I have read some reviews on TER that are at times mixed. I prefer BBBJ and DFK. Some reviews will say lady did that, or in another review stated they did not. Hence the mixed reviews. Some may be bogus. Therefore. I would like to ask the lady on the phone, whether she does these things. So I won't waste my time. But some ads say "no explicit" talk.
Ladies your thoughts?
If I knew you were WatchDoctor and had 20 something reviews I would answer if emailed
I don't take calls until the day of our meeting when you arrive
But if I didn't have any info like that I would not answ
and the provider has more than 5 reviews - it could be a personal hygiene issue with the reviewer and the provider chose to change her methods for that session.
If the hobbyist that is asking the questions is well established on a board with reviews and references, I have no problem answering his questions on the phone, text or email.
I will be happy to answer any questions about services, sessions, rates, etc., but only after you have been screened/verified
You have no idea what the reviewer is like, especially from her perspective.
I would not answer questions like that, aside from any legal reason, because I have no idea what you will be like when I meet you. Hopefully you're spotlessly clean, with no skin problems on your genitals, teeth brushed, and a recently shaved face. But I have no idea about any of that over the phone or email, so why would I promise something I maybe couldn't deliver?
is to be the best you can be. By that I mean as clean as possible. As gentlemanly as you can and as polite as you can. Who knows what might happen once she is comfortable with you?
I was seeing a young lady (and still do occasionally) that was fairly new to the hobby who only did CBJ. After a few dates I simply asked her why she didn't offer BBBJ and she told me that when she first started, a date practically held her down and came in her mouth. She didn't like it for obvious reasons. She felt really comfortable with me and I told her I would never even think about trying something as childish and stupid as that but that due some health issues (diabetes) I have lost a lot of sensitivity and that BB was much better for me. She knew that I wouldn't take advantage of her so she started offering that simple service for me only.
Once she got used to it she actually learned to like it better herself. Apparently condoms taste pretty nasty. Had it not been for my patience and generosity ( I was more than willing to pay a premium for that little service) we probably wouldn't have gotten past the first date but I saw a sweet lady with potential and I worked on developing that potential.
Posted By: USGrantlover
Now THATS funny lol
You working on developing her potential
You sound like a pimp
Posted By: Bsecret55
is to be the best you can be. By that I mean as clean as possible. As gentlemanly as you can and as polite as you can. Who knows what might happen once she is comfortable with you?
I was seeing a young lady (and still do occasionally) that was fairly new to the hobby who only did CBJ. After a few dates I simply asked her why she didn't offer BBBJ and she told me that when she first started, a date practically held her down and came in her mouth. She didn't like it for obvious reasons. She felt really comfortable with me and I told her I would never even think about trying something as childish and stupid as that but that due some health issues (diabetes) I have lost a lot of sensitivity and that BB was much better for me. She knew that I wouldn't take advantage of her so she started offering that simple service for me only.
Once she got used to it she actually learned to like it better herself. Apparently condoms taste pretty nasty. Had it not been for my patience and generosity ( I was more than willing to pay a premium for that little service) we probably wouldn't have gotten past the first date but I saw a sweet lady with potential and I worked on developing that potential.
Yep that's me. Pimpin her from a 120/hr to 200/hr. She was appreciative that I was patient with her and helped her improve her income. You are entitled to your opinion but I was happy with the outcome and so was she. So tell me, have you never learned something from a client that improved your services?
Maybe my wording on the above didn't explain the event in the proper light but that is basically what happened.
bless your heart I'm sure you meant well.
What do you mean by those statements?
I'm not sure what you are trying to imply or just what you are getting at but I can say that my reviews and my white lists speak for themselves. I am always a gentleman and if you find a single provider that has seen me who will state otherwise then she is not being truthful. Even on the bad dates that I have had I was never rude or forceful in any way.
I may have worded my original post poorly. I was tired and not thinking clearly but the point I was trying to get across is that you don't need to ask those questions if you are patient and try to be nice. It usually works out better that way.
Obviously your "pimping" didn't bother the lady or she would have stopped seeing you. i didn't see anything wrong with your wording nor your approach. Teaching someone that a bad experience doesn't mean that all similar experiences are going to be bad doesn't equate with pimping on any level. If the lady had no interest in trying BBBJ she would have flat out said no, instead she learned that what she disliked about BBBJ was the forceful head holding. Much ado about nothing.
If the new friend is well reviewed, it is my general feeling for me, personally, that he has read my reviews and can see what has been the experiences that are very explicit. No need for explicit chat. I open am willing to hear the needs of a potential new friend- I can at that point either say yes, I am willing to meet meaning yes, I can accommodate your desires OR no, not for me and happy hunting.
Just don't think it is wise for any of us to be encouraging chatting like that without meeting first...too much potential to encourage entrapment games by those who could misunderstand that it is only the companionship that is being suggested with playful potential between two excited and open adults. Wish things were different...sigh
I like to kiss in an email, but I'll save the explicit talk for BCD's.
Posted By: WatchDoctor
I have read some reviews on TER that are at times mixed. I prefer BBBJ and DFK. Some reviews will say lady did that, or in another review stated they did not. Hence the mixed reviews. Some may be bogus. Therefore. I would like to ask the lady on the phone, whether she does these things. So I won't waste my time. But some ads say "no explicit" talk.
Ladies your thoughts?
Im more than happy to discuss whatever you like after screening. My preference is email.
However, if it's info that's readily available with the smallest bit of research, it can get slightly frustrating after the 5th time.
But Im happy to alleviate legitimate concerns so that our session will be all you hope and more..
i don't. most ladies prefer not to talk specifics on the phone. i wouldn't ask. if a lady in her ad or review says GFE she probably will if she is comfortable doing it. so it is back in your court. be fresh out of the shower clean(or have a quick rinse when you arrive, esp with summer coming) and have brushed teeth(again, you can carry a brush and paste and do a quick brush when you arrive.) a question i do ask is does she like men with beards. that could be a factor on whether or not DFK or DATY.
the old sailor
If you are gonna dine at the "Y", you need to do brushing teeth 4 hours before and wait to 4 hrs after dining due to the fact that tooth brushes cause tiny lil cuts in your gums that are like the Grand Canyon for nasty lil bugs to get through
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Soooo, brush, floss, swish as above and only eat like yogurt, etc. that does not get wedged between your teeth, or eat things that don't have offensive odors. Then swish and mint up until dessert is served, THEN after eating "dessert for the soul" pig out on your fav food all you want;P~~ This goes for the ladies taking "cream" for their coffee;P~~ Bonn Appetite;P~~
Yogurt gives you Dragon Breath. Go for fruit instead. Go ahead and eat that whole pineapple and wash it down with some coconut water. It should fix you right up.
Posted By: birdluvr69
If you are gonna dine at the "Y", you need to do brushing teeth 4 hours before and wait to 4 hrs after dining due to the fact that tooth brushes cause tiny lil cuts in your gums that are like the Grand Canyon for nasty lil bugs to get through
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Soooo, brush, floss, swish as above and only eat like yogurt, etc. that does not get wedged between your teeth, or eat things that don't have offensive odors. Then swish and mint up until dessert is served, THEN after eating "dessert for the soul" pig out on your fav food all you want;P~~ This goes for the ladies taking "cream" for their coffee;P~~ Bonn Appetite;P~~
Sounds tasty to me;P~~~ Looking to try that prior to my next "dessert" next week;P~~~~~
Posted By: birdluvr69
If you are gonna dine at the "Y", you need to do brushing teeth 4 hours before and wait to 4 hrs after dining due to the fact that tooth brushes cause tiny lil cuts in your gums that are like the Grand Canyon for nasty lil bugs to get through
(
Soooo, brush, floss, swish as above and only eat like yogurt, etc. that does not get wedged between your teeth, or eat things that don't have offensive odors. Then swish and mint up until dessert is served, THEN after eating "dessert for the soul" pig out on your fav food all you want;P~~ This goes for the ladies taking "cream" for their coffee;P~~ Bonn Appetite;P~~
i guess my point is getting lost. I treat the women I have met thru TER and other sources as ladies. I am on my best behavior and act the same as i would with a lady i had met thru "On-line dating r us". With any lady there is a donation, sometimes portraits of franklin in a plain envelope, sometimes dinner and dancing, sometimes physical labor. would you ask a lady from "On-line dating r us" about BBBJ or DFK before meeting them? try that approach and see what the outcome is.
the old sailor
Not being critical----just pointing out something that is of a safety nature that can be followed, or ignored, that's all
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