I have never liked the concept of facials.  I know some providers offer them to keep away from having CIM but to offer more than ending a BJ with their hand and on their chest.  However, I only see some guy aiming his "vesuviusalino" (LMFAO ROFL) at some provider's beautiful face and painting it as detracting from the overall experience and objectifying the provider.  I know many will feel differently...and I am just curious what it provides them.  I have never considered it, and I find it so much more sexy in a porno when a woman makes him come in her mouth, either from her sucking (preferred) or from him jacking off and aiming well.

I could see it if it was someone you are in a "relationship" with, and it is a role play thing, and maybe that has something to do with it for the people who enjoy it.  For me, though, it would be a totally different expereince to have a woman I was involved with for a while who I repected as a "lover" and not just as a provider and a woman say to me that she wanted me to objectify her.  That would be a mental turn on.  With a provider, though, I want to focus on the physical pleasure, and
the mental would be so much more into the newness, and the lust, and the observing of her abilities, than objectifying her right off the bat.

Don't get me wrong...I mean, more power to those who love it, men and women.  As long as it doesn't hurt someone, all sex is good sex.  I just don't understand the appeal of face painting.

Porn is mostly a visual medium (no one ever buys porn for
sound editing do they?) and facials are very visual.  I
guess some things that are watched on screen are carried over
into real life.

In my opinion, in real life, pulling out is never as good as
staying in.

fr

I've never seen the appeal. For a boyfriend or husband if he were really into it...I'd do it to please him.

For a stranger I just met and most likely won't see again? Nope, I can't see that being a turnon or even something just to be tolerated. But like you said: whatever floats your boat. I think it's just a visual thing for the man.

Splooge me baby, its taboo and I want you

I wanna watch you jack off all over my pretty face. I want to look you dead in the eye and watch you writhe toward your inevitability. I want to lick up every last drop and and smear it over my mouth as I flip my vibrator to high and thrust myself on your face till you can't breathe.
Sexy is as sexy does. Its a two way street, whose walking with me? Yeah? I'm talkin' tou you!

*...Pitter-patter...*

Isn't that always the case? If a lady asks for it. I think that it might be hot. I doubt many women outside the hobby ever ask for it unless they have a little bit o' kink in their psyche. And thus we come to the crux of the matter. Its the kink factor. If every woman you ever met liked it and asked for it you'd never really fantasize about it.  But if your wife is a WASP and fairly conservative you're dying for just a little raunch once in awhile. I want to give hmy wife a facial not because I have a big thing for facials and for the record I think that's the lamest part of a porn video. But I want to do it BECAUSE I saw it in a porn video and I just want her to be a little deviant. There's plenty of other ways she could be a freak but that one would be a small step, doesn't cause pain, isn't too weird, doesn't involve other people or strange objects. In fact on the scampr-kink-o-meter it's pretty near the bottom. But it's a start!

that I love to smear and lick your waste all over my face.

Me either. I'm not a big fan of facials. Not into it. I hit the FF button when I see that in a p0rN. Matter of fact, I was never into CIM either until it actually happened with one provider. I don't mind having a CBJ but if the provider gives me a BBBJ I won't turn it down but I don't think I could do a facial to a lady. Even IF SHE thinks its sexy. And I try nowadays (since that first provider who introduced it to me) to not CIM.


Guz

Re: Here's Why !! -- But What is Bukkake???

Serious question serious answer.
Probably "deep down" it's a control thing. This
beautiful girl who really wants you to bust a
huge coconut down her throat (ok, I only do
facial if she has refused CIM, but it's a
fantasy, right?) loses your big cock - b/c YOU
are the boss. But then you decide, you let
loose a heat-shooting missile launcher, she sees
what will happen to her, she writhes, but she
can not resist staying, she squeezes her eyes
shut to avoid the sting, waits for the
inevitable (see the control fantasy) and then
zam-zam-zam, you are a m-f ing George W letting
loose a thousand billion exploding shooting Chads
all over the target, she doesn't even know how
many there'll be, when to open her eyes, oh god
your the boss p-l-e-a-s-e don't get it in my hair
I'll have to wash it and be late for next gig,
andit's hot and sticky, it's all over her, you are
the Painter, not the painted!

Geez, am I the only one ??

I like them because I enjoy watching the ever-unpredictable male ejaculation.  It's fun to finish on her breasts, her ass, her neck, or yes, even all over her face.  And I like to see what a mess I made.  It's not because I have domination issues, I do not objectify the women I see, I just like to get a little kinky every now and then.  That's all, nothing else.

Where does it come from ??  Probably from watching a lot of porn, especially the legendary Peter North.

And, oh, by the way, click on the link below to learn more about bukkake....

--Placebo

I don't mind facials because they're harmless, and if the client really enjoys it, why not? I do feel like a porn star when they do it, and that's usually a fun feeling.

However, facials are messy and I have to wash my face/hair and redo all my make-up, so I usually don't volunteer for facial fun unless he asks first.

Have only done this very rarely, only in cases where the provider requested it...  As I've admitted in previous threads, for reasons I can't explain, having a provider slowly and encouragingly finish me on her bosom holds more appeal than facials for me.  (blushing)

I just copied the following from my reply in another thread a few months ago:

As for what has often been said about being demeaning to the woman...  I hate the idea that a provider (or any partner, for that matter) would ever see being cummed on as a gesture of overt or subconscious disrespect on my part.  Quite the opposite, there's an acceptance aspect to it that is actually kind of humbling to me.

If you think about it, the psychology of it all has its roots in practicality.  My "stuff" is always something that's had to be protected against.  Between birth control and STD prevention, there are multi-billion dollar industries built around protecting the world from my stuff.   Being that my "stuff" is the ultimate representative of, well, me, it takes on a subconscious value to the guy that may not be readily understood.  Enter a willing partner who's response ranges from "not really my thing, but I'll go along with it for you" all the way to "give it to me baby, I want it"...  Doesn't matter whether he knows she's just acting or not, the stage has been set for it to constitute a turn-on.

I remember getting it in my eye, and it stung all day long. I love getting it on my breasts, and I actually find that more of a turn on, than on the face. Just my opinion

Mel

I have a thing for CIM and NQNS. Facials are up there too.

Having thought of the subject in light of my own fascination, here's what I've come up with in terms of an explanation:

Imagine being walked in by someone while masturbating (let's say your mother). You'd probably be embarrased. Now imagine the same situation happening the second you start shooting the "stuff". Would you feel more embarrased? Probably.

Perhaps there are people for whom this is about control. For me, the turn on is far from being a gesture of control- it is about the tabooness of the whole thing. Its about opening one self up (almost literally), being in a vulnerable position, and having acceptance for it (literally as well).

Here you are making a mess, or having them consume something unpleasant, but they care so much for you, that not only do they accept it, but also enjoy it (or at least make pretense).

Sometimes I almost feel embarrased after being completed like this, almost like a child who did something really bad but received only love in return from his parents.

Weird, huh?

I'm willing to venture and say that people with this sort of fascination are probably more sensitive, especially in light of what other people feel and think.

Porn is not necessarily a reason for this fascination as it is a reason for it's discovery and reinforcement. It is definetly a visual thing, but so is a large part of sex. Perhaps, if porn didn't exist, I would have figured out what turns me on much later and after gaining a lot more experience.

What I really would like to know is the flip side of this.

For women, what does it mean when they enjoy CIM, NQNS and Facials?? Is it possibly the inverse?- that they are in control in a way. At least one provider has indicated this sentiment. Would very much enjoy hearing from providers on this.