People choose who they see whether it's the provider or the hobbyist.  There will always be someone who prefers white to black, thin to heavy, able-bodied to physically challenged, etc.  

This hobby is all about preference and choice.  I'm not saying its right or wrong for a provider to turn down someone for her own reasons, but it is her choice and her right.  On the other hand, we as providers are selected and passed over for the same reasons.  I am sometimes passed over because I am black, not thin, or too short.  Can I complain?  No, because the hobbyist is paying money for sevices so he has a right to choose.  So, can a hobbyist legitimately complain about a provider who turns him away because she has that same right??  Not really...it's the provider's time and services (and body) for sale (or rent! lol)  and she can choose who she wants however she wants.  That's why there are vast differences in rates, screening requirements, and available providers.  

Besides, why would a hobbyist want to spend time with someone who for whatever reason is not comfortable in his presence anyway, whether he is black, white, overweight, disabled, etc?  He should spend more time seeking out those who ARE interested in his company as much as he is interested in theirs.  It's her perogative just as much as it is his when he selected her over another provider.  All money is green, but definitely not equal in this business...thats the unfortunate truth.

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I will pass up providers if they are black. This is just a perference of mine. Well, Talaya MAY be able to sway me, but anywyas, don't forget that providers should like their "job" and their job involves possibly being intimate. If they have a preference, then I think they have a right to chose. I know that some providers dont have a preference except the almighty dollar and that's okay too. Dont forget that both party's should be having fun or else it defeats the entire purpose. And if the provider isn't having fun, then it's not likely that the hobbyist will be either...unless she's a good actress. And I know there are a few out there.

Re: Heck that happens all the time!

Heck this happens all the time.  There have been agencies that would not provide service and girls (more than a few in Chicago -- and Chicago along with the deep South are probably the worst locations).

However, there is a good side to it.  There are more than a few providers who have never been with a black guy who are more than turned on by the opportunity.  I have had many more encounters of this sort...and when it happens WOW!  I just met a girl in Seattle (Heather) where it happened...what an evening that was.  There are other caucasian females that just adore black males and will provide additional time or a more intimate experience because they just dig black guys.  Then there are black ladies who prefer not to be with black guys.  What a weird world we live in.

The moral of the story (moral -- is that an oxymoron in this hobby?) is that there is good and bad to being black...we just have to accept it and move on...and hope for more Heathers out there!  (Okay, and Renee and Mandy, and Vanessa and Devon and Erica and Amber and Rachel and Alyssa and Alex and Laney...oh my!)...sirslam

I would have to say:
D. The answer is C but she must tell us about it upfront.

If a girl is going to restrict who she sees, she should be open about it. If I was a one eye purple people eater I wouldn't want to visit a girl who detests one eyed people eaters since I'm guessing the visit wouldn't be a whole lot of fun for either of us.

I personally don't have any restrictions on race, weight, etc.  I'm what you would call an Equal Opportunity Escort