So Ive been off the boards for awhile. Needed some quiet time, unwind etc. So just decided to cruise the photos only page and I curiously find myself going over a checklist when deciding whether to click like or not. NC in the area gets an instant like. Represent, nuff said. I also have some other quirky things. Same picture for the 100th time, skip. At least rotate or better yet take some new ones now and again. Candids I almost always like. Seeing someone as they are is great and another topic. If the picture is so brushed its ridiculous.......skip. Im also a breast man, love em all. Small, big, droopy, firm I dont care. Having a breast shot will momentarily stop the scrolling, but not an instant like. I understand but dont care for the blurry face pics, just steals from it, although the turned face is catchy. Leaves mystery while serving the same purpose. Saw one recently of a girl with an american flag around her neck, and a totally erotic look on her face......Sweet lord have mercy. Wouldve like 100 times if I could have. So ladies and gents of the Carolinas if you cruise the photos only board, do you have a checklist?
I have seen some of these beautiful ladies in other areas solely because I saw there pic on the photo page. That's what got me interested and when I was travelling to that area I was able to follow up. I like fresh pictures as well, no the same old pic thats been posted three dozen times. I don't even stop to look. I too love women's breasts. Don't care how big, small, firm or droopy. I love them ALL and if lucky a nice pic of the nipples is truly the cherry on top! I also understand that professional photos are expensive. I love candids too. But ladies you need to realize that with today's technology you don't always have to have a professional photographer. I own several expensive cameras that take amazing photos. Some I would put up against professional photographers. Lighting is everything in photo taking just remember. Today's cell phone and smart phones take nice pics also. I recently read that with the Apple iPhone alone that over 2 billion photos a day are taken using it around the world. Don't have to see your face ( I understand if you don't and why) but for those who do show face it is a bonus. The best advice in my opinion is new and fresh pics and rotate them. It keeps it fresh and fun and in my opinion keeps us guys wanting more. So as I said…it's great advertising.
Echoing the sentiments of Leon and Ian on the photo issue.
With time ladies, your photos tend to get "stale". We've seen the same ones of you
so many times, that (a) we dont' bother to look at them anymore, and (b) after we
have seen the same ones over and over a dozen or more times, they aren't exciting
anymore. Lack of excitement is a lack of interest and is NOT good for your business.
As the previous posters have indicated, not all of your pictures need to be professionally
done, and certainly NOT airbrushed! Airbrushing is cheating and most of us can discern
an airbrushed photo in a heartbeat. Airbrushed photos are often a turn off. Blurred
facials are a turn off too (although, as others have suggested, we DO understand your
reasoning behind blurring, even though we don't necessarily like it). Airbrushing is
like make-up: too much, and it makes you look tooooo artificial and too perfect, and
its' not necessary. Men still like the ladies, and if you have a less than perflect flaw,
don't worry about it. Chances are, most men can and will live with it, and accept you as
you are.
My 2 cents worth..........have a great one!
maybe son one should started Fred stipulating what they want to seeing a picture whether it's pink underwear pink brawl or countrified with the cowboy hat or on a horse or kiss and a pig I don't fracking know just describe something guys want to see probably would be helpful to all us girls and be fun to interact that way do you guys think
Ya'll are totally right, the same pics are not exciting and therefore is bad for you business!! I have a few favorites and use them, but I really need a couple new photo sessions, does not have to be proffessional either! With a decent camera and some lighting, it works fine!! I will say, my Iphone does take some pretty clear picture though!!!!
Thanks guys, great post!!!
LB
I don't check out the "Photo Only" Board very often so I couldn't find the flag photo you mentioned. As a patriot, and lover of the female form, I'd like to see it. At least give me a date to search ... Please.
Oh yea, thats the one............yowza
due to blurring and I totally understand & support the privacy reason. But that still makes them rare and thus even more titillating.
A happy smile, showing off an angle or feature that she loves about her body, in a lighting and setting that flatters her...oh yeah! Some pictures are clearly "must have photo" robotic, while others showcase an individual's creativity - even selfies can do that.
Pro shots, glamour shots, friend shots, and selfie shots all serve to communicate the person whom you're considering meeting. It's artwork with a purpose of bringing two people together, but also captures a moment in time, a brief glimpse into someone's life. I dig it.
My personal kryptonite is an arched eyebrow, a lightly bitten lip, hair slightly tussled, erect nipple, and a tanline. But not everyone is a good subject for such a photo. Hell, I could take that photo of myself and it'd be horrible!
I get that the ladies don't want their faces shown, or that they may want to blur out a tat or other mark that could id them in the "real" world, but using out of date, or totally airbrushed photos is totally misleading. Not to mention using someone else's photo.
And new photos are always appreciated, as we do get tired of the same old ones.
i recently just had my 1st real photo shoot (always used selfies...lol)
and i made sure to tell photographer i want to still look like me...lol
so what i did was keep a block of selfies and a block for photographers pics so gents can see and determine for theirselves
just my 2 cents...lol
Your pics look great on 411. Damm bucket list just keeps getting larger.
and i made sure to tell photographer i want to still look like me...lol
so what i did was keep a block of selfies and a block for photographers pics so gents can see and determine for theirselves
just my 2 cents...lol
and the pic's are real !