I started as an escort in 2009.  
By 2010, I started exploring some simple fetishes and become very involved in the Mistress world until 2012 when I left the business to marry my very vanilla boyfriend.  
I was honest from day one when we met that my dream was to have a dungeon play space.
I left the entire escort/Dom lifestyle until 2015.  
My husband is super vanilla.  
I knew that before we married.  
I respect his personal limits and thought I could keep my playtime urges in check.  
I have come to the conclusion I cannot as it has caused frustration on my part.  
He is now tolerating my adventures and even indulging me as far as being on board that in a custom home we will be building in the Fall, I will have a 400 square foot space that will be sound proofed so nobody has to worry about screaming and I can have a fantasy safe retreat!
I will have a bathroom with a spa bath tub so my subbie can com relax his muscles before or after a session, a shower with a bench incase I can ever give golden showers!
a small private changing room
very small private bedroom for me to sleep in so I can allow my subbies to sleep in a puppy cage overnight to escape reality
Many tvs to play videos I have made or other porn channels in between some of my favorite pictures I have taken of myself with or without subbies and girlfriends over the years
St Andrews Cross whipping Area with every paddle size and shape on display
massage table to tie my subbies down with some medical devices such as estim or to bend him over for some sissy training
vanity area with lots of mirrors and clothes for cross dressing fun with a worship chair for me to sit back and enjoy my subbies efforts to please me  
small table with mini refrigerator so my subbie can have some snacks
this is to start.
Tell me what you would add!!!