever think to say, hey I think we might get along? Guys, is that intrusive? Would you want someone to share their observation with you or do you generally have a handle on your type and who you want to see?
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for the insightful responses. It's good to know it's not all snark and vitriol here. I generally avoid it for those reasons. Honestly expected a bit more negativity!
Now to whisper in a few reviewers ears!
xo